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What have you discovered on SH that you never expected?

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Quote by bIoke
Does that make me a traitor/lesbian?

Yes. lol
I discovered, that with the exception of my Tom, I find I dont like other men at all.
I discovered that women, unlike their genuine and sincere male counterparts, will say absolutely any old thing just to get laid....and they won't think twice about telling a fib.
I'm dismayed.....and more than just a little upset to think I've been so naive for so long.
:sad:
Quote by skinny
I discovered that women, unlike their genuine and sincere male counterparts, will say absolutely any old thing just to get laid....and they won't think twice about telling a fib.
I'm dismayed.....and more than just a little upset to think I've been so naive for so long.
:sad:

Are you for real ??
Quote by Monica-and-tom
I discovered that women, unlike their genuine and sincere male counterparts, will say absolutely any old thing just to get laid....and they won't think twice about telling a fib.
I'm dismayed.....and more than just a little upset to think I've been so naive for so long.
:sad:

Are you for real ??
Who....Me? coffee
Quote by Monica-and-tom
Are you for real ??

No, he's quite right. Shocking some of the tricks you girlies will pull to get us far-too-trusting honest blokes into bed: women posing as blokes, women posing as couples, women pretending to be straight when they're bi, or pretending to be bi when they're straight. It's well known. Notorious for it so they are.
one or two total arse holes, ( yes you know ), and a lot of nice peeple :thumbup:
This site is a microcosm of society in all aspects.
Quote by Staggerlee_BB
Amongst all the positives, all the friends , the thing I was most surprised to find was narrow minded bigotry .... I must be very naive

In terms of that being the very last thing I expected to find I have to echo this. When I joined I knew next to nothing about swinging, or swingers, and as such was very naive. ((( Some might say I still am in many respects? ))) I imagined that swingers must by definition be deep thinkers posessed of deep emotional intelligence, to have so gone against societal norms and opened up their relationships to third parties. It came as quite a shock when I eventually realised they can be every bit as petty and close-minded as the rest of society, quite often claiming this particular personal liberty for themselves while being seemingly unprepared to extend to others a similar freedom in other areas. Sexuality would be just one example where you'll frequently find some are not nearly so open-minded as I once imagined, which seems completely at odds with 'the lifestyle' for want of a better word.
Quote by Staggerlee_BB
Amongst all the positives, all the friends , the thing I was most surprised to find was narrow minded bigotry .... I must be very naive

I was and am optimistic...and probably naive too lol
Quote by Monica-and-tom
I discovered, that with the exception of my Tom, I find I dont like other men at all.

What about women?
Quote by Derek_kelp
I discovered, that with the exception of my Tom, I find I dont like other men at all.

What about women?
many lol
Quote by Derek_kelp
I discovered, that with the exception of my Tom, I find I dont like other men at all.

What about women?
many lol
I discovered that when I comment on, or post a new topic in the forum....I'm not always taken seriously! :taz:
We discovered `SWING CAMP` have been 3 years on the bounce now smile
A brilliant weekend with sometimes not so brilliant weather ....but the people we meet & friendships we make are amazing !
I discovered I could go on holiday with a lady from here...and it's something akin to courting. I had a fab 4 days and am planning a trip with another lady.
It's something more than swinging, but you know it's still NSA.
Quote by Monica-and-tom
I discovered, that with the exception of my Tom, I find I dont like other men at all.

What about women?
many lol
Your not the only lady like that.