apologies in advance if this thread has already been doone n dusted
im just curios as to why some people join SH having read the threads today we have one from a guy saying he isnt fussy and tons from others (mainly men) just asking for a meet the same day as the post
am i mistaken or do people seriously meet someone who doesnt care who they shag or someone they have at most swapped to pms and had a 5min chat? i thought the idea was to build up a rapport with the person ie trust respect etc
obv slightly different if its a party or dogging that your into,but again last night was a post wanting someone to visit a guy at work??
maybe its me thats mistaken here but it appears that some people think as your into swinging you have lost all your morals
as i say maybe ive misread this and i have not meant to judge or offend anyone with this thread
• adjective (informal) 1 lively, exciting, and fashionable. 2 sexually liberated or promiscuous
This is the definition from this site. May be worth a look if you are unsure what a swinger is :shock:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/swinging.html
You dont know who i am but your signature is telling me to drop you a line anytime. you'll call me when you know me as well as my wife does yes
Swinging for me is definetly not about just having sex. I am a single bi fem and if I just wanted a one night stand I'd go down my local gay or str8 pub! Easy! Swinging for me is about friendships with like minded people. Some of those people I have sex with - but not if it is only going to be one night. I don't knock those who want that. I just don't. I like sex with couples, but, again - I am not into one nighters. I prefer to build up a repor and and a firendship. It is stil swinging becuase the friendship is based on sex - but ther is more to it than just that.
These are my own opinions/feelings/why i am here.