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what makes good swingers
Sexpert
Not quite sure what your question actually asks?
Are you asking whether ' trust ' is the most important element in a succesful relationship that involves swinging?...if so i would agree that it has to be an ingredient.
Although i honestly think that open discussion prior to entering the scene is key . I can only comment from the point of view of a dogger, but so many couples appear to be in the scene from the instigation of only one half of the partnership and in my experience that seems to be from the male half.
Are you asking whether ' trust ' is the most important element in a succesful relationship that involves swinging?...if so i would agree that it has to be an ingredient.
Although i honestly think that open discussion prior to entering the scene is key . I can only comment from the point of view of a dogger, but so many couples appear to be in the scene from the instigation of only one half of the partnership and in my experience that seems to be from the male half.
to me what makes good swingers is people who are happy and comfy with themselves and each other, i'm mainly talking about couples here but i have seen it so many times where couples end up arguing and falling out in clubs etc, why oh why do these people swing? if you can't handle seeing your partner shag someone else don't bloody do it, i also notice how many couples watch each other to make sure they are keeping with in their 'rules' if you don't trust your partner not to break your rules why are you there? i myself was in a club once with a guy and his wife must have poked him at least 3 times to ask him if he had a comdon on :shock: how the hell are you supposed to have a good time with a guy when you have his paranoid wife quizzing him every 2 mins? i ended up walking off 
so to me good swingers are people who are 100% comfy with each other
so to me good swingers are people who are 100% comfy with each other
Quote by northwest-cpl
I thought it was having an 11" cock or being able to gush.
bloody hope not cause i have/do neither
Can't help you with the first one but can offer a course of lessons for the second. :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
First 2 lessons are free btw.
its ok you can have them all for free i not charge :lol:
Sex God
Trapeze artists..................................
I've heard they make good swingers
I've heard they make good swingers
Quote by naughtynymphos1
I thought it was having an 11" cock or being able to gush.
bloody hope not cause i have/do neither
Can't help you with the first one but can offer a course of lessons for the second. :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
First 2 lessons are free btw.
its ok you can have them all for free i not charge :lol:
hwoar: checks diary ... Sexpert
maybe they should be categorised into
good swingers = trapeze artists, 11" & gushers, trusting couples and the like
bad swingers = swingers who never reply to my emails
Feckin awful swingers = swingers who reply but send it to the wrong email addy and end up meeting someone else
amazing wonderful 10/10 swingers = the next couple to pm me begging for my body
good swingers = trapeze artists, 11" & gushers, trusting couples and the like
bad swingers = swingers who never reply to my emails
Feckin awful swingers = swingers who reply but send it to the wrong email addy and end up meeting someone else
amazing wonderful 10/10 swingers = the next couple to pm me begging for my body
Sex God
Dunno, I've yet to find any good swingers :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Warming the Bed
I have always thought that Swingers are people in a relationship who include other people for sex, i.e couples, singles dont really count as swingers,
In my personal experience the first and most important element is that the realtionship has to be very strong, very trusting, with both parties in full agreement not one being led by the others wants!
Luke
In my personal experience the first and most important element is that the realtionship has to be very strong, very trusting, with both parties in full agreement not one being led by the others wants!
Luke
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