Hey! Continuing the "swinging definitions" series... can you give me your own personal understanding of this highly controversial word. Like some other well-known words and phrases, this seems to have positive and negative connotations depending on whose lips it is coming out of. My knee-jerk reaction is to see it as a term of abuse, but of course often on here it is a term of endearment, and sometimes an attribute to be praised, respected even.
So... what does slut mean, to you? Is it a good thing or a bad thing to be a slut? Do you identify as one?
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I take it to be a lady, sometimes a guy who will fuck anyone. I don’t use it myself, but normally think of it as a backhanded term of affection (on SH).
To me it's always been people who use sex to get what they want, rather than sex being the goal. They use it to manipulate, control or bribe people. So far I've not seen anyone on SH I'd call a slut.
The word slut is used to mean a person, usually a woman, who is sexually promiscuous.
n.b. a prostitute is often referred to as a slut, and indeed a prostitute may be a slut...however a slut is not necessarily a prostitute.
The use of the word "slut" in our language is sometimes endearing, sometimes otherwise, and, like many such words, it's meaning will be dependent upon the user and the context in which it is used.
I consider myself a slut.
i prefer to think of it as a woman you meet and know only she will do certain things with you that you wouldnt expect from anyone else.
exciting and never boring.
As usual its one of those words that changes depending on the situation and the people involved.
My Master calls me a slut and the ole knees go weak.
A muppet stranger in the chat whispers and calls me a slut it tends to anger me.
Have to admit though that I find it hard when someone with "slut" in their profile name comes into chat to call them that, I usually find another part of their name to call them by.
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hmmmmmm slut !!
its a whole persona and is amazing when completed with the a slutty outfit and a suck ya cock red red lipstick
dirty blond hair and a ladder in the stockings
i must admit to the fact that when Liza decides we are going to have a slutty evening its normally a very long night with her doing anything and everything to keep me going and horny
slutting is indeed an art form :twisted: :twisted:
Someone that is filthy/dirty. I actually do like using the word in role play situations.
Personally I don't like the word as it is often used in a derogatory way in the outside world. At the end of the day words are just that ...words. It's how we interpretate them that counts and with a word like 'slut' it's one that I won't be using as it can be interpretated in a negative and insulting way.
There are many definitions and interpretations, many of which have already been mentioned. If you are a slut then I think you would know.
I personally use the term often, I like sluts. As people they do not pretend to be something that they are not, you can take them or leave them.
I find that quality rare in a person, but sluts have it in abundance.
Not a word I think I'd use for a lady really, just seems 'off' really unless as a piece of clearly mutual fun in play?
I do think it depends the meaning depends on the person using that word.
I don't like to think of myself as a slut in a negative fashion: ie someone who is dirty/slovenly (which I certainly am not) and I don't sleep with everyone and anyone, I like to be picky to an extent and I won't do whatever requested of me regardless of if it's what I want or not: I would only do what myself and other parties involved are going to mutually enjoy.
So in terms of someone saying a slut and meaning actually a "whore" or a negative use of the word slut, I don't like it.
But as has also been said on here some people use it as a back handed compliment and a term of endearment for a sexy person who sleeps with multiple people: often called "being promiscuous" I think being called promiscuous is actually far more insulting, no one really wants to hear that; so as a back handed compliment and alternative I would prefer the word slut.
'Slut' is not a word I'd use. :undecided:
But 'slutty'? Oh yeah! :rascal:
Slut, to many it has different meanings but since you asked what it means in Swinging terminology there is only one real answer.
A slut is a term used mostly in the BDSM aspect of swinging and is a term of endearment, praise and praise, it should not be used in the swinging scene to mean anything else.
Unfortunately some people don't realise how insulting words can be, I read a profile today that said "fem is curvy" the descriptive box was ticked as ample, but the profile then went on to say "not looking for skinny people"
To me that is offensive, I am slim, I am not skinny, I don't say "Not looking for fat people, I don't even say "not looking for people who are obese" my profile says "Looking for people who are slim like ourselves"
If people don't want to be called fatties and the like they should show equal respect.
Use the term "slut" within it's swinging definition or don't use it at all.
How many men would like to be labelled similarly because they seek multiple partners, should we call some men "gaggers" (as in gagging for anyone) or Onmagas (One man gangbangers) or just simply male sluts, I think not.
I have a male friend I call a slut, he is gay and loves the term because he knows I say in with respect and endearment in the true lifestyle way.
I (Jamal) do sometimes like talking dirty to Cara and will tell her she will be a cum slut, or behave slutty but only in the sexual context.
When i use it that way its usually when its a chat about gang bangs, or more than one guy etc.
But i could never use the term in normal language, for me its the same as saying 'cunt' which i find difficult to use.
Also i have come to think that men are actually more "slutty" than women as they will sleep with anyone usually, and i presume are more likely to prefer no condoms.
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though thankfully not at the same time).