I keep seeing Ads for WE or VWE males wanted. What is the definition of WE or VWE? I don't know if to apply! Help!
As a straight man, I've not been close to any erect cocks, apart from mine. But girls that I have been with say its larger than others they have been with (perhaps they have been with small cocks).
It is said 6in is average, and a few years ago a GF measured mine at 8in, but I can see my cock has 'different lengths' depending on how I am feeling that evening even when erect/excited - If I am feeling; tired, dehydrated, to much to drink, not really getting turned on by woman etc. When I lose a bit of weight, its officially larger, as the fat is less etc.
PS. I will measure mine again, when aroused, and see what I am.
Your comments would be interesting...
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Casanova
OP inadvertently you hit the nail on the head: there is nothing concrete about these labels, not only because everybody's definition differs but also (and especially!) because genitals' shape and size is a dynamic thing (ladies' parts, too).
I'll propose something drastic, go into the bi marrieds room, stick your erection on camera and ask for people to give you an appraisal. Some will be complimentary in their judgement, some will be mean but overall you'll get a true reflection. Alternatively in your position I would describe my member as "good-sized" or "juicy/fat/long/with big head" ie. whatever the shape of it is (not that juicy is a shape but you get what I mean, descriptive language), then put a clear picture on for people to draw their own conclusions. Show don't tell, always.
I think pretty much everyone here takes the WE/VWE/VVWE descriptions with a pinch of salt. And the dedicated big cock chasers go for spectacularly large, the kind of penis you don't have doubts whether it's larger than average or not.
I feel for your confusion though - the big cock rooms are full of average and so is the small cocks ones! And when you talk to these men they are convinced their slightly smaller or slightly bigger than average cock, or their perfectly average one, is actually big/small. There is no hard measures here, it is all arbitrary.
I'll propose something drastic, go into the bi marrieds room, stick your erection on camera and ask for people to give you an appraisal. Some will be complimentary in their judgement, some will be mean but overall you'll get a true reflection. Alternatively in your position I would describe my member as "good-sized" or "juicy/fat/long/with big head" ie. whatever the shape of it is (not that juicy is a shape but you get what I mean, descriptive language), then put a clear picture on for people to draw their own conclusions. Show don't tell, always.
I think pretty much everyone here takes the WE/VWE/VVWE descriptions with a pinch of salt. And the dedicated big cock chasers go for spectacularly large, the kind of penis you don't have doubts whether it's larger than average or not.
I feel for your confusion though - the big cock rooms are full of average and so is the small cocks ones! And when you talk to these men they are convinced their slightly smaller or slightly bigger than average cock, or their perfectly average one, is actually big/small. There is no hard measures here, it is all arbitrary.
Warming the Bed
OP I've had exactly the same experience of women telling me I'm slighty above average, and certainly not small. Very difficult to know.
As for the lables I am likewise sceptical - How many adds ask for VWE only, and how many average sized guys must respond to those ads by saying that they a VWE?
I've been around naked men with erections before and some are large, some are small but most are average.
I also think it's a perspective thing - if you're a tall chubby man an average sized penis will look small and vice versa if you're short and thin. Camera angles on photo's change perspective as lot as well.
One grump you hear from people meeting met is that the men they meet say "I've got a 9 inch cock" when responding to ads for them only to be average in size. I think to solve this we need a conversion table between real life inches and the internet inches some people use lol (The conversion factor could be called the lying index!)
Maybe the best way to respond to inquisitive women and couples is to tell them to stop asking about your size, because it's best for you to show them in person! (I might be being flippant here lol ).
As for the lables I am likewise sceptical - How many adds ask for VWE only, and how many average sized guys must respond to those ads by saying that they a VWE?
I've been around naked men with erections before and some are large, some are small but most are average.
I also think it's a perspective thing - if you're a tall chubby man an average sized penis will look small and vice versa if you're short and thin. Camera angles on photo's change perspective as lot as well.
One grump you hear from people meeting met is that the men they meet say "I've got a 9 inch cock" when responding to ads for them only to be average in size. I think to solve this we need a conversion table between real life inches and the internet inches some people use lol (The conversion factor could be called the lying index!)
Maybe the best way to respond to inquisitive women and couples is to tell them to stop asking about your size, because it's best for you to show them in person! (I might be being flippant here lol ).
Thanks for your responses... I get were you ae coming from...
So you are overall you are saying 'size' doesn't matter?
But only if its over 5in?
By looks of it... I have nothing to worry about... Or do 'most men'...
And a cock is like a 'balloon', well my one is. When its in 'full sail' its 8in and girth is good... and later on same night, with the same woman, its smaller little chipolata/uninterested, cos' if the woman just didn't really turn you on, or other times it can be just the 'recovery' period needed is longer/next morning, after too much wine.
So you are overall you are saying 'size' doesn't matter?
But only if its over 5in?
By looks of it... I have nothing to worry about... Or do 'most men'...
And a cock is like a 'balloon', well my one is. When its in 'full sail' its 8in and girth is good... and later on same night, with the same woman, its smaller little chipolata/uninterested, cos' if the woman just didn't really turn you on, or other times it can be just the 'recovery' period needed is longer/next morning, after too much wine.
Warming the Bed
I'll put it this, um innovative way.
Size does matter - but how the lady feels matters more!
There are some "size queens" in the population (be it male or female), but most of all I guess on a given meet it's how your partner feels what they want.
The range of female/males want for cocks in enormous, and the size of the female vagina (and anal passage) seems to be much more variable that cock size.
There are women out there who don't like big cocks (some adverts state that anything over 6 inches will be declined) they don't give the lady pleasure - On the other hand other women like massive cocks, anal sex, DP, DVP and fisting, these are the ladies who like to feel stretched and who mix pleasure with pain.
I also know that I sometimes like anal toys (but mostly I don't), but the physical sensations that cause me pleasure are totally dependent on my mood - and I guess that's the same with females as well. It's rather like asking you to decide what your favourite porn is - most types of porn are good, but what I feel like at any given time depends on how I'm feeling.
What I'm trying to get at is that womens needs are probably much more variable than mens cock sizes - The same woman will have fickle tastes in what she wants at any given time just like men have fickle tastes about what exactly turns them on at any given time.
..... Which is maybe why it boils down to the old adage - its not the size, it's what you do with it that counts.
So maybe us as men have to stop obsessing about cock sizes and start to understand that for ladies it changes depending on their mood, and for most ladies it's still the chemistry rather than the physical that takes presidence. It also explains why women can be very happy with one cock (whatever its size), but on occasions want more and feel DP or DVP would be nice.
As for your size - If you're 8 inches fully erect I don't think you have anything to worry about
You might actually be too big for some women. As for others they might actually want another cock as well as yours in them - personally that thought is enough to make any man who's into women feel a mixture of inferiority and hornyness lol
In short stop worrying! - the satisfaction of your partners sexual needs will not be decided on your cock size.
However this is from a purely male and mostly hetrosexual perspective, so women(and men who are into cock) might like to contribute.
Size does matter - but how the lady feels matters more!
There are some "size queens" in the population (be it male or female), but most of all I guess on a given meet it's how your partner feels what they want.
The range of female/males want for cocks in enormous, and the size of the female vagina (and anal passage) seems to be much more variable that cock size.
There are women out there who don't like big cocks (some adverts state that anything over 6 inches will be declined) they don't give the lady pleasure - On the other hand other women like massive cocks, anal sex, DP, DVP and fisting, these are the ladies who like to feel stretched and who mix pleasure with pain.
I also know that I sometimes like anal toys (but mostly I don't), but the physical sensations that cause me pleasure are totally dependent on my mood - and I guess that's the same with females as well. It's rather like asking you to decide what your favourite porn is - most types of porn are good, but what I feel like at any given time depends on how I'm feeling.
What I'm trying to get at is that womens needs are probably much more variable than mens cock sizes - The same woman will have fickle tastes in what she wants at any given time just like men have fickle tastes about what exactly turns them on at any given time.
..... Which is maybe why it boils down to the old adage - its not the size, it's what you do with it that counts.
So maybe us as men have to stop obsessing about cock sizes and start to understand that for ladies it changes depending on their mood, and for most ladies it's still the chemistry rather than the physical that takes presidence. It also explains why women can be very happy with one cock (whatever its size), but on occasions want more and feel DP or DVP would be nice.
As for your size - If you're 8 inches fully erect I don't think you have anything to worry about
You might actually be too big for some women. As for others they might actually want another cock as well as yours in them - personally that thought is enough to make any man who's into women feel a mixture of inferiority and hornyness lol
In short stop worrying! - the satisfaction of your partners sexual needs will not be decided on your cock size.
However this is from a purely male and mostly hetrosexual perspective, so women(and men who are into cock) might like to contribute.
