To stop being a forum user: me to get bored, the forums to no longer be either fun or interesting
To leave the site: if I stopped enjoying meeting people, if I got into a relationship and swinging wasn't an option
A *significant* win on the €uro lottery and a ready supply of new blood with which to satiate our lust as per profile :happy:
Ummm it would have to be something pretty big for me to leave the site. I'd be to much of a skinflint to re join! :lol2:
I had a 4 month haitus from the forums earlier in the year so probably not much at all!
I generally stay now as I don't have all the people I want to share my time with on my facebook or msn, and so I keep in touch via here.
I originally came back for the fun and laughter, but the forums seem mundane lately, and it's not forum fatigue as I'm still really active and enjoying the other forums I visit.
Another skinflint here and again I'd not want to pay to come back ;)
I dunno, not really around much on the forums anymore, moved more to a chatroom person about a year ago, but now thats boring the pants off me too, but i'm not really spending much time anywhere at the moment, life has taken over a bit this year and has stopped me travelling to socials & munchs and being away overnight is more difficult, not sure i would leave totally, like Cally to tight to re-register and pay lol.
As for the scene itself, not really been doing much of swinging at all this year either, maybe things will change once pressures at work and home lift.
so tbh i dunno lol
Earthy x
I could stop using this Forum without hesitation, especially at the minute.
As for the whole site, I don't really know, it's easier to leave our profile on than to cancel. We're taking time out until the New Year meeting wise anyway.
at the moment the firends i had are gone, or not chatting/meeting me so i'm thinking maybe its time to call it a day.
Wouldn't take a lot at the moment, things are just getting worse and worse, on the forum and in my reg chat room - makes ya wonder why ya bother sometimes!!!
i think people have real life stuff to deal with like fabs said, this year i have had illness, death of my father, and lots of other shit going on, on top of that there is the money problems lots of people are having to deal with, but it hasnt stopped me coming here all together, maybe not had time to be here so often or other places.
The more we moan about how crap it is the more crap it gets, the feeling just goes down.
Then let's all make an effort to lovebomb the forum - it'd be a start!
Nah, you're all right... life gets in the way at times.
Times is hard - here's to it all getting better, in here and out there! :cheers:
I dont think i would ever delete my account I`m lucky with an old account. But apart from one sexy lady that lives miles away from me, and despite my best polite best efforts noone seems interested in playing so I do actually wonder why I am still here.
Far too easy for me at the moment but its a combination of personal life and issues here.
Would I delete this account, oh yes! I have of late deleted accounts from a couple of other places.
However, I do have another account here which I have used for years in the chatrooms and I would keep that one.
Thing is, I always know this place will get its teeth into me sooner or later, its just taking a little longer right now because I don't have the time to make the effort.