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What turns good into great?

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Confidence does it for me Kaz, i love a partner who knows, what they want, how they want it and where they want it and are not frightened to tell me loudly i am doing it right.
Also there has to be connection, on all levels mentally,physically and also comically as i like a good laugh, life is far too serious.
Quote by brucie
Chatting this weekend we decided there were 2 elements that turned good sex into great sex,
First,a connection with the people ,that mental something that means sparks are gonna fly
Second ,imagination and a willingness to relax and see what the imagination has to offer.
So what turns up the heat for you?

good sex is with kylie
great sex is with kylie and danni
nahhh - great sex is with the Saturdays wink
Quote by brucie
Chatting this weekend we decided there were 2 elements that turned good sex into great sex,
First,a connection with the people ,that mental something that means sparks are gonna fly
Second ,imagination and a willingness to relax and see what the imagination has to offer.
So what turns up the heat for you?

good sex is with kylie
great sex is with kylie and danni
nahhh - great sex is with the Saturdays wink
sex with the saturdays = doing bird then signing a register for the rest of your life...
pmsl theyre all 20+ so chuck out yer old s club 8 stuff brucie lol :wink:
I enjoyed sex far more when I stopped worrying what I looked/sounded like and just got into it. From the response I got, it improved the whole experience. Maybe that is it - just enjoy it and stop worrying.
Obviously you can't disregard your partner's enjoyment, but you can certainly spend too much energy etc trying to do wht you think is right rather than what you want.
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for really great sex you have to talk about the things you both want and know if there are any boundaries.
the connection of mind, trust, lust and made to feel very comfortable is a must!
kink and pervery go along way too!
whips

absolutely.
Quote by Kaznkev
Chatting this weekend we decided there were 2 elements that turned good sex into great sex,
First,a connection with the people ,that mental something that means sparks are gonna fly
Second ,imagination and a willingness to relax and see what the imagination has to offer.
So what turns up the heat for you?

I have consulted the Lady and for her on a meet, the elements that make good sex great, is first physical attraction, some kind of connection/chemistry with the person, and longevity during sex, the Lady really like's sex to last a good couple of hours.
Compatibility, trust, chemistry, and more compatibility.
Oh, and rum.
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So what turns up the heat for you?

Chilli and chocolate.... and thanks to a couple of lovely female forumites... both are on their way! :bounce:
Quote by Ms_Whips
Compatibility, trust, chemistry, and more compatibility.
Oh, and rum.

so that's why the rum is always gone. someone needs to tell captain jack that witchy is a naughty girl and drank it all!
Captain Jack? I tamed him a while back... lol
...why I aughta....

ugh ugh ughughugh!
lp
still having make-up issues eh witchie?
lp
Sure, bend over :giggle:
I'm sorry, these things have to be done...
grrreat
oh hang on, that's "Jazz Club"
lp
Love
Sorry that's records.....I'll go with Ben on the shagging thing (not you understand in the biblical sense)
Quote by Kaznkev
Chatting this weekend we decided there were 2 elements that turned good sex into great sex,
First,a connection with the people ,that mental something that means sparks are gonna fly
Second ,imagination and a willingness to relax and see what the imagination has to offer.
So what turns up the heat for you?

I'll tell you after Saturday :rascal:
Ok so not as good as it can be but better than good.
mmmmmmmmmm
Lust, pure unbridled lust and loss of control and anything can set that off.
but for me a major one that has changed the sex from being just good to fantastic is the friendship, teasing and the openess of the people that i play with.....now if someone could just tell me that they want me to wear my sponge bob glow in the dark pants then it would just made my day come alive biggrin x
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now if someone could just tell me that they want me to wear my sponge bob glow in the dark pants then it would just made my day come alive biggrin x

wave :wave: :wave: :wave: :wave: :wave: :wave: :wave: :wave: :wave: :wave: :wave:
Quote by Gurlonloan
can i wish for;
a glow in the dark spongebob as my pants are starting to fade !

I offer the product but it comes with a free mandatory fitting service wink
i can not refuse an offer like that !!!!
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