Confidence does it for me Kaz, i love a partner who knows, what they want, how they want it and where they want it and are not frightened to tell me loudly i am doing it right.
Also there has to be connection, on all levels mentally,physically and also comically as i like a good laugh, life is far too serious.
I enjoyed sex far more when I stopped worrying what I looked/sounded like and just got into it. From the response I got, it improved the whole experience. Maybe that is it - just enjoy it and stop worrying.
Obviously you can't disregard your partner's enjoyment, but you can certainly spend too much energy etc trying to do wht you think is right rather than what you want.
Compatibility, trust, chemistry, and more compatibility.
Oh, and rum.
...why I aughta....
ugh ugh ughughugh!
lp
still having make-up issues eh witchie?
lp
Sure, bend over :giggle:
I'm sorry, these things have to be done...
grrreat
oh hang on, that's "Jazz Club"
lp
Sorry that's records.....I'll go with Ben on the shagging thing (not you understand in the biblical sense)
Ok so not as good as it can be but better than good.
mmmmmmmmmm
Lust, pure unbridled lust and loss of control and anything can set that off.