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Well there'll be one less person complaining about things :grin:
Quote by BiWelshMinx
Not every member here lives in England...
Minx x x

Yes, move to Wales, but not the valleys... they're just as bad :giggle:
I was in Oz last year and yes it is a great place (can not speak about NZ as never been there) and yes the emphasis is on being Australian. However, there ARE problems there with their own indigenous people. And yes, Blonde is correct as well - trying to get to get in there is not that easy as you have to prove that they need you.
As has been pointed out before, although I see were you are coming from Leeds, our history and the historical facts show that the Brits imposed their way of life all over the world (and so did the French, Dutch, and even the Americans as well - and that is not looking at what the Soviet Union did) these are historical facts so you can not complain too much when these countries impose their own values on their own society.
Now, being pissed off with the UK! yes I can understand that - that is why live abroad. The answer however is in your hands. The UK is more of a democracy than most other places in the world and if you do not like it you have the chance to change it (please do!) or put your money where your mouth is and join the ex-pat community.
I hear so often that there are guys in the UK who want to move abroad BUT when they are offered the chance of work, a place to stay and a life elsewhere they suddenly decide to stay back in good old Britain and continue to complain about it!
McC
Quote by essex34m390417
if you are as English as you like to think you are, tackle this the English way - stand and face the problem, dont run away, if you want it bad enough, you will get it, its out there, you just have to make it happen

Just love to hear what our ancestors would say knowing they fought for this. I’m not running away from England I’m turning my back on England. We will get nowhere as long as we are the 51st state. We are Mini America not the England i was brought up to believe. Where has the Courage gone that we suppose to have.
Anyway enough with the government before they send men in tin foil hats to come and get me :shock: biggrin
" That was a joke "
Essex34m ty for the mention smile but as a 100% Welsh and proud lady (although looking at bloodline am officially 75% Irish-Dad 100% Irish- Mum50% Welsh) I have never thought of myself as anything more or less cos of my religion/nationality and would hope that my peers felt the same :thumbup:
Minx x x
turn the light of on your way out rolleyes
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if you are as English as you like to think you are, tackle this the English way - stand and face the problem, dont run away, if you want it bad enough, you will get it, its out there, you just have to make it happen

Just love to hear what out ancestors would say knowing they fought for this. I’m not running away from England I’m turning my back on England. We will get nowhere as long as we are the 51st state. We are Mini America not the England i was brought up to believe. Where has the Courage gone that we suppose to have.
Anyway enough with the government before they send men in tin foil hats to come and get me :shock: biggrin
" That was a joke "
Well you and your 'England' don't have a place in a lot of peoples lives-yet you have failed to acknowledge that...racist ...moi ?
Minx x x
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Well you and your 'England' don't have a place in a lot of peoples lives-yet you have failed to acknowledge that...racist ...moi ?
Minx x x
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Well you and your 'England' don't have a place in a lot of peoples lives-yet you have failed to acknowledge that...racist ...moi ?
Minx x x

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Well you and your 'England' don't have a place in a lot of peoples lives-yet you have failed to acknowledge that...racist ...moi ?
Minx x x

OK you have an English man and a Refugee man both in this country. Now English man is homeless he has been homeless for 5 years. Refugee man is also homeless as his country is at war. Lets put the refugee man into a home to show we are a good country.
This is a day and age where there is enough money to take both these men and put them both into free homes and take care of them both.
Thats not the case. So imagine how the english man feels and why he feels like that.
Once again i am far from racist.
dont want 2 put u down or anything like that but i suggest u sit down & have a long think before you do anything rash confused i had enough a few years ago & ended up living in spain for 3yrs & guess what all the problems i was running away from were still there!!! it wasnt anything to do with brittain they were all in my head :?
its no different anywhere you go, all you gotta do is have a good clear out of your head & think about all of the good things in life & the good things in brittain cuz when they have gone there aint any getting them back sad
i hope you find what you are looking for & wish you every bit of luck & happiness
dear mr leedlad...
in regards to the rant can i point out a few things.......
1) Come on government Wake up who’s F***ing country is this. Do we go to India or Pakistan and build churches in there country and tell them what they can and can’t do.
well as most people have you already, you did..... if you want a recent example try certains parts of spain that have been taken over by the english
2) I’m not racist but it seems to me like the government wants us to be. They can put these refugees into free houses with free money free food free education, But poor my England who has been homeless for the last 5 years is still eating out the bins and walking the streets in the same clothes he had on when he was first put there.
you made no difference between ecomonic migrants and people who flee for their lives.... nice of you!!!!! and between legal and illegal immegrant.. thanks for tarring everyone with the same brush.....
3) Well I have had it with this country and its greed. Next year I have plans to move over to New Zealand and from these who knows. Just wanted peoples thought and opinions on what this country has become.
well it has become a more diverse culture and understanding society......but after hearing your opinions i realise there is still a long.....LONG way to go, the way i see you can either be part of the problem... or part of the solution.... your choice.....
and before you utter the words "well what can one person do" try reading up on Rosa Parks.....she stood up for what she believed in.... and inspired a nation.. god bless her soul!!!

4) I’m a bit young but my grand parents used to remind me of when they could leave there doors open and no one would think of robbing them it just wasn’t what people did. Also children used to enjoy being young and could play safe on the streets. No the case now everyday in the news someone is Murdered, Robbed, . So what went wrong?
And you think any other city on this earth is going to be any better???? I think you are in for a shock!!!!
Sean (Proud to be American) xxxxxxxxx
Leeds lad I am with you and I am in my mid 40s. What I thonk many are missing is the point that if we visit a country we are expected to conform with there standards, however it seems that new immigranrs and even second generation incomers expect there way of life to take prcidence.
I not only blame the goverment for this situation but the liberal idealists. lets face it even Trevor Philips the head of race equality a black man him self felt that it had encouraged issolationism, this led to him being called a racist.
You are right I do not intend to see my son raised in an atmosphere of violance and a society that believes in take and screw the rest.
They are to recieve the last of my 40% tax payments in the next few months as we are upping sticks and going abroad to find a better life.
Incidentaly I have spoken out and tryed to change things in this country for the last few years but with the attitude of many inhabitants of the UK who feel that theyu have no responsability for there income or life I have just decided to give it all to the free loaders,
Life it to short to worry about this country, our life will be as we make it not what others say and legislate it should be
Thanks smile
Maybe it will do the same to me too. Just gets to me that there is up to 42,000 older people are unofficially homeless in England and Wales. Thats a lot of people and ollder meaning 50+
This is only one of the problems in this country though. Our involvement in Iraq was to be the result of 56 people all civilians killed in the 7 July 2005 London bombings. Now i would hate to be the one who got that phone call that day telling me one of my family had died.
This is all for what though to make England look good and to put us on the map.
Ohh and with a loud enough voice we can tell the government what we want. That will never happen though becasue people just accept what is happening and take it. There is no easy life. Money is made in a factory so why not give it everyone. We have been made into these people who have to be better than the next person. So while were doing this the goverment is sitting back and getting rich, And the British and the American government have us where they want us.
Quote by LeedsLad1981

Well you and your 'England' don't have a place in a lot of peoples lives-yet you have failed to acknowledge that...racist ...moi ?
Minx x x

OK you have an English man and a Refugee man both in this country. Now English man is homeless he has been homeless for 5 years. Refugee man is also homeless as his country is at war. Lets put the refugee man into a home to show we are a good country.
This is a day and age where there is enough money to take both these men and put them both into free homes and take care of them both.
Thats not the case. So imagine how the english man feels and why he feels like that.
Once again i am far from racist.
Well- I had a homeless 'junkie' brother ( my half-brother to be 'precise' but i never saw the difference) and Yes the UK (not England) had enough to house to him on benefits, but he chose to sell the Big Issue and earn for himself (as a lot of of self adimtted 'druggies' do) and he was killed for being the ''druggie'.* He was robbed (and maybe killed*) for being the person he was-he had worked all his life ( on the trains) until drugs took a hold. Now, I would love to get a-hold of the guy who sold my brother his last 'dose'and I promise you he would never deal again-but if you think this is bad-try and consider the next people who give all they have to get into the 'F A B ' UK, lives and money seem to worth feck all these days-and leedslad if u think u r not racist u need to think again.
Minx x x
* Just speculation but also a lot of evidence on my part x I am 95% sure he was killed because of drugs and he was 35...
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Thanks smile
Maybe it will do the same to me too. Just gets to me that there is up to 42,000 older people are unofficially homeless in England and Wales. Thats a lot of people and ollder meaning 50+
This is only one of the problems in this country though. Our involvement in Iraq was to be the result of 56 people all civilians killed in the 7 July 2005 London bombings. Now i would hate to be the one who got that phone call that day telling me one of my family had died.
This is all for what though to make England look good and to put us on the map.

Ignorance and uninformed accusations are the cornerstone of losing an arguement. There's no definitive link between Iraq and the London bombings. They could very well have been inspired or inflamed by events going on there, but who's to say they would have done it anyway as part of the Jihadi struggle against the west?
For your own sake, please be in possession of all the facts before making postings like that. I've learnt from my own experiences.
please get some profesional help before its to late i think u need it sad
Firstly i do agree that if people come to this country they should fit in with us not the other way round but i feel that about every country, saying that i would like to ask who went over to africa and took all the slaves? who went over to america and wiped out all the native american villages and killed them by the thousands? who went over to australia and dump all the out casts? who went to small settlments all over the world spreading illnesses.....ermm was us wasn't it? wink
oh and the india thing was a very bad example cause as maia said yes we did
It strikes me that once again leedslad if you try to put forward an opinion about the state of the country and immigration you will be accused of racism. You nad all of us in a democracy should be allowed to voice that opinion and not be insulted by small minded individuals that will always look for racism in what is said
You keep going fella, voice it how you feel it
Quote by stevio
It strikes me that once again leedslad if you try to put forward an opinion about the state of the country and immigration you will be accused of racism. You nad all of us in a democracy should be allowed to voice that opinion and not be insulted by small minded individuals that will always look for racism in what is said
You keep going fella, voice it how you feel it

i never called him racist i just pointed out that we have done the same to other country and in many cases much worse, people in glass houses thats all i'm saying wink
Quote by stevio
It strikes me that once again leedslad if you try to put forward an opinion about the state of the country and immigration you will be accused of racism. You nad all of us in a democracy should be allowed to voice that opinion and not be insulted by small minded individuals that will always look for racism in what is said
You keep going fella, voice it how you feel it

Really.... so what exactly are you advocating when it comes to immegration..... i'd love to hear it.....i am slowly getting more and more angry.....
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Firstly i do agree that if people come to this country they should fit in with us not the other way round but i feel that about every country, saying that i would like to ask who went over to africa and took all the slaves? who went over to america and wiped out all the native american villages and killed them by the thousands? who went over to australia and dump all the out casts? who went to small settlments all over the world spreading illnesses.....ermm was us wasn't it? wink
oh and the india thing was a very bad example cause as maia said yes we did

I'm talking mosque in every city though. Every town even, In leeds i think there must be over 10 mosque. I'm not being racist don't matter if there white, black or fooking green, there still over populating our country. Leaving English / Brithis people without homes / jobs. Motorways are becoming caos. Hospitals / Doctors are becoming full.
This list goes on and on and it don't take a mastermind to see where this is going. So ever balance it out by making it easy for us to work in other countrys or send some of the foreigners back before it's too late. We seem to take on these refugees and keep them here then they decide to have familys of there own and it goes on and on. to people are coming into the UK each yea.r At the end of 2003, Britain hosted around 270,000 refugees*, about 2.8% of the world's 9.7 million and 0.4% of the British population so god know where we are at now.
Anyway probs best locking this topic as we could all go on about this until out ears bleed.
Quote by fabio grooverider
It strikes me that once again leedslad if you try to put forward an opinion about the state of the country and immigration you will be accused of racism. You nad all of us in a democracy should be allowed to voice that opinion and not be insulted by small minded individuals that will always look for racism in what is said
You keep going fella, voice it how you feel it

Really.... so what exactly are you advocating when it comes to immegration..... i'd love to hear it.....i am slowly getting more and more angry.....
gives fabio a nice back massage wink
Quote by LeedsLad1981
Firstly i do agree that if people come to this country they should fit in with us not the other way round but i feel that about every country, saying that i would like to ask who went over to africa and took all the slaves? who went over to america and wiped out all the native american villages and killed them by the thousands? who went over to australia and dump all the out casts? who went to small settlments all over the world spreading illnesses.....ermm was us wasn't it? wink
oh and the india thing was a very bad example cause as maia said yes we did

I'm talking mosque in every city though. Every town even, In leeds i think there must be over 10 mosque. I'm not being racist don't matter if there white, black or fooking green, there still over populating our country. Leaving English / Brithis people without homes / jobs. Motorways are becoming caos. Hospitals / Doctors are becoming full.
This list goes on and on and it don't take a mastermind to see where this is going. So ever balance it out by making it easy for us to work in other countrys or send some of the foreigners back before it's too late. We seem to take on these refugees and keep them here then they decide to have familys of there own and it goes on and on. to people are coming into the UK each yea.r At the end of 2003, Britain hosted around 270,000 refugees*, about 2.8% of the world's 9.7 million and 0.4% of the British population so god know where we are at now.
Anyway probs best locking this topic as we could all go on about this until out ears bleed.
I agree, if only to avoid an outright war.
Fabio the fact that it makes you anfry probably strengthens the point i am making, which is that if you choose to speak out you run the risk of being accused of racism, when perhaps A you may be telling the truth that the minority do not want to here.
Also surely in a democracy the majority should rule not adapt to the minority.
I do appologise if this does annoy you but I and the rest of the population who feel this way have the right to state these views
Quote by LeedsLad1981
Firstly i do agree that if people come to this country they should fit in with us not the other way round but i feel that about every country, saying that i would like to ask who went over to africa and took all the slaves? who went over to america and wiped out all the native american villages and killed them by the thousands? who went over to australia and dump all the out casts? who went to small settlments all over the world spreading illnesses.....ermm was us wasn't it? wink
oh and the india thing was a very bad example cause as maia said yes we did

I'm talking mosque in every city though. Every town even, In leeds i think there must be over 10 mosque. I'm not being racist don't matter if there white, black or fooking green, there still over populating our country. Leaving English / Brithis people without homes / jobs. Motorways are becoming caos. Hospitals / Doctors are becoming full.
This list goes on and on and it don't take a mastermind to see where this is going. So ever balance it out by making it easy for us to work in other countrys or send some of the foreigners back before it's too late. We seem to take on these refugees and keep them here then they decide to have familys of there own and it goes on and on. to people are coming into the UK each yea.r At the end of 2003, Britain hosted around 270,000 refugees*, about 2.8% of the world's 9.7 million and 0.4% of the British population so god know where we are at now.
Anyway probs best locking this topic as we could all go on about this until out ears bleed.
so down we see what is going on.... the fabled words "send then all back"
no i see the game...... so i'll ask you a couple of questions.....
What % of teaching personel in this country do you reckon are from overseas????
What % of NHS personel in this country do you reckon are from overseas????
so good enough to treat you and to teach you..... but not good enough to stay here....
Just how many people from "the colonies" do you reckon dies for this country during all the wars we have been thru?????
see if you can guess.......
Quote by stevio
It strikes me that once again leedslad if you try to put forward an opinion about the state of the country and immigration you will be accused of racism. You nad all of us in a democracy should be allowed to voice that opinion and not be insulted by small minded individuals that will always look for racism in what is said
You keep going fella, voice it how you feel it

wow someone see's sense. Thanks mate
Just pisses me off that we only need to say piggy bank and where racist. What a fooked up country. I just want to know what makes you think im racist. I treat all people as equal. I hate to hurt people's feelings full stop. This is what im on about though we say the wrong thing and where racist. Someone takes this the wrong way next thing where ripping each others heads off. This is what i wanted to find out and i got my answer.
Now i have made my mind up about this Country and i want to get as far away from it as i can.
Quote by stevio
It strikes me that once again leedslad if you try to put forward an opinion about the state of the country and immigration you will be accused of racism. You nad all of us in a democracy should be allowed to voice that opinion and not be insulted by small minded individuals that will always look for racism in what is said
You keep going fella, voice it how you feel it

I would like you to read back all of leedladss' comments stevio as I think you will find he was not speaking for the UK or even England.
Minx x x
Quote by stevio
Fabio the fact that it makes you anfry probably strengthens the point

just how anfry are you fabio???? i hope you get better before the scottish munch
Quote by LeedsLad1981
It strikes me that once again leedslad if you try to put forward an opinion about the state of the country and immigration you will be accused of racism. You nad all of us in a democracy should be allowed to voice that opinion and not be insulted by small minded individuals that will always look for racism in what is said
You keep going fella, voice it how you feel it

wow someone see's sense. Thanks mate
Just pisses me off that we only need to say piggy bank and where racist. What a fooked up country. I just want to know what makes you think im racist. I treat all people as equal. I hate to hurt people's feelings full stop. This is what im on about though we say the wrong thing and where racist. Someone takes this the wrong way next thing where ripping each others heads off. This is what i wanted to find out and i got my answer.
Now i have made my mind up about this Country and i want to get as far away from it as i can.
Pray tell what is racist about piggy bank? Or maybe because I am in Wales or a fem that you can not answer, because I have questioned you previously on this thread and you have chosen not to respond...
fabio im not saying send anyone back. Im saying stop this country from being over populated Maybe Ask who wishes to leave the country. End of the day if we carry on there will be racism in this country, And lowering the population will reduce the chance of this happening.
I would say sorry but i can't see where i said a racist comment. So calm down im starting to look sane :shock: