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What's a guy got to do to get a meet on this site

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Hi folks what has a single guy got to do to get a meeting on this site,it's getting worse.
I never found it helpful.
Stop moaning and be more proactive? I never had problems finding some lovely single blokes - but I never chose the ones who grumbled about the site.
It's like a lot of things in life, you just have to be in the right place at the right time.
I had three meets in three years here when I was looking and I think they were all due to me just being lucky with the timing of my approach to the people involved .
Search out the profiles, the ones without pics get less offers, and they're not that bad looking!
Try not to sound too desperate. That helps. thread title sounds a bit needy.
Try: 'What's a guy have to do to stop all these girlies fighting over me, especially when they have seen pics of my nob, which were not photoshopped much to make it look bigger'
also, should point out I'm not trying to sound arsey - my real advice would be to just say hi and join in the chat. They're quite nice on here, generally - made me feel welcome and I'm a total freak :>
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also, should point out I'm not trying to sound arsey - my real advice would be to just say hi and join in the chat. They're quite nice on here, generally - made me feel welcome and I'm a total freak :>

You don't have to be a freak to fit in here.....
Well actually you probably do! :lol2:
Try attending socials, always plenty going on.
Put some effort in, and be more positive. Rome wasn't built in a day.
Socialise here in the forum, chat in the chatrooms, go to socials, try a club. I've tried them all.
That's how I managed to meet some lovely people here, and made some super friends too. It took me some time and effort, but was it worth the effort? wink
Bet your bottom dollar it was. lol
I had a look at your profile and that seems o.k.. I've been a member for years and all of my meets have come from the chatrooms and usually when I've been on cam, maybe even always when on cam. Go to socials to meet local swingers and spend some time in chat to become known. As a single guy you will be considered a potential nuisance and a time waster until you prove otherwise, but there are a number of ladies on site who do like to meet singles. Have fun.
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you are short, flabby, bald, old, a moaner. i have no idea why you are finding it difficult to get laid?

How rude!!! :eeek:
5 foot 10 isn't short either.....I'm 5 foot 9 and know as tall Dean lol ....!!!!!!!
LoL Brucie your tall slim good looking full head of hair etc but that's OK we forgive your personality disorder biggrin