What is your problem?

28 Jan 2005

I joined some 10 minutes ago and posted an ad. I would describe my ad as genuine even though it may not be the best versed. And OK it may not be everyone's cup of tea but this is a free country yes? And I do not think I have broken any rules.
So why is this sicko writing to me, seconds after posting, telling me that I have no respect for myself? And who is he to judge me?
Has any other lady received such abusive email from 'cforster'? How do I report him?
Your responses will be appreciated as I am feeling a bit down now.
Tania

28 Jan 2005

Sorry to hear Tania,hope it hasnt put you off our little community.
Report the twat to one of the mods. they'll sort him.
Oh :welcome: btw.
Lb :love:

28 Jan 2005

Tania that's awful hun :therethere:
Don't worry, the natives in the cafe don't bite usually, and can actually be very funny. Stick around here for a while, I'm sure they'll manage to cheer you up a bit
Here's another hug until they do kiss

:therethere:

28 Jan 2005

Hi Tania

:wave: :wave:
Welcome to the forum. If you can PM me the details (email address) of this person I will look into it. (Please include your ad number)

28 Jan 2005

what the add number? i;m sure its not that bad?
i have found a few rude people that reply or post add but they are in the minority.

28 Jan 2005

I hear the shuffling of a hundred feet heading towards the ad section.

28 Jan 2005

Quote by PoloLady
I hear the shuffling of a hundred feet heading towards the ad section.

Seeya there.
Lb :love:

28 Jan 2005

Tania,
I've read your ad - Ignore the plonker! He's probably sexually repressed!
It's a healthy thing to know your desires and want to fulfill them. I say go for it - and I hope you have a great time!! Ther are some great folk on here - so welcome! cool

8-)

28 Jan 2005

Heres the ad, just to say you the trip.
"Hi guys, this is a genuine ad from a 38 year old lady. I am indeed fat (very much so) and pregnant and if you know anything about women, you'll know this is a lethal combination as I seem to be always horny! I want to sow my wild oats before the arrival of junior, can you help me? I seek an intelligent and cultured mature gentleman who is a seasoned swinger and will enjoy introducing me to the scene and its pleasures. I am willing to try lots of things but I am NOT interested in sex with women. I envisage a long term relationship based on trust, mutual respect and acceptance of our sexual needs and fantasies with lots of laughs and meaningful conversations on the side. If you think you fit the bill, then please contact me smile

"

28 Jan 2005

Well I see straight away what the problem is............
She doesn't want to have sex with women!!!!!! :shock: rolleyes

That's just wrong!!!!

28 Jan 2005

Why do I feel a coming on?
FLAMING TORCHES! GET YER FLAMING TORCHES HERE!
hi Tania, don't worry the mods will sort the litlle oik out.
I'd say come and join us in the GFZ (Girlie Free Zone)..................
BUT IT AIN'T FECKIN' OPEN YET!
(small dig at the mods wink

).

28 Jan 2005

Thanks everyone, I feel a little better now. I gave all the relevant details to Sgt Bilko and hopefully he will sort this sad guy out.
As to my ad, well... have a look at women seeking men, it will be one of the most recent and possibly most provocative although I can't see why that should be.
Hugs back to all!
Tania

28 Jan 2005

Quote by Tania
Thanks everyone, I feel a little better now. I gave all the relevant details to Sgt Bilko and hopefully he will sort this sad guy out.
As to my ad, well... have a look at women seeking men, it will be one of the most recent and possibly most provocative although I can't see why that should be.
Hugs back to all!
Tania

Honey, I can see a queue forming for you attentions right now.... enjoy it and ignore teh pratts...

28 Jan 2005

fair play to you Tania! hope Bilko gets the swine!
shame im only 31 or i'd be happy to swing with you! i am quite mature though
good luck!
x
ad number 67372

28 Jan 2005

Quote by xxdevil69
Well I see straight away what the problem is............
She doesn't want to have sex with women!!!!!! :shock:
That's just wrong!!!!

:lol: :lol: :lol:

28 Jan 2005

Sorted!! :thumbup: :thumbup:
Tania you have a PM

28 Jan 2005

Good on yer girl!
You'll fit right in ere.
Lb :love:

28 Jan 2005

Quote by easy
I'd say come and join us in the GFZ (Girlie Free Zone)..................

No you wouldn't!!! mad

:x :x :x :x wink

:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:

28 Jan 2005

Quote by WickedWindsor
shame im only 31 or i'd be happy to swing with you! i am quite mature though

You have a great advantage: you like BBWs! So who knows, when I get into the scene and go to a club or private party, we might meet and play. Must first find someone to be my regular swinging partner as I understand clubs do not appreciate singles.

28 Jan 2005

understood Tania!
maybe we could go together one day, you never know!
xx

28 Jan 2005

OMG! I have to hire a secretary to read all the emails I am getting! Wow! And to think that I have been wasting so much time in other dating sites when this site rocks!
Long live UK Swinging Heaven!

28 Jan 2005

Can I be frisked when he's done with the nubile ones?
Bev
xx

28 Jan 2005

Quote by Tania
I joined some 10 minutes ago and posted an ad. I would describe my ad as genuine even though it may not be the best versed. And OK it may not be everyone's cup of tea but this is a free country yes? And I do not think I have broken any rules.
So why is this sicko writing to me, seconds after posting, telling me that I have no respect for myself? And who is he to judge me?
Has any other lady received such abusive email from 'cforster'? How do I report him?
Your responses will be appreciated as I am feeling a bit down now.
Tania

personally the name cforster means nothing to me at all
btw, I have not read past this 1st post as yet so may say the same as others are saying
right, I dont know whats happened till I read on more, but I beleive tania that this is not a usual occurance. The fact that this thread has appeared will meen that our ever idle, beer swilling, backie chewing , heel wearing, whip toting mods will roll over in therir respective bins, skips, skoda's and tips before hunting down the total PR*CK and hounding his/her ass to hell and back
dont let one insignificant :censored: :censored: :censored: :censored: spoil you day please, at least give us all a chance :P
serious tho, sometimes a total wankerised perverted prick (or cunbt) will appear, do as I do, laugh at them. If they are so stressed out that they cant accept people for waht and who they are, tough shit
If you add included animals or kids then yes you deserve a slagging, if it dont then ignore this idjeet
by the way, welcome to this our world of corney jokes, corny feet and unhealthilly active sexual innendo erm inudendo, grr indueno, oh bugger this for a swelling game., relax, let you hair down and have some fun, because thats what this place is all about, fun fun fun, oh one thing, if you dont like laughter, then this aint the place for you because we love laughter here smile

28 Jan 2005

Quote by Tania

shame im only 31 or i'd be happy to swing with you! i am quite mature though

You have a great advantage: you like BBWs! So who knows, when I get into the scene and go to a club or private party, we might meet and play. Must first find someone to be my regular swinging partner as I understand clubs do not appreciate singles.
a few extra words now that I have read thru the postsings ( which only agreed with me I hasten to add )
You didnt give me a location sad

altho I am a mature (well big kid pretending to be but dont tell Vix or I wont ever get her) I am still new to the scene myself having only started in nov last year
oh well, who cares, just have fun, and if you need a helping hand tongue or other body part and you aint like the other side of the country, count me in smile

28 Jan 2005

Tania~
So sorry to hear you had a bad first experience here. sad

I've visited your ad and think it's lovely, as are you (of course, I looked at the photo, too)! ;) You sound totally honest and genuine, and I hope things start looking up in your ad replies. Prepare to be deluged with e-mails (and just learn to ignore the tossers)!
~Reese! surprised

P.S. Welcome to the SH forums!!

28 Jan 2005

Quote by Sexysteph
You have got to be kidding - most clubs CANNOT get ENOUGH single fems through their doors. Take it from me I have been in the club scene for about 6 years now and I LOVEEEEEEEEEEE It.

Hi Sexysteph and thanks for your response.
It is true I know very little about the swinging scene and how things work but I have noticed a couple of places that advertise to be open to 'young and beautiful' couples or something similar. Well I do not fall in these two categories and I would hate to be in a place where people were measured by their looks. (I have had explosive orgasms with men who were not handsome or well endowed but who possessed an ethereal quality about them that made me shiver with desire.) I also am under the impression that where single ladies are welcomed, there is a stipulation that they are bisexual - again another category I don't fit in sad

Personally I would feel much better having one steady partner with whom to enjoy swinging and fantasy realisation with. I don't think I'd be brave enough to go to a club on my own. Heck, I won't even go to the movies on my own and I hear lots of people do that nowadays (hats off people!)
I shall explore the forums a bit more as I am sure there will be many interesting threads from which I can learn and hopefully I will in time be able to contribute. And of course if even I venture out on my own, you people will be the first to know! wink

28 Jan 2005

Hi Tania,
It's a shame that your first experience on here was a negative one. The idiot who wrote to you is thankfully part of a small minority and I hope he didn't put you off.
Good luck with your advert.
Welcome to the forums and enjoy!!!

28 Jan 2005

nowt wrong with your ad smile

28 Jan 2005

Hi Tania
Sorry to read of your at your posts you seem a really nice person. You realize that sex isn't just about flesh (nothing wrong with that of course) but also a coming together of two personalities. Something that enhances it and makes it much more enjoyable. That meeting of minds between kindred spirits mixed with the sex can be a real turn on. Good luck to you. I hope you find what you're looking for.

28 Jan 2005

I won't repeat previous comments. It's all been said really.
I just want to say - your ad is fine, you seem honest, genuine and funny so I hope you have a seriously good time kiss

Will