I've been thinking about this today.
What made you join SH? Did you have a particular agenda or was it a bit of fun? Was it a joint decision or something that one half of the couple was more keen on?
Me: I was looking for a bit of sexual adventure I guess. I had moved away from my f*ck buddies and was not appreciating the dry spell. I was looking for a set up where I could be very much in control and could find sexy fun and sexy folk without any strings.
I found it... :smug: and then I stayed. Oh and I'm still finding it too... :giggle:
So, what brought you all here?
Curiosity, sex and now good company (hopefully with a bit more sex).
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Joined freshly splitting with my wife. Lonely and depressed. I thought that this would be an easy place to get a shag. As it would clearly be breaming with desperate tarts and sluts wanting f**k me
How wrong I was
I've just hung around since enjoying the company. No longer too lonely or too depresssed
More of what we'd been doing anyway! We joined after the old MSN chat rooms closed - initially just the chatroom but then the forum, after being directed here to add our names to a party list. It's always been me (FB) who's posted more; MrFB has his own account but rarely posts.
I joined after years in a sexual wilderness!! The end of a marriage; the ending taking 5 years AND all my sexal confidence.
I have regained a healthy interest in sex where I had none! And made contact with some nice people, had some great sex and find company of night by chatting in the rooms and here.
So all my objectives met!! Thank you all xxxx
We'd talked about swinging for a while and just wanted more information, the forums enabled us to ask questions, the chatroom was the place to flirt, the munches meant you could meet up and put it all into practice afterwards :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Definitely gave us a taste for more :twisted:
We had talked and fantasised about it for quite a while we tried a couple of other sites that we found were full of pic collectors etc etc.
We found S/H then ffs i fell pregnant so no playing for a while even though we had been getting on well with a couple of people.
So for now its just reading the forum etc but we will be back up and running before we know it.
mind the nob in the middle...
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Quite interesting to read why people joined - or rather for what.
It seems pretty cool that largely people seem to have got out of the site what they came for. :thumbup:
In my case, I can honestly add to that 'and lots more besides'
I think I came along here as I really had this thing about meeting someone on a long term, but a secret type of arrangement. I'm not sure what it is about me that finds that fun. Hard to explain really. Just to have someone that would be a bit naughty when I needed (and vice versa!).
That made no sense, but that's the mission!
I came here to broaden my ...choice, and got so much more!
Fun
Chatter
Conversation
Friends
We come here to see if we could find a couple of men to meet so I could have experiences of other men with hubby.
It was both of our choice.
had been separated a couple of years, didnt know this place existed or the scene, was pointed here by someone and i never left
I joined to give myself the opportunity to broaden my experiences in life, to meet new like-minded friends and to have some fun………..
All of which has happened and is still happening…
Love it here…..
i came across SH, purely by accident... never really thought about swinging before hand..
searching Google for something, and SH apeared in the list, so i had a nose.. then found the chatroom.. ended up chatting in there for the rest of the Sunday till the early morning.. and i kepted going back in, then a certian user going by Alex_Female (now Alex_notts).. told me about a house party... and everything went from there.
i've met some great people of the time... and also done some daft things and every time i flounced.. a few very good people on this site.. made me see that the site is a huge family.. everyone looking out for each other.
:lol:
this is well documented and was a journey of real discovery. I still class myself as a lesbian and have met and fallen in love with Worlass along the way (I met her in a nightclub- also well documented) I told her straight away that I would never be monogomous and that we would always have an open relationship. This sat well with her view of life and she is also a member of this site now. We meet people together (rarely) and meet people seperately too.
a couple of friends. a multitude of orgasms. New sexual experiences. Loads and loads of mates. A lot of laughs. I have seen an end to my previously endless patience. :wink: 
