It is sooooo hard to pick the best bit ....
I love a good snog and will snog people at every given opportunity. I love the first kiss with someone, not knowing how it is going to be and having the nervous feeling in the pit of your stomach. I love it when you passionately undress someone while snogging.
The first instance of someone entering me. How I suddenly feel full of cock!! It's fab!!
Of course the orgasm and the moments leading up to it. I'm hard work so this only ever happens with hubby.
The moment leading up to his orgasm. I love to watch a guy's face when he is about to cum.
Oh I could just go on and on ..... I just love sex!!
Great topic Nola .... thanks for posting.
I too adore kissing it's so intimate and sensual. I recall a kissing session with a very skilled former forumite so intense that she very nearly blew my mind and all but induced a no touch ejaculation on my part, and this was in the high street of a major city centre.
I also love to see the expression of pleasure on my lovers face as she responds to my attempts to pleasure her in whatever way I can or to hear the almost involuntary gasps as the personal buttons are discovered and pressed. Best of all I love to see there face consumed entirely by the orgasm they are having.
Ahhh ...and then there's that magical first moment of penetration; especially if in a position to see it, that moment of brief and gentle resistsance before those luscious lips yield and then the all encompassing feeling of warmth and wetness pervades your whole body....
Oh my I'm getting carried away. I better not mention any more.
Ah well I think I've said summat similar elsewhere but....
...the best bit for me is the point where you both have eye contact just at the moment of penetration.
It says "I am allowing you into my body" - it says "I am looking into your soul as I penetrate your body".
Oh such exquisite sensation!
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At my age - going to sleep afterwards :giggle:
That moment just before orgasm! Both feeling it in yourself and trying to prolong it and if it goes just right recognising it in your partner and being able to hold them just at that point. Through experience the longer either of you spend in that 'zone' the bigger the orgasm that follows..... Mmmmmmmmm brings back fond memories!
For me foreplay is paramount - the longer it lasts, the better. Penetration is what foreplay is building towards and the longer and better the foreplay the greater the sensation when the final act happens.
I have to say that my own orgasm is completely unimportant. Some of my most enjoyable and memorable sexual experiences have not involved me having an orgasm at all.
I am glad that Nola (and others) have mentioned kissing. That is where it all starts. That is the moment when you first know that this encounter is going to go further. I know some people don't like kissing with anyone other than their long term partner, and limits and preferences must always be respected, but, personally, I don't understand how you can get intimate without kissing. How do you start? Do you leap on each other avoiding oral contact at all costs?
Speaking of oral (if you'll pardon the pun!), I absolutely love that - both giving and receiving.
So for me, the ideal sexual encounter would involve exploring my partner's body completely: touching, stroking, caressing, kissing, licking every single part of her - for as long as we can both stand - before culminating in long, slow, sensual love-making, interspersed by periods of fast, furious and passionate f**k*ng. Afterwards, we can collapse in a heap and hold each other.
Phew! I wasn't expecting to write all that, it just came from nowhere.
Will
Need a drink and a wind down now!
kissing is just mmmmmmmmm
another bit i like is pre sex really, but its that bit where the guy stood behind me nibbles my neck unexpectedly or kisses my neck, reching round then to play with my nips that have started hardening from the neck play....makes the airs stand up all over and gives me the fizzes!!
Best bits, Hmmmm. That has to be what was once desribed to me as 'touchy, feely, gropey, squeezy. Exploring each others bodies, slowly and sensually.
Having said that I do enjoy kissing, and my latest discovery, oral both ways. Seeing a woman orgasm, just delicious.
This is a great thread, and it's made me stop and take stock of what I get from sex.
A lot of what's been said before does tend to come down to the physical mechanics of the sex act. To be honest that's probably one of the easier parts and most people can lick/suck/nibble/blow/kiss etc etc etc to an acceptable standard provided they get enough practise.
However, for me the holy grail has to be the mental aspect. There's nothing better than knowing you've been able to climb inside your partner's head and create a climate where everything physical comes together at precisely the right time and place in their thoughts, culminating at the point when they lose control of their own self and succumb to the spell you've managed to weave.
The look of openness and shock on someones face as they climax is one of the most beautiful and rewarding events you can witness in life, and that makes it my "best part of sex". :thumbup:
Well that's what I think anyway. I'm off to belch and scratch my arse now before someone starts to think I might be turning into a romantic softy. ;-)
I don't, smoke so a post-coital fag is out of the question.
