Vix n Reese
IMO (for what it is worth) there is nothing wrong with either of you.
It is just the 'others' who make arragements and t hen change then, leaving you with nothing to do.
BTW Darkfire what you doing up at :shock:
Hi
Believe me theres nothing wrong with thw two of you.
When we get let down and all we do.....its a downfall and gets you thinking is it me
Well ill tell you its not
Just say to yourselfs its there loss which it is
It happens hunni but for many different reasons. I think a lot of the time is they've bottled it through their own nerves rather than not wanting to meet you. I've had one or two meets cancelled for various reasons and while it's very disappointing, I refuse to think it was my fault. Chalk it up to experience and forget about it. Plenty more willing partners where they came from :thumbup:
Whats wrong with YOU?
As far as I've ever gathered you as a couple both represent everything thats good about swinging,you are always frank and honest about your desires and what you can give back to others.
Plans just go wrong sometimes though I must say anybody lucky enough to be invited to play with you both would surely have to have a VERY good reason to do a no show to what would promise to be a really beautiful swinging experience with one of the most generous and open minded couples on the scene.
...and you sound like a lovely genuine couple too.
It's probably a mix of good reasons and cold feet (I certainly couldn't match Reece in the cock stakes!). But don't be disheartened. Like everything else in life, the things that are really worthwhile and rewarding take a bit of effort.
Anyway, if I'll let you know when I'm in the area. If ever invited then, what fool would pass up a few hours in heaven?
Well I'm a newbie on here so I don't know any of you guys - of either sex! I haven't met anyone through SH (yet!), and I guess it's going to be a bit nerve-wracking when I finally do.
But ... there's NO excuse whatsoever for a no-show without some kind of explanation, ideally genuine, and preferably early enough to allow you to make other plans.
There are a couple of little things called respect and courtesy, and I really think they're quite important.
As Bloke said I wouldn't dream of offering advice to you two.
To the no show single guys - big mistake. You've missed out on a wonderful meet with two very wonderful, sexy people.
Well I'm a newbie on here so I don't know any of you guys - of either sex! I haven't met anyone through SH (yet!), and I guess it's going to be a bit nerve-wracking when I finally do.
But ... there's NO excuse whatsoever for a no-show without some kind of explanation, ideally genuine, and preferably early enough to allow you to make other plans.
There are a couple of little things called respect and courtesy, and I really think they're quite important.
Nothing whatsoever wrong with either of you - it's their loss, not yours.
i'mm gonna try and make this a small reply as i could write pages on this subject, but i won't. firstly it's natural to look at ones selve and ask that question is it us, answer NO after all the people who wanted to meet you have presumably seen pics chatted online and also spoke on phone etc so everyone should have a general feeling of how the meet should go with likes / dislikes etc.
so to keep this short i know its frustrating when you take swinging as serious as some of us do on here, when you've "saved" a part of your valuable time for others to join you only to be stood up starts you to think shall we give up on thing is change your game plan like us.
we won't plan too far in advance as we won't allow someone to "have hold "of our time only to be let down at last minute also we always have plan a b & c, ie if we're arranging for a meet at a location we always look for a swingers club close by so if the peeps are not there we have not had a wasted trip etc.
we can proudly say in 5 years of serious swinging we only ever let 1 guy down and when we eventually met him he accepted he was 50% to blame anyway.
Unforunately it happens to us all, and it's such a let down when it does happen.
I'm a very cautious character anyways, so i normally met my victims at parties and socials. I never swing on first nor second introductions (unless i'm in a club!) and i always listen to gossip. When another cpl, or person can vouch for someone, i feel a lot safer, plus i get less people letting me down.
Maybe you wish to try this out!
Glad you're both feeling better in time for the footie but your experience sounded only too familiar to Rosy and I. We've almost had enough of guys who change their mind at the last minute and either don't show up or send some cheesy "my mother is in intensive care" type excuse. It's pathetic.
The only reason we haven't entirely lost heart is that we have met a few fantastic partners here who don't have this attitude and don't waste our time. The 6 million dollar question is how to distinguish the timewasting pea-brains from the genuine guys ...
Now, for the football ...
Vix and Recce
Any chance of you moving this way at bit???
:P
Well fer a start - there's absolutely nothing wrong with you two - quite the contrary!
It's an inevitable consequence of the process and sometimes you can just get very unlucky - although some would say that to get two lined up in the first place ain't bad!
I think it does depend sometimes on how well you know the person. As it says on me profile in another place I will only consider it with people I have met and that means people who I feel I can rely on as well. That said it can still all go tits up late in the day.
i feel the pain guys, i have had numorous women string me along with ping png emails and when it comes to it wont make any contact by phone they say oh yeah lets meet up and then go quiet when i ask where at.
90% timewasters on here i think.
Nothing that a damn good rogering wouldnt put right :-)
to both.
think you know my thoughts about you 