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Quote by dambuster
They were just selfish rolleyes
Pussies are for sharing :thumbup:

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
I love both giving and receiving but it's not the end of the world if it doesn't happen.... I wouldn't want a bloke to give me oral for ages though :shock: I would say about 15 minutes is about right wink
Edit : Oh and Mallock is a god when it comes to oral :smug: He made me say it :lol2: Actually he is but dont tell him :wink:
doin a 69?
fluck it I cant be arsed! :sleeping:
Just gimmi a 68 & I'll owe you one confused
Quote by varca
I love giving and receiving O and love giving BJs. I'm lucky that my regular guys are excellent at it so have all the girls I've been with too wink )

I figured I was doing something right when I had to peel you off the ceiling :twisted: :grin: 150 out of 100 for you too Sassy passionkiss

Imagination suitably fired! :twisted:
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Quote by westerross
I love giving and receiving O and love giving BJs. I'm lucky that my regular guys are excellent at it so have all the girls I've been with too wink )

I figured I was doing something right when I had to peel you off the ceiling :twisted: :grin: 150 out of 100 for you too Sassy passionkiss

Imagination suitably fired! :twisted:
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Some folk are sooooo easy to please lol
:laughabove: I'm gonna be needing some of that gel too! :laughabove: :wanker:
Quote by Warmer
what about the ads where the women who say they give the best blowjob in town?....its not just the guys who brag.

Apparently I do!... cool alllll the way! I love to give a man oral, I could do it for hours and I'm well and truely 'ready' afterwards! lolfor a cuppa? :lol:
I must say I can quite excited myself whilst giving a blowjob :lickface:
rotflmao yes very good... I get very very excited giving a BJ, ooh I'm getting all hot under the collar thinking about it, must be an early morning thing! :lol:
Quote by Sassy-Seren
There's few things better than someone cumming in your face

I concur..hot juicy jizz bursting forth like a geyser of man juice. Fantastic :twisted:
or girl juice wink
redface oh er, you lot are rather frisky this weekend!
:wink:
Quote by mazandden
I'm totally with you on this one Tania!
In fact, I was going to post something similar!
I hate when a guy pms and says he has 'an expert tongue' he 'can do oral on the lady for hours and hours'
So?! dunno
As if that is what every single female is looking for and that will get them forming a queue!
I would much rather see someone saying, they love to find out what makes a woman tick- oral is definately not the be all n end all for me, and that doesn't mean i haven't had good oral- i definately have, den is certainly an expert thank you, but most of the time i just like a good hard shagging!!!!!
lol
m xx

Maz, I've quoted your post but this isn't aimed directly at you passionkiss
If the advert says "expert at oral" and it isn't your thing then move on! Find something that is your thing.
For everyone one person who dislikes something specific there will be two behind them who adore that something specific and are looking for such person!
I just don't see the point in, what feels like a criticism of someones ad. If they are proud of/good at what they do .. let them brag!
I love receiving oral and the men I've been with have been fantastic biggrin I've given oral to ladies, but as yet I have only received it once.
I'll also admit to not being the biggest fan of giving oral to men redface I will do it, but I hate the taste/smell of cum and unless I trust someone to be really clean and aware then I can't do it. Although I am assured there's nothing wrong with my technique LMAO.
Cx
I really do like giving and receiving oral sex but not for hours on end. To me its enjoyable as foreplay or to fill in the gaps or for a breather! lol
Quote by mazandden
.... but most of the time i just like a good hard shagging!!!!!
:lol:
m xx

I'm with you on this one maz :thumbup:
Fee
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Quote by varca
I love giving and receiving O and love giving BJs. I'm lucky that my regular guys are excellent at it so have all the girls I've been with too wink )

I am struggling to comprehend how any woman could not enjoy it dunno I guess it has to be down to the giver's technique or lack of so it seems. Or maybe an issue with the woman herself being able to completely let herself go. I have a feeling that a lot if it has to do with how you (general you) were brought up, if you were made to feel that your looloo was only for obluting and for the procreation of children and were somehow made to feel that anything else could be considered as "dirty" or "bad" and those hangups remain then that could be a factor :dunno:
It's definately not due to how I was brought up!
I certainly don't think I'd be a swinger if I thought oral sexy was dirty and wrong lol!
And it also isn't down to technique- most of the guys and girlies have been amazing, it's just something that doesn't float my boat.
I think when I was younger and playing with myself, i went straight for the dildo, cos using my fingers took far too long, and its the same with clit stimulation of any sort for me, even if it's with a vibe- it takes too long and i'm way too impatient!
Stick a cock/strap on/double ender in me and I could cum in minutes!!!hehehehe!
Calista- kiss
I would usually say the exact same as you, if you don't like an add, then move on, but the thing that I'm not so keen at is its usually the qsb that seem to write the same in their ads- i.e:
'thick cock, hard stayer, love giving o to completion- seriously girls I could do it for hours, heavy cummer...' etc etc
It's like there's an ad pro-forma kicking about that they all use, assuming that it's the kind of info that we all want- 'all girls like oral so i better put that bit in'
Even if all girls do like oral, it also doesn't necessarily mean that the guy is going to be good at it for every girl- and how does the guy know? he's not on the receiving end!!!!
M xx
Oral sex is fab and i love it - giving and receiving!
For me to achieve orgasm through oral is really hit n miss - depends on the mood, partner, environment, everything - but i still enjoy it.
the blokes that claim to love doing it for hours are actually quite off-putting.
I don't want anyone to do it hours! I'd get bored and fall asleep or be looking around for the Tv remote
Also, that line is just like the "fast repeater, heavy cummer blah blah" that you see on so many ads that it's just ... dunno, cack really! They can't all be that fantastic.
Giving oral is wonderful and I do get turned on by someone else being turned by me! If they reach orgasm it's another great turn on and it's like a massive compliment as well really.
There's not much nicer than have a man or woman squirming with pleasure at your touch.
really though, oral is not the be all and end all - it's just part of a good sesh! Which - if anyone's interested wink - I like to end with a good hard fuck!
have a peek at the *fishermans friend* thread, and ignore the Marmite referances
lp
Quote by Marya_Northeast
Giving oral is wonderful and I do get turned on by someone else being turned by me! If they reach orgasm it's another great turn on and it's like a massive compliment as well really.
There's not much nicer than have a man or woman squirming with pleasure at your touch.

:thumbup: ditto
and you can soooo tell when someone's 'into you' and into what they're doing cant you! it shows both ways! there's a huge difference bewteen a couple of tentative licks just to be able to say you've done it, and being sooo into making them squirm you want to practically climb inside....especially if they reciporocate and start bucking onto my mouth :lol2: :twisted:
Quote by Marya_Northeast
Oral sex is fab and i love it - giving and receiving!
For me to achieve orgasm through oral is really hit n miss - depends on the mood, partner, environment, everything - but i still enjoy it.
the blokes that claim to love doing it for hours are actually quite off-putting.
I don't want anyone to do it hours! I'd get bored and fall asleep or be looking around for the Tv remote
Also, that line is just like the "fast repeater, heavy cummer blah blah" that you see on so many ads that it's just ... dunno, cack really! They can't all be that fantastic.
Giving oral is wonderful and I do get turned on by someone else being turned by me! If they reach orgasm it's another great turn on and it's like a massive compliment as well really.
There's not much nicer than have a man or woman squirming with pleasure at your touch.
really though, oral is not the be all and end all - it's just part of a good sesh! Which - if anyone's interested wink - I like to end with a good hard fuck!

:thumbup:
yes to it all marya!!!!
xx
Quote by Darkfire

Giving oral is wonderful and I do get turned on by someone else being turned by me! If they reach orgasm it's another great turn on and it's like a massive compliment as well really.
There's not much nicer than have a man or woman squirming with pleasure at your touch.

:thumbup: ditto
and you can soooo tell when someone's 'into you' and into what they're doing cant you! it shows both ways! there's a huge difference bewteen a couple of tentative licks just to be able to say you've done it, and being sooo into making them squirm you want to practically climb inside....especially if they reciporocate and start bucking onto my mouth:lol2: :twisted:
Oh my goodness! I'm not far off squirming just reading that! Bucking is sooo under-rated. Mmmmm!
Quote by Marya_Northeast

Giving oral is wonderful and I do get turned on by someone else being turned by me! If they reach orgasm it's another great turn on and it's like a massive compliment as well really.
There's not much nicer than have a man or woman squirming with pleasure at your touch.

:thumbup: ditto
and you can soooo tell when someone's 'into you' and into what they're doing cant you! it shows both ways! there's a huge difference bewteen a couple of tentative licks just to be able to say you've done it, and being sooo into making them squirm you want to practically climb inside....especially if they reciporocate and start bucking onto my mouth:lol2: :twisted:
Oh my goodness! I'm not far off squirming just reading that! Bucking is sooo under-rated. Mmmmm!
I'm soo with you on this one girls!!!
:quiver:
Girls !
Girls !!
Girls ! ! !
Stop it ! ! ! ! !
You'll have me all a quiver.
You're all showing yourselves to be Genuine Cock Lovers.
I want to marry you all.
Only GCLs give the best head.
I absolutely adore a picnic in the perfumed garden.
I can't type anymore.
Not even one handed redface
I'm just going to sit quivering in the corner.
Or drag her upstairs and taste the sweetest pussy it's ever been my pleasure to lick.
Poor Dammie :giggle:
Did you mention the lovely HLB then? :lickface: :twisted:
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Poor Dammie :giggle:
Did you mention the lovely HLB then? :lickface: :twisted:

:cry: :cry: :cry:
I have to wait because she wants to bathe first.
I'll have to wait while she takes her bath, then I'll have to wait another short while until the natural pussy taste returns.
I prefer mine with "an hour on it" rather than fresh from the shower wink
But yes - I mentioned HLB twice.
She is the most genuine of GCLs I've ever met.
And she has the sweetest tasting pussy.
:wink:
Quote by Tania
. . . . . so I am wondering is what these men write something they think women like to hear (therefore say it to get on their good books), or is it something they really enjoy doing because it gives THEM pleasure, or what?
How refreshing it would be if men were to write more general stuff about themselves so you would get to know them as a personality first! Also it would be good if they would demonstrate that they are open to learning about pleasing each woman in the way that she enjoys and not the way their other women enjoyed in the past.
Women... Men... what is your take on the subject?

Yes, Yes, and Yes again.
Some men (and women) say what they think other people want to hear.
Yes, it's something men do to getpleasure.
I truly, truly adore licking a nice, sweet, tidily trimmed (or shaven) pussy.
I do it because I enjoy doing it. My pleasure, enjoyment and hard on increase if I'm able to it in the way the girlie likes and enjoys it.
Whether that's slowly and gently licking from the bum hole (:gigglesmile along the length of the outer lips (occasionally dipping the tip of my tongue into the sweet nectar) to the clit before either gently pressing the clit with the flat of my tongue, or sucking it gently betwee my lips; or pulling the pussy as wide as possible and tongue fucking her while pressing my chin (or nose bit - depending on positon) firmly on the clit.
Or even the silly "porno tongue flick" things a la cheap American porno movies. OOOOHHH AAAAhhh.
I just love pussy. In the same way as I love Genuine Cock Lovers and Jizz Lovers.
:thumbup:
The O is big. Very big for me. Its actually something I prefer over cock penetration, as it is much more sensual and rewarding.
I get another feeling which is not groin related. It is from the chest upwards and right into the head senses. It travels back down to the groin and works magic there also. But mainly its focussed in my mouth and nose. Also my hands and neck, respond very well.
I know if my partner is responding as she will position better and spread onto my face, she can also point herself at me very accurately.
I remember seeing a programme on tv where Indian guys had developed their tongues into huge things about 9 inches long, some even had spilt ends, by constantly pulling them into these massive shapes. Extraordinary stuff but what an accessory for oral.
Its actually probably highly related to breast feeding, as I think this can be the nearest comparison to early life developing senses. Although I am really not a big tit fan. However I think that mouth to vag in an adult, is comparable in size to mouth to nipple in a baby. I'm not into lactation, by the way.
Quote by dambuster
You're all showing yourselves to be Genuine Cock Lovers.
I want to marry you all.
Only GCLs give the best head.

Of course we give the best head - and by saying that you've just earned yourself a some BJ-points! lol
You have to adore cock to give it good otherwise it's just going through the motions and most of us know what that's like.
This thread has had me thinking about cock all afternoon and although it's not even 24 hours since my last, I'm positively rampant for devouring my next!
I love cock as much as the next GCL!
Quote by Marya_Northeast

Only GCLs give the best head.

You have to adore cock to give it good otherwise it's just going through the motions and most of us know what that's like.

On a semi-serious note - along the lines of "men can tell when a woman fakes it" rolleyes
I'm fairly sure I/we can tell the difference between someone that's sucking cock for their pleasure, or just going through the motions. What makes them even better is when you find someone that falls into that "cirlce of pleasure transfer" <<<< that's not a very good description but hopefully you'll know sort of what I mean.
Nice addition to your signature btw :thumbup:
(but I think it should be ratified)
Quote by Marya_Northeast
Of course we give the best head - and by saying that you've just earned yourself a some BJ-points! lol

Tell me.
Do you have a shower over the bath, or is it a seperate shower unit ?
innocent
Quote by sexkittenhfx

Personally that's the way I like my oral, mixed in with everything else. I do enjoy it, giving and receiving, but then I like lots of other things too wink
Nothing but O, for me, can be a little, erm boring after the first 15 minutes lol
I make my own mind up on anybody who states that they can give O for hours or is the best in the world at it. They may be for someone, not necessarily for me!

totally agree with you maaquerade, i like receiving oral but its not the main event for me, and in fact would have to be in combination with some sort of finger/toy action at the same time to make me go WOW. giving oral on the other hand, yep, i like that alot smile
spot on here sexkitten for me there has to be fingers too, the tongue doesnt work on its own, but i do love giving oral to a man or woman, but not as a 69, i prefer to be able to concentrate on what i am doing
Earthy xx
Quote by earthchild
spot on here sexkitten for me there has to be fingers too, the tongue doesnt work on its own, but i do love giving oral to a man or woman, but not as a 69, i prefer to be able to concentrate on what i am doing
Earthy xx

Earthy - Absolutely with you on that on that one. On occasion it can and does indeed work, but as a basis, I much prefer to concentrate on what I am doing. 69 can really spoil that for me.
Also, I do get fed up with women saying they give the best blow job on the planet, just as I do as guys saying they give the best O. The reason for this being complete tosh is that everyone is different, preferring different methods.
Some women will suck for all their worth and grip your cock so hard that circulation stops. For me, this is just painful, however, for another guy, this may be a huge turn on - like I say, everyone is different, liking different things and different methods.
Think of it as like a kiss. Is their such a thing as a perfect kiss? Absolutely, but it is defined by the couple kissing.
You see for me, I love, lips touching, tongues caressing tongues, gently, building to a crescendo of passion, holding tightly. However, someone could read that and think yuk, preferring a full on snog with no soft build up.
Same applies for oral, what works for one, doesn't work for another. The skill comes from trying to recognise that and have the patience to adjust.
What can be even more difficult is telling the person you are with that their technique is not working and attempting to suggest alternative methods.
Just my thoughts
I much prefer giving than recieving!
I get sooo much more turned on sucking cock/licking pussy than someone doing that to me!
I think i am strange!!!!
Den doesn't mind though! lol
m xx
Nothing like a brilliant BJTC... Jay just away to bed with a smile on his face! lol
I much prefer giving oral than receiving it. I could and would glady do it for hours, but I'd never need to! wink
Quote by Kiss
I much prefer giving oral than receiving it. I could and would glady do it for hours, but I'd never need to! wink

whip :grin: