What the hell am i doing! please read all u hard swingers!

13 Jun 2004

What the hell am i doing here! :crazy:
Getting a addict thats what! has to stop! not getting my house work done!
I no that i am not a computer wizzerd, ..............and i do find that difficult ........,but i am learning!.
.... but the probs i am having are.. that when i find a good cpl to cam with, all i do is nothing but wait till the nxt time thay are on! I hate my self for that! and i hate it when people use and abuse me! when i cam................ and now thinking shall i carry on!
there also have been some benerfits to! ...my sex life with hubby has bloomed!..and my confiidance too!.................we have had no meet ups yet! as we have to be discreet as we are big buisnes folks arouund here! still trying to get my head around that one!
............. I have chatted to some great people to on here! and hope to get to marks party on the 3rd july!..................... but i find that i am asking my self this!.......what do i want when i get there? yes c hubby f--ck anouther women.......... but how am i going to react!
Sos about going on as this is a whole new experance for me and hubby!
yes i would like to be f--k 2 but thats if hubby will let tham!
well have to get the dinner on! I will carry on posting about my self in the cafe!
any way like to here your coms ...........and that..should i carry on?
love debbiexxxxxxxxxxx :rose:
o yes Mark and Karen! i would love to meet up with u 2 for a chat! would like to help with people that find tham selfs in the same persition! have time in the day!

13 Jun 2004

If you fancy a swim , it's best to just dive in I find.

13 Jun 2004

sod the housework
it'll still be there tommorow
enjoy yourself lifes to short lol
my motto in the feild i work in its made me stop thinking about tommorow and just enjoy today
i think if you go in july just go with the flow see what happens and mention before hand whats ok and whats unacceptable in your husbands mind
when you know the rules you can just enjoy yourself
and if he gets horny enough he may let you break a few rules ~wink~

13 Jun 2004

don't worry....... this site is way past being addicted!!! biggrin

:D :D
have fun at the meet, but it is probably a wise idea to discuss beforehand the do's and don't, and be 200 % sure that you both want to do this... i have been to clubs where you can tell that either hubby or wife doesn't want to be there.....
i am sure you'll have a blast.....
sean xxxxxxxxx

13 Jun 2004

Just keep pushing the limints ever so slightly wink

You'll be surprised how quickly you'll get into the swing of things. ( sorry for the pun)

13 Jun 2004

I'd tuck the 'sex' and 'fucking' and all else in the back of your mind, see it as a relaxed event, a way of meeting new people, and having a laugh; if anything at the back of your mind doesn't like it while you're there, then you've not lost anything by backing out, but if all goes well, the tucked away parts will come flooding forward and you'll have the best fucks of your life biggrin

and want a lot more.
i agree with redstilleto though, talk beforehand about your limits, right to back out etc.
hell, what am I saying...I should go along to one of these...
enjoy smile

13 Jun 2004

maybe advertise for a couple in a similar situation and see if you can meet up as friends and take things from there.
You do need to discuss everything beforehand though, just so you're both singing from the same hymn sheet, as it were.

13 Jun 2004

singing from the same hymn sheet,
and fitting seeing as its sinday........ooops i mean sunday wink

13 Jun 2004

I agree with the ones who have advised you to talk things over beforehand, discuss limits etc., but don't give yourselves a headache by overdoing the discussion, just come along and start by regarding it as a social event...which is what it is principally (Remember that definition of a munch? A chance to chat with people with similar interests!).
One thing to agree on would be for either of you to give the signal that you want to leave (i.e. go home) at any time. I agree with Grooverider, you can always spot the people at a club who really don't want to be there. And remember, if you want to restrict yourselves to socialising, that's okay too, many do the first time they go to a club. There'll always be another chance to go a bit further on another occasion, as soon after as you like. Don't force yourselves into anything, whatever others are doing.
I'll be there - see you there,
Mike.

13 Jun 2004

It doesn't take much to get addicted to this site. I know I am and I've not even got round to placing an ad or replying to one or trying to arrange a meet. I just find reading the posts so interesting. So sod the houswork it will still be there tomorrow , and enjoy yourself. By the way I'd like to try this camming lark. how do you go on about it. I might just get a cam.

14 Jun 2004

Well folks!
A BIG THANKYOU! biggrin

:D :D :D
For taking the time to read my message and replying! keep tham coming!.pm me if you want.......... i will answer tham all!
I have had a good chat with hubby and his fears are these....................that he MIGHT not want to go to anouther party agan!.......................and that i will! .........................I am sure in my self that i am going to love IT!!!!!!!!..... meeting all you folks!. and i that i AM going to nagg him to death to take me the nxt one!
So where am i then? {Just hoping that hubby enjoys} cool

I will tell you all this before i go and do my house work.................... huddy and i are devoted cpl and been 2 gather 4 over 20yrs but we have been with out a lot of things to build the buisness up!.................. and now its time to have fun! boy we deserve it! wink

As in finding my way round in swinging heaven well heres a quote............................
I have laughed and i have cried......i have been angry.............and at times i have lied.......
but we have to try before we die......life to short is my reply!
Thanks agan folks! keep tham coming!
love debbiexxxx :rose: