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Quote by keeno
My mum is dead but I guess if she was here and knew she wouldn't be very happy.
How about all you parents out there how would you feel if your children were on this site? (as adults of course)

Good question, me personally, if I had a grown up son or daughter who came out and said they were swingers and were gay or bi I'd be fine to be honest. I think when you do this yourself it broadens your mind quite a bit. You cannot really go preaching to others what you do yourself. rolleyes wink
I couldnt tell any of my family, i think they would disown me. rolleyes
Louise xx
I've told my two cousins but no way would i tell me folks :shock:
At the moment im either just seeing friends or for weekends and/or overnights they think im meeting fellow CD sufferers that i chat to on a support site lol
I have been thinking of telling them that im on a date site recently which is as close to the truths as i will go.
I think it would be likely to be the one and only time my mum would be speechless! lol
However... I'm never gonna find out! :shock:
My brother knows but I'd never tell my folks... they're a different generation and just wouldn't get it. Hard to say how I'd feel if I had kids and they told me but I'd like to think I'd be okay with whatever they chose to do.
My siblings know that I'm bi and that I'm a swinger. One of them let slip to my mum a while ago that i was bi and she didn't bat an eyelid, just moved the conversation on. Not sure how she'd react to finding out I'm a swinger, but then I don't feel the need to let her know either dunno
If I told my mum I was bisexual, all she'd say is 'make sure you get a good helmet and keep your tyres pumped up' confused
Quote by TLF1416
what would your mother say if you told her that your a swinger?
mine would kill me what would yours do? redface

She'd probably want to know all the details. lol
My dad would go all protective and daddyish on me rolleyes
Quote by Freckledbird
what would your mother say if you told her that your a swinger?
mine would kill me what would yours do? redface

She'd probably want to know all the details. lol
My dad would go all protective and daddyish on me rolleyes
Protective - from what? wink
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Quote by tina1
My mams dead so if shes looking down on me she will probably know

That's just what I was going to say....about my Mum I mean lol
My mum is so sweet, but naive and gullible so I may be able to get away with a tiny fib should the need arise to explain my 'swinging habits' (any alternitive explainations welcome pls).
erm......unless im being naive :giggle:
Mrs G x
Mine (angel's) would just say 'well am not surprised!'
seeing as I disappointed her when I didnt end up on herion, crack and in jail! :kissmyarse:
My dad would be a different story all together! he's have the stake and tumbleweed (good for burning) ready!
bolt :bolt:
I'm sure my mum would go straight into denial and try to ignore it. My dad would make assumptions without knowing anything about it (no change there) and would probably talk about it with the rest of the family but not me.
Quote by goose35
I've told my two cousins but no way would i tell me folks :shock:
At the moment im either just seeing friends or for weekends and/or overnights they think im meeting fellow CD sufferers that i chat to on a support site lol
I have been thinking of telling them that im on a date site recently which is as close to the truths as i will go.

Well due to a cock up i left somthin behind at a recent meet i should have took with me and she found it
Wont say what it was (nowt pervy and not a pair of stillies :lolsmile but she knows i'm not meeting fellow Chrohn'ers redface
So gona have to go the date site route now :lol:
Not my mum, but my sister . . .
Knowing me as she does, me being at work tramping; and allowing for the fact I'd recently broken up from a long term partner; over Christmas Dinner . . . . .
Sis "So . . . . . what are you doing about getting laid these days ?"
Me "Well, inspired by the info 'Bob' (her husband) gave me, I joined a swingers website"
Sis - without batting an eyelid "Ah - that's okay then. Cranberry sauce ?"
rotflmao
my mum and i talk about everything and since my impending divorce to be honest i think like someone else said earlier, mine would want to join.
shes got a new boyfriend and we had some weird converstaions, my mum did tell me about her wedding day and made a reference to things that went on in the hotel that night. did not invlove mum as far as i could tell but she knew.
I can quite happily (?) say I know what my mum would say...and also my dad.
My ex quite happily outed me last week by sending an email to both of my parents telling them all about my involvement with the site. He kindly attached a scan of my chams card, copies of my posts as Silver_blu, my current profile and my receipt from SH.
All they said was - "isn't he getting silly now - what did he think we would do? You're an adult."
Phew.......
All I can say is......they better not logon............
Tiger
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Quote by Tiger_lily
I can quite happily (?) say I know what my mum would say...and also my dad.
My ex quite happily outed me last week by sending an email to both of my parents telling them all about my involvement with the site. He kindly attached a scan of my chams card, copies of my posts as Silver_blu, my current profile and my receipt from SH.
All they said was - "isn't he getting silly now - what did he think we would do? You're an adult."
Phew.......
All I can say is......they better not logon............
Tiger
x

OMG Tiger, that's terrible! Thank God your parents are as they are, but - what a b*stard!!! mad
I dont have a mum cos ive disowned her for the way she allowed my step dad to abuse me when i was a kid.
One of the better things i ever did, it took a few yrs to get the courage and make the move but im happy with the decision, besides shes such a biggot and disaproves of everything. biggrin
Quote by dambuster
Not my mum, but my sister . . .
Knowing me as she does, me being at work tramping; and allowing for the fact I'd recently broken up from a long term partner; over Christmas Dinner . . . . .
Sis "So . . . . . what are you doing about getting laid these days ?"
Me "Well, inspired by the info 'Bob' (her husband) gave me, I joined a swingers website"
Sis - without batting an eyelid "Ah - that's okay then. Cranberry sauce ?"
rotflmao

Dammie, you crack me up hunni :rotflmao:
Gem :therethere:
I think mine would approve, that would get me a few months in therapy
mine go's mental if i forget put me wheelie bin out so god knows what would happen if she knew about this lol
If my mother ever found out about this, it would be Carrie White's mother all over again! lol
Either:
a) "Oh dear, you're one of them."
or b) "There's some great clubs here in Spain".
i have a re-occuring dream where i come on here one day and see an ad from me mum,forget what yr mum would say,what would you say about yr mum??? lol
Quote by robbie_rob
i have a re-occuring dream where i come on here one day and see an ad from me mum,forget what yr mum would say,what would you say about yr mum??? lol

I'd die...that would just be a step too far......I just couldn't live with that knowledge......
Would never tell anyone, my mum, no way :!:
your supposed to love one person and shag that person and no one else under most peoples eyes.
mine wudnt understand at all, she knows how i met dek which got me tortured for months by all the family except my step dad who said "if ya like him why not just make sure he looks after my grandson and knows i drink smirnoff :!: " lol :lol:
:haha:
they calmed down bout afta about a year but cudnt tell me mam about swinging she wud freak out
:haha:
was bad enough wen she found a pic redface surprisedops: :oops: :oops: :oops: now that took some explaining :shock: bolt
Noooo Waaaaaaaaaaaaayyy could I tell me mum...
She's 83 and a church type person who unfortuately tends to suffer from religion, so, if she ever found out... 'Down to the fires of hell where satan sticks his fork up yer bum' :twisted: and all that... err.. no thanks -leave that right with you!
My mother gave up on me years ago. I always was uncontrollable in her eyes and always will be.
I don't have to worry about my family now though as they have all gone to wherever it is you go to.
Just as well cause at least her hair can stop curling now lol
DD
Think my Mum would say " Yeah I Know " They aren't stupid these Mums !!
She would respond in her usual .... if it makes you happy then fine, but be careful.
I love me Mum biggrin