whats the best way to get reponses

15 Nov 2006

hi send out alot of replies out to adverts, but hardly get any replies to my adverts is it because too many males on the site or to many non members and tthey just cant respond to the adverts

16 Nov 2006

Hi Mark and don't give up smile

Yes, there are a lot of guys on the site, but if you make your replies individual to the particular ad - not pasted/copied etc, you will get some good responses that work out well :thumbup:
Good luck
xx Ann n Jon

16 Nov 2006

Just as xsandj4funx said mate wink

Plus in your location there must be loads of fems/cpls etc seeking extra males biggrin

16 Nov 2006

Quote by mark4fun
hi send out alot of replies out to adverts, but hardly get any replies to my adverts is it because too many males on the site or to many non members and tthey just cant respond to the adverts

Not too many men in my opinion, it's about replying to ads that are appropriate. Although I do reply to all the ppl who contact me, even if it's a no thanks, I do sometimes want to put 'can you read ffs' - but I don't. Are you replying to ads that are appropriate for what you're offering? And what is it you write? do you tell the person about yourself or say something like 'i'm local, wanna shag'?
This isn't a name or shame site, and that wouldn't be my intention, but I'd love to post some of the messages I get because I seriously pmsl and think wtf, ffs, rolleyes

or just plain old dunno

- it would certainly be helpful those who seem to put a lot in but don't get much response. It might be as simple as you're replying to the wrong ads or you're not writing something that makes a person want to get to know you.
If you want some feedback on what you're writing, PM me a message that you've sent to someone but not had a response to . If you want some brutal honesty that is... :twisted:

16 Nov 2006

Quote by hornyinslough
If you want some feedback on what you're writing, PM me a message that you've sent to someone but not had a response to . If you want some brutal honesty that is... :twisted:

no no.... it's not brutal honesty.... it's called contructive criticism hornyinslough style wink

16 Nov 2006

Quote by hornyinslough
If you want some feedback on what you're writing, PM me a message that you've sent to someone but not had a response to . If you want some brutal honesty that is... :twisted:

Can I take you up on this offer HinS?
I think I need all the help I can get. redface

Some constructive criticism would be nice though.
Be gentle with me though. kiss

16 Nov 2006

Quote by mark4fun
hi send out alot of replies out to adverts, but hardly get any replies to my adverts is it because too many males on the site or to many non members and tthey just cant respond to the adverts

see..... it is a catch 22 this.... if i give away all the secrets to my success.... then everyone would do it..... if that happened then i would have to find some other way to stand out.....and where would that get me....
you know what.....it really is tough sometimes being tall, dark, handsome, loveable, funny as fuck and hung like a horse*........ bolt

sean
* okay some or all of the above may or may not be true.........but i bet it made you choke or spit out whatever you were eating/drinking

16 Nov 2006

Nope fabio - it made me howl...... :giggle: :giggle:
Now, where's my blue peter badge? wink

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