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What makes a woman good in bed?

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Sorry if this has been done before but I didnt fancy ploughing through 176 pages :shock:
Well not just good in bed, but wherever the fancy takes you :P
Any little tips or tricks that rocks a guys boat?
Well lets see!...
Women who are able to lose themselves and kissing.. loads of kissing!.
Speaking of beds i really should get to mine but cant be arse d to leave the sofa.
surely (ok I wont call u shirly!) its got to be more than the kissing?
okay... confidence.... and what i call "filth factor"
yeh kissing... how?, where? and when? ..they are all contributing factors..
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Sorry if this has been done before but I didnt fancy ploughing through 176 pages :shock:
Well not just good in bed, but wherever the fancy takes you :P
Any little tips or tricks that rocks a guys boat?

The ability to totallylet go and enjoy.
And have eyes that talk.
booooooooooootttttiiiffuulllllllllll....! biggrin :D :D
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Any little tips or tricks that rocks a guys boat?

Men, like women, are all different. So forget about technique, there isn't one that'll do it for every guy. It's all about attitude. Don't try to impress - participate.
Yep sod technique,just do it biggrin Oh and enjoy it :twisted: And if you show you enjoy it that helps wink
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Any little tips or tricks that rocks a guys boat?

Men, like women, are all different. So forget about technique, there isn't one that'll do it for every guy. It's all about attitude. Don't try to impress - participate.
Yeah, I have a trigger point... I guess we all do. You tell me yours, Ice..... I'll tell you mine.
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Any little tips or tricks that rocks a guys boat?

Men, like women, are all different. So forget about technique, there isn't one that'll do it for every guy. It's all about attitude. Don't try to impress - participate.
Yeah, I have a trigger point... I guess we all do. You tell me yours, Ice..... I'll tell you mine.
My trigger point? Today? Tomorrow? Yesterday?
If there's a perfect technique, I don't want to know it - if anyone figured out the perfect chess game, no one would play.
I'd rather be ignorant and make it up as I go along - experiment and adapt.
what makes a woman good in bed?..................................................me wink
what makes a man good in bed?.......................................................she :wink:
i think its best when a ladys in bed and just lets herself go and thinks f**k it im going to let my self go and enjoy this and get more out of this then my man and tell him what you want because sex is a two way thing and should be enjoyed by both most ladys know what they want but feel daft and embarresed to tell her partner what they want just go and do your own thing ...ENJOY IT ....
bloody hell i a agony aunt haha
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i think its best when a ladys in bed and just lets herself go and thinks f**k it im going to let my self go and enjoy this and get more out of this then my man and tell him what you want because sex is a two way thing

If it's a "two way thing" how do you reconcile this with her expecting more out of it than him? dunno
Hmm well I was going to say her brain, it's a personality that does it. Always said you sleep with a person, not a body smile However since everyone seems to feel the same about it won't need to make that point :)
For tips n tricks, well that varies from person to person. I heard that ladies, um, privates can be up to 1 or 2 inches further forward or back from person to person. So some positions won't work with some ladies, others will.
In the end though all tricks of the trade come from a fertile mind, and all the kick from sex comes from a connection, not just a physical one, but mental as well.
Hello its me again, found this and thought I would comment on it
For me all women are sexy in their own unique way and the women I have met have all brought their own unique styles of what they enjoy, what they are comfortable with, as I am sure they probably thought the same of me we are all different but for me I like a woman to be comfortable with herself and able to enjoy I talk to her and I also listen to her and ladies don't hold back, apparently there are ladies out there that hold back their emotions when they orgasm because (and this is upsets me so much mad ) there previous partners have told them to be quiet ....... can you believe that? Well I can't, I want to hear a woman cum, I want to see her cum, I want to know that the lady I am with was able to let go just for a moment and trust me, open herself up to me, and enjoy the sensual moment that her and I have together. Communication is important but it goes hand in hand with so many other moments, (if I can use that word). I know that some of you just "shag" but that is not my style I want to get to know the lady to try and understand her but most importantly I want her to know that I will listen to her and not treat her like a piece of meat, which is how some ladies want it as they find it a turn on. That is their choice its not what I am comfortable with, I guess that the most important thing and back we go to the question "what makes a woman good in bed" I really cant answer it here as all woman are unique but do try to talk to these ladies if you can connect via your souls (yes I know getting romantic) but its true if you can connect via your souls you will have great love making sex what ever takes your mood. So people just talk, listen, trust and enjoy each other and the moment.
See you all later bye for now
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Hello its me again, found this and thought I would comment on it
For me all women are sexy in their own unique way and the women I have met have all brought their own unique styles of what they enjoy, what they are comfortable with, as I am sure they probably thought the same of me we are all different but for me I like a woman to be comfortable with herself and able to enjoy I talk to her and I also listen to her and ladies don't hold back, apparently there are ladies out there that hold back their emotions when they orgasm because (and this is upsets me so much mad ) there previous partners have told them to be quiet ....... can you believe that? Well I can't, I want to hear a woman cum, I want to see her cum, I want to know that the lady I am with was able to let go just for a moment and trust me, open herself up to me, and enjoy the sensual moment that her and I have together. Communication is important but it goes hand in hand with so many other moments, (if I can use that word). I know that some of you just "shag" but that is not my style I want to get to know the lady to try and understand her but most importantly I want her to know that I will listen to her and not treat her like a piece of meat, which is how some ladies want it as they find it a turn on. That is their choice its not what I am comfortable with, I guess that the most important thing and back we go to the question "what makes a woman good in bed" I really cant answer it here as all woman are unique but do try to talk to these ladies if you can connect via your souls (yes I know getting romantic) but its true if you can connect via your souls you will have great love making sex what ever takes your mood. So people just talk, listen, trust and enjoy each other and the moment.
See you all later bye for now

AAggggghhhh, isnt that a really sweet posting??
To keep it simple
A woman has to be in the mood :rose:
A guy just has to be in the room rolleyes :shock:
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Well not just good in bed, but wherever the fancy takes you :P
Any little tips or tricks that rocks a guys boat?

A pulse :giggle:
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A pulse :giggle:

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Blue you are so fussy !! rolleyes lol :lol:
smile hi
an open mind, open legs , lots of orgasms given by me or her
passionkiss 69position hump blast
plus the big secret tip which is :censored:
I love confident women.. and a bit of activity won't go amiss!! Can't do with it when they just lie there... I also like it when a woman tells you what she wants doing, where she wants touching etc.... (suppose that goes with the confidence)
One word. Enthusiam.
Lots of enthusiam. OK, that's three words. I might even stretch to five and add "lots and..." to it as well!
can't really say what makes a woman good in bed. it's not technique i don't think ((( though that helps ;) ))) the best sex comes when you're both confident and relaxed enough to really let go, cos both of you know what the other likes, and you can build each other up. but . . . lots of kissing, teasing and stroking, and being a bit vocal too to give you a hint when it's going right for her! like that bit! smile
neil x x x ;)
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I also like it when a woman tells you what she wants doing, where she wants touching etc.... (suppose that goes with the confidence)

That's definitely something I like. Everyone likes different things done in different ways and at different times.
But then you do get those women who won't say anything and seem to just expect you to know "how to please a woman" which, surely, you can only know in a general sense if you've not been together before. Surely it would be better for you if you told me the specifics so I can make it better for you smile
Tbh I think you can only really be good if youre partner is also good or at least willing to try!! I reckon you could be the best shagger in th world but it wont make a difference if your with someone that just lies there and does nothng in return and shows that they are enjoying it!
One of the things that turns me on is seeing my hsagging partner really turned on and makes me shag harder/faster and try new things and usually results in a really great session is just letting go and go with the flow sometimes you get so into it and carried away you do things you never thought you would! I think people kinda bounce off one another (not literally I mean!) you know what I mean, right??
I might just be able to add more to this thread next Sunday :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: redface
Or even midweek if if I ever get down the A** wink
For me its looking at the body language when we make love and knowing that she is really enjoying it. For me thats the biggest turn on as I know that im doing something right. Its also the passion and intensity of the moment the part just before she lets go comletely and goes wild.
Its a mixture of everything really,impossible to pin point.
Clare is amazing and i think that comes from knowing everything about each other :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
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Its a mixture of everything really,impossible to pin point.
Clare is amazing and i think that comes from knowing everything about each other :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

definetly a benefit of a longer term partner eh!! You get to know what buttons to push, its soo good to be able to know that I can turn mine on or make him cum, makes me horny as fuck thinking about it! confused
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Its a mixture of everything really,impossible to pin point.
Clare is amazing and i think that comes from knowing everything about each other :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

definetly a benefit of a longer term partner eh!! You get to know what buttons to push, its soo good to be able to know that I can turn mine on or make him cum, makes me horny as fuck thinking about it! confused
Yep that does it for me too :twisted: :twisted:
We'll have to compare notes wink lol