what hinders your peformance?

25 Oct 2005

Quote by berksbex
My lack of self confidence hinders my performance.....
to be honest i don't look at my best naked :lol2: and because i am so self concious about what i look like it really does stop be from letting go and enjoying myself, i just spend the whole time thinking about how bad i must look to the other person

I sometimes feel like that too....but after a few minutes of play all that goes out of the window and I forget (until i see the photos the next day!) That person has chosen to be with you, so you can't look that bad to them smile

i do understand where you are coming from in a way but i think a lot of guys see women (more so in clubs) as any holes a goal and i do sometimes wonder if they are with me cause they do like me or if its cause i'm a woman whos 'up for it' if that makes any sence at all :?

25 Oct 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
My lack of self confidence hinders my performance.....
to be honest i don't look at my best naked :lol2: and because i am so self concious about what i look like it really does stop be from letting go and enjoying myself, i just spend the whole time thinking about how bad i must look to the other person

I have that problem too NN.
It got to the stage once where I wouldn't even let my boyfriend see me naked - ever!
Nowadays I'm still pretty much the same but I'm coming to terms with things and I'm slowly getting a little better but still wish I could just let the issue go and enjoy myself properly. Easier said than done though!
smile

25 Oct 2005

Quote by onlyme1981
My lack of self confidence hinders my performance.....
to be honest i don't look at my best naked :lol2: and because i am so self concious about what i look like it really does stop be from letting go and enjoying myself, i just spend the whole time thinking about how bad i must look to the other person

I have that problem too NN.
It got to the stage once where I wouldn't even let my boyfriend see me naked - ever!
Nowadays I'm still pretty much the same but I'm coming to terms with things and I'm slowly getting a little better but still wish I could just let the issue go and enjoy myself properly. Easier said than done though!
smile

yes it is
theres a lot to be said for dark rooms ion clubs :lol2:

25 Oct 2005

i still am quite shy and insecure about my body, but it is only a problem in the very short term, as most people i have met up with have been fantastic.
they have always made me feel at ease, so then i can relax.
i also have a common as muck accent, which i think also puts people off, although nobody has ever mentioned it, but then again, i thinks it's just me with the problem.
apart from that, nothing else really effects my performance.