Hello all you knowelegable and experienced ladies.
I am looking for advice on the best vibrator to buy for my girlfriend. We are an exclusive couple, both 24 and she isnt overly experienced sexually(im her first), but is getting there and doing very well indeed.
I want to buy her a vibrator to add a little bit of kink to our sex life and let her play alone more.
What would be the best one to buy to get here started. I know hte rabbit is a fav, but would it be a bit to much for her first??
Any advise would be great!!
XXXXX Thanks XXXXX
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Whats the best vibrator for the ladies??
Quote by Kiss
Ok, I'm going to shock a lot of people and say.....
I don't know the answer! :shock:
I'm sorry I couldn't be more helpful but :welcome: to the forums!
I'm not sure there is one, Kiss.
We all have our own tastes.
HLB has her favourites, I have mine. Whether they're the same is anybody's guess; and let's not forget -preferences change under differing situations and times.
Welcome to the asylum, sexualenergy.
One thing you might consider is - Who is the vibe for ?
You ?
Her ?
Both ?
There could be three genuine different answers, therefore three different vibrators :thumbup:
Sex God
welcome 
I must admit i do love my Bunny best out of all my vibrators...not that i have a closet full or owt
I must admit i do love my Bunny best out of all my vibrators...not that i have a closet full or owt
Casanova
Quote by dambuster
Ok, I'm going to shock a lot of people and say.....
I don't know the answer! :shock:
I'm sorry I couldn't be more helpful but :welcome: to the forums!
I'm not sure there is one, Kiss.
We all have our own tastes.
HLB has her favourites, I have mine. Whether they're the same is anybody's guess; and let's not forget -preferences change under differing situations and times.
Welcome to the asylum, sexualenergy.
One thing you might consider is - Who is the vibe for ?
You ?
Her ?
Both ?
There could be three genuine different answers, therefore three different vibrators :thumbup:
:thumbup: There isnt a one fits all when it comes to vibes,its personal taste.
I personaly much prefer playing externaly and have a whole family of rabits i hardly ever pet :giggle: as i prefer my bullets. But i would recommend getting one with variable speeds over a one speed jobbie.
Have fun with what ever you decide oh and
& :welcome: Nicky
Sex God
I have faaaaaar too many, but still adding to it!
I'm after a new one and had a look on ann summers the other day.
I like the look of the thruster, has anyone got one that would recommend it?
I love my rabbit, although if she hasn't tried one before, then maybe try the magic wand as you can adjust the settings more to 'get her used to it'
Why don't you both look online together to get an idea of what she might like?
Some sites do 'kits' which come with a selection of several different vibes,dildos,bullets,beads etc, that's always an option if she's still not sure what would tickle her fancy
Or it might be an idea to start off small, try a small bullet vibe, or one of the massagers so you could introduce it gradually.
while we're on the topic, has anyone tried the cone from ann summers?
WTF is it? what does it do? it's shaped like a party hat, and on the site is a video clip of it, where you see a granny taking her false teeth out, and it looks like it lights up- bizarre!
There were a few others that i might post links up to that i was perplexed by!!!
M xx
I'm after a new one and had a look on ann summers the other day.
I like the look of the thruster, has anyone got one that would recommend it?
I love my rabbit, although if she hasn't tried one before, then maybe try the magic wand as you can adjust the settings more to 'get her used to it'
Why don't you both look online together to get an idea of what she might like?
Some sites do 'kits' which come with a selection of several different vibes,dildos,bullets,beads etc, that's always an option if she's still not sure what would tickle her fancy
Or it might be an idea to start off small, try a small bullet vibe, or one of the massagers so you could introduce it gradually.
while we're on the topic, has anyone tried the cone from ann summers?
WTF is it? what does it do? it's shaped like a party hat, and on the site is a video clip of it, where you see a granny taking her false teeth out, and it looks like it lights up- bizarre!
There were a few others that i might post links up to that i was perplexed by!!!
M xx
Sex God
The cone:
Anyone tried this one?
Wingman-I don't understand where the pleasure in this one is?!
m xx
Anyone tried this one?
Wingman-I don't understand where the pleasure in this one is?!
m xx
Sex God
welcome to the forum & i hope you enjoy. 
Can I ask if your girlfriend has asked for one or is this your idea? there are so many out there for different people. I think it would be advisable that your girlfriend goes shopping & looks around for herself /or go to an ann summers party to look & may be feel the different shapes n sizes n vibrations.
Can I ask if your girlfriend has asked for one or is this your idea? there are so many out there for different people. I think it would be advisable that your girlfriend goes shopping & looks around for herself /or go to an ann summers party to look & may be feel the different shapes n sizes n vibrations.
I left one girlfriend because of her obsession for being shagged with a strapon.
I told her to find a guy.
im not a feminist by any means but im not impresed with the impersonal feel of an artificial appliance and much prefer fingers and tongues.
How many screws in a lesbians bed?
None, its all tongue and groove
I told her to find a guy.
im not a feminist by any means but im not impresed with the impersonal feel of an artificial appliance and much prefer fingers and tongues.
How many screws in a lesbians bed?
None, its all tongue and groove
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omg! dammy, fancy seeing you here
I don't get about as much as I used to, but I do still try :wink:
Quote by mazandden
I have faaaaaar too many, but still adding to it!
M xx
For once, I'm home early and before her, so I was tempted to line up HLB's vibes and "stuff" and post a pic of the collection - but it just got me all horned up and I'm trying not to have a tug before she gets home
ops: 
Sex God
have a tug m8
then you'll last longer when HLB gets home
then you'll last longer when HLB gets home
Quote by sercher01
have a tug m8
then you'll last longer when HLB gets home
No time now.
I've got to go bathe, pretty myself up and shave before she gets home so that I don't "beard-face" her in the pussy :shock:
And . . . .
I'm under strict instructions to not wank after Wednesdays so that she can have two days worth of jizz when I get home.
"Hi Honey, I'm home"
"Hello Baby, did you have a good week ?"
"Not bad Sweetie, but I'm glad to be home now with my very own horny little blonde"
"Want cock now"
"Okay. Here, have this"
"Want jizz now. Give me my jizz ! !"
Sex God
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
i see what you meen
i see what you meen
Sex God
The best vib for anyone is one that works and has batteries in
Quote by mazandden
The cone:
Anyone tried this one?
Wingman-I don't understand where the pleasure in this one is?!
m xx
I've been talking to someone lately about the cone, apparently it sits more on the outside of your *whispers* genital area and pulsates to bring on the most intense orgasm. I've not tried it but apparently it's going to be used on me on Saturday night! :shock:
Sex God
Hi sexualenergy and welcome
For a first time vibrator i'd avoid the rabbit, it's quite big and can look rather intimidating if you've not used one before.
Start smaller and work up to it
pink x
For a first time vibrator i'd avoid the rabbit, it's quite big and can look rather intimidating if you've not used one before.
Start smaller and work up to it
pink x
Sex God
The cone:
Anyone tried this one?
Wingman-I don't understand where the pleasure in this one is?!
m xx
I've been talking to someone lately about the cone, apparently it sits more on the outside of your *whispers* genital area and pulsates to bring on the most intense orgasm. I've not tried it but apparently it's going to be used on me on Saturday night! :shock:
I shall await your full report on Monday morning Jaymar. Make sure it is conclusive. :high-smile:
pink x
Quote by blueandpink
The cone:
Anyone tried this one?
Wingman-I don't understand where the pleasure in this one is?!
m xx
I've been talking to someone lately about the cone, apparently it sits more on the outside of your *whispers* genital area and pulsates to bring on the most intense orgasm. I've not tried it but apparently it's going to be used on me on Saturday night! :shock:
I shall await your full report on Monday morning Jaymar. Make sure it is conclusive. :high-smile:
pink x
haha, oh yes Pink, if it's that good I'll be PM'ing you by Sunday lunchtime! (hopefully I'll be too tired to be up before then! lol)
Sex God
Ask Dave and Chas.
Welcome to the Forum!
.
Welcome to the Forum!
.
my first ever vibrator and the one i still use most regularly is the pocket pleaser:
i also have the rampant rabbit (good) the deluxe rampant rabbit (crap) a pulsatron (amazing) and a double ender (need someone to go on the other end of it for full effect i feel)
im hoping for this one on valentines day tho :
i also have the rampant rabbit (good) the deluxe rampant rabbit (crap) a pulsatron (amazing) and a double ender (need someone to go on the other end of it for full effect i feel)
im hoping for this one on valentines day tho :
Sex God
The cone:
Anyone tried this one?
Wingman-I don't understand where the pleasure in this one is?!
m xx
I've been talking to someone lately about the cone, apparently it sits more on the outside of your *whispers* genital area and pulsates to bring on the most intense orgasm. I've not tried it but apparently it's going to be used on me on Saturday night! :shock:
I shall await your full report on Monday morning Jaymar. Make sure it is conclusive. :high-smile:
pink x
haha, oh yes Pink, if it's that good I'll be PM'ing you by Sunday lunchtime! (hopefully I'll be too tired to be up before then! lol)
Shall look forward Jaymar, we're partying tonight too, kids away (yippee), so have along lie in tomorrow, hoping we'll need it :wink: :wink:
pink x
Sex God
Hi sexualenergy and welcome
For a first time vibrator i'd avoid the rabbit, it's quite big and can look rather intimidating if you've not used one before.
Start smaller and work up to it
pink x
Nooooooooooooooooooooo
Your view maybe, but I know the look of it scares the crap outta some of my not so sexually liberated friends. And let's face it we want Mrs sexualenergy to be happy trialling a new vibe, seeing as Mr sexualenergy has come and asked for advice. Besides not everyone wants huge ones with loads of function buttons. Like sexkitten i still favour my oldest and one of the smaller vibes (think it's called ladyfinger)
pink x
Sex God
Best Vibrator for the ladies- what ever happened to the good ol' fashioned dryer/washing machine set to spin?
Thankyou all for replying to my query. For those of you that asked, it is my move getting a vibrator. Introducing it as a surprise, she has mentioned them before and said we should start to be a bit more adverturous. I have had more partners and been experimental, so i am taking it all slow with her, let her find what she wants.
ALso would like to point out it is nothing to do with poor sex at the moment. We have great sex and go at it all night. Just adding variety!
I am thinking that a simpler one to start of with (not a rabbit) might be a good thing. Ease her in, or ease IT in as the case may be.
xxx so thanks again
xxx
ALso would like to point out it is nothing to do with poor sex at the moment. We have great sex and go at it all night. Just adding variety!
I am thinking that a simpler one to start of with (not a rabbit) might be a good thing. Ease her in, or ease IT in as the case may be.
xxx so thanks again
xxx
Warming the Bed
Quote by sexualenergy
Thankyou all for replying to my query. For those of you that asked, it is my move getting a vibrator. Introducing it as a surprise, she has mentioned them before and said we should start to be a bit more adverturous. I have had more partners and been experimental, so i am taking it all slow with her, let her find what she wants.
ALso would like to point out it is nothing to do with poor sex at the moment. We have great sex and go at it all night. Just adding variety!
I am thinking that a simpler one to start of with (not a rabbit) might be a good thing. Ease her in, or ease IT in as the case may be.
xxx so thanks again
xxx
noo rabbits are so good!
