Tania hun.
:welcome: to :swingingchair: heaven .
Have a great time here . I know you will enjoy it.
Fred (who is, he thinks, the oldest on the site, but I am not telling :- lol) :rose: for you xxx
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Quote by Sexysteph
Tania we all come in all shapes and sizes. The one thing this site has taught me is that it is filled with people who care in the scene. Yeah as I said earlier we do get our fair share of wazzocks but I have always been proud to be part of this scene.
When I first started out inthe scene I was a size 24 - and my stats were 48dd,42,48 so I am a big lady. I was nearly 17 stone I had no self confidence at all.
Now there are some guys on here who I have met and I am so proud to call them friends I don't think I could say I have a problem with my self confidence any longer. If people do not want to take me as ME then I am sorry it is their loss not mine. I make NO apologies for being ME. I know I am not as gorgeous as some of the truly sexy ladies on here are but I don't let it get to me after all I am me. We all have different experiences that we can relate but I personally find that the club scene is changing. You do get the private parties for the beautiful people but give me a party for all shapes and sizes which is totally inclusive and you will see what Swingingheaven truly is about.
Thats FUN - sexy adventurous fun.
God why is it that people still fall flat on their faces about blasted looks
I buy a book for the book, not its bloody cover, I buy a car for its usability not its looks, likewise I date woman by PERSONALITY not looks, who wants Miss World with a empty head and no humour, I would sooner be with the wicked witch of the east/west whatever if she has a personality and likes laughter
sorry for getting a bit miffed here
btw steph, I think you are a good looking lass, I know you have a great humour and personality, so thats 3 out of 2 scored, whoever is with you at any time should consider themself honoured,
Orgasminator
Quote by Sexysteph
You do get the private parties for the beautiful people but give me a party for all shapes and sizes which is totally inclusive and you will see what Swingingheaven truly is about.
Amen! I think we all have to reconsider our prejudices against people. Personally I would love it if our society were more inclusive in general, but especially towards people with disabilities.
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Quote by Cicero
Hi Tania
Sorry to read of your at your posts you seem a really nice person. You realize that sex isn't just about flesh (nothing wrong with that of course) but also a coming together of two personalities. Something that enhances it and makes it much more enjoyable. That meeting of minds between kindred spirits mixed with the sex can be a real turn on. Good luck to you. I hope you find what you're looking for.
Thank you Cicero. I am confident that I will find someone who operates on the same wave length as me for a meaningful relationship. I am in the right place for that and all of you people sound wonderful!
Orgasminator
In case anyone is wondering I just had my first date tonight. It only took 5 minutes across the dining table to determine that I really liked him. But I am not sure the chemistry is right (did not go further than a few kisses). Isn't that a bummer? To enjoy each other's company so much yet not to feel aroused by his touch? Maybe I was tired. Maybe my batteries do not recharge sexually as quickly as they used to...
What do you people think I should do? Continue seeing him and hope my feelings will change or make it clear to him that we probably will never be more than friends? I do not have much experience in relationships and feel a bit lost now.
Guys if you were him and you really really liked me and wished to get to know me further, how would you prefer me to handle the situation?
Any advice will be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
What do you people think I should do? Continue seeing him and hope my feelings will change or make it clear to him that we probably will never be more than friends? I do not have much experience in relationships and feel a bit lost now.
Guys if you were him and you really really liked me and wished to get to know me further, how would you prefer me to handle the situation?
Any advice will be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
Orgasminator
No advice from seasoned players? :cry:
Hmmmm - thats a tricky one. Maybe the mood wasnt right for you to feel aroused?? its good that you enjoyed his company, and you felt comfortable, but was there NO sexual chemistry there? not even a little tingle?? 
I would say, maybe meet him again, see if it wasnt your feelings playing up, maybe Junior was kicking too hard, maybe you were tired, or you were nervous...... If it doesnt work for you this time then i'd say be honest with him, and tell him you like him as a friend, but thats all. At least you'll know it wasnt first meet jitters if the same thing happens a 2nd time!
Hope that helps, and good luck!!!!
I would say, maybe meet him again, see if it wasnt your feelings playing up, maybe Junior was kicking too hard, maybe you were tired, or you were nervous...... If it doesnt work for you this time then i'd say be honest with him, and tell him you like him as a friend, but thats all. At least you'll know it wasnt first meet jitters if the same thing happens a 2nd time!
Hope that helps, and good luck!!!!
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Quote by Tania
shame im only 31 or i'd be happy to swing with you! i am quite mature though
when I get into the scene and go to a club or private party, we might meet and play. Must first find someone to be my regular swinging partner as I understand clubs do not appreciate singles.
clubs love the single fems
Orgasminator
:upset: Well I think he has forgotten me already. Maybe he was one of these guys who lie to get laid and he didn't get the second he erased me from his memory. But I pride myself in my good instincts about people and - could I be so wrong about him? *sigh* OK never mind, I'll wrap some dolmadakia (vine leaves) and get my mind off him and the whole business of meeting people... for a while at least. Cooking is great therapy!
Orgasminator
hey tania you look great to me hunni xx
