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Hello everyone. Having surveryed this site for a couple of weeks I took the plunge and joined and posed an ad on here (265829). However, the ad hasn't seemed to bear any fruits yet (I am not looking for a fruitcake btw!!) so was looking for some advice and what to put into an ad and also, probably more importantly, what not to put into an ad? Your comments would be most welcome. In the meantime, happy hunting to you all.
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Hello everyone. Having surveryed this site for a couple of weeks I took the plunge and joined and posed an ad on here (265829). However, the ad hasn't seemed to bear any fruits yet (I am not looking for a fruitcake btw!!) so was looking for some advice and what to put into an ad and also, probably more importantly, what not to put into an ad? Your comments would be most welcome. In the meantime, happy hunting to you all.

We cant tell you that because if we did you might just have some luck lol :lol: :lol:
Seriously tho, just put what you want and feel is apropriate... I did with my M4F advert and I even spulchucked it b4 psting it, lol.
Taking the guess that you're a single guy, your ads probably been consigned to the depths of the Men looking for.... section. If you browse through them you'll see the women looking for and couples looking for has only a few pages or more, while the men looking for section requires storage in the Pentagon to hold it all smile.
As has been said many times on here, your best bet at getting into the scene and meeting people is to post on the forums and talk in the chat room, go to meets, munches and other activities here. Or you can send messages instead of wait for others to send them to you.
If you're not a single guy, then Howw you Doin? biggrin
Hi Discretion
Frankly, in my experience, I've found you'll do better to get involved here in the cafe and get yourself know, then it'll all flow from there.
Once you're known and more established you'll get a response to any posts you may put up in Let's Meet Up and in Dogging. Lots happens in the way of social get togethers and parties. It's like a big family really and there are a lot of good friends to be made.
Hope this helps. Good luck! wink smile
Saved me typing biggrin
What they said up there ^ ^ ^ ^ :D
Can't beat the social side of this site for meeting like minded people - no better way to see if you 'click' than meeting people face to face. You just can't put body lanugage in an email or phone call confused
well my add has now really become a way of telling people what i look like in the chatroom (and yes there are some that havn't meet me!).
the photo add section is very much catch 22.
single males moan that they never get any replys to there add, and single females moan that they get too many replys!.
your best bet is to stick around the chatroom or the forum. people can get a better understanding of you, plus its gives you the starting blocks of getting to meet people.
and for me, the best thing i ever did was get to a munch. it took me about 4 months to pluck up the courage. but my life has changed since going to them!. they are a really good night out, and full of VERY fun, laid back and caring people.
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Welcome to the SH forum Discretion. Best way to get to know folks and for them to get to know you. Have fun and join in smile
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