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Whats your prefered age range?
Sex God
People rarely stick to one category - I certainly don't, so I'm not voting on this one
Sorry Begentle, I'm passing as well.
Having daughters, who are slightly less than twenty years old, would make me reluctant to have sex with a woman in that age group. That's a personal choice, I'm not criticising anyone my age (of either sex) who would or does. Apart from that, surely its down to the person not their age?
I know plenty of women, who are well into their fifties and sixties, who exude a sexy air and are fantastic lovers. That's not meant as a patronising ageist comment either. Those same ladies were attractive and had sex appeal when younger, age has not altered that.
Likewise, I couldn't tell you what turns me on, as a general rule. Its down to the person. How they talk, walk, dress, move, think, act, play, the list is endless. It has little to do with size, shape or age.
S'OK, I'll get back in me box again......
Having daughters, who are slightly less than twenty years old, would make me reluctant to have sex with a woman in that age group. That's a personal choice, I'm not criticising anyone my age (of either sex) who would or does. Apart from that, surely its down to the person not their age?
I know plenty of women, who are well into their fifties and sixties, who exude a sexy air and are fantastic lovers. That's not meant as a patronising ageist comment either. Those same ladies were attractive and had sex appeal when younger, age has not altered that.
Likewise, I couldn't tell you what turns me on, as a general rule. Its down to the person. How they talk, walk, dress, move, think, act, play, the list is endless. It has little to do with size, shape or age.
S'OK, I'll get back in me box again......
Sex God
Absolutely agree, RVM, but that excludes me, I'm not that much older than your daughters :shock: , well, OK, maybe by a few years, but not all that many :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: . Age is all in the head, I don't know why people get so hung up about it 
From my experiences, men under 30 have all the looks, the energy and the enthusiasm but not enough experience.
Men over 40 have the experience but not the enery and rarely the enthusiasm. Also this age group tend to be bogged down with responsabilities at work and at home, I dont want to be fit in between the school run and the next meeting!!
The 30 - 4- age group are fine until they join the "grown up world" and s get responsabilities like kids, promotion at work etc.
BTW Im 43, suppose that makes me old and past it anyway!
Men over 40 have the experience but not the enery and rarely the enthusiasm. Also this age group tend to be bogged down with responsabilities at work and at home, I dont want to be fit in between the school run and the next meeting!!
The 30 - 4- age group are fine until they join the "grown up world" and s get responsabilities like kids, promotion at work etc.
BTW Im 43, suppose that makes me old and past it anyway!
Having daughters, who are slightly less than twenty years old, would make me reluctant to have sex with a woman in that age group. That's a personal choice, I'm not criticising anyone my age (of either sex) who would or does. Apart from that, surely its down to the person not their age?
Also have to agree with RVM here - Kat has a nightmare scenario..........
Daughters wedding, other daughter is bridesmaid; 'hi dad, this is my boyfriend from uni', 'umm, we have already met!'
Yes, age is just numbers, but sometimes you have to consider the practicalities as well
So I too, am passing on this one!
Kit
xxx
Sex God
foxy lady wrote:
No Way!!! The fun is just beginning - and I am sure you are lovely with it
Will
BTW Im 43, suppose that makes me old and past it anyway!
No Way!!! The fun is just beginning - and I am sure you are lovely with it
Will
Whats the prefered age of the men or ladies that you would want to meet up for a good ol' swingin session?
i must agree with the others...age shouldnt be a boundary.
Ok,
I am 40 - Kit is 44, and we set a rough ring fence of 10 years either side of our age.
Why? Because it is our life and we want to.
Richy, you are 20, Begentle, you are 18, would you sleep with someone more than 10 years younger than yourselves?? No - I should think not, and I should think you will be bloody angry that I would even mention it.
And before you say it, yes it is different! Our (Kit and I) choices are to do with the lifestyle we want, which is very different from the lifestyle others want.
*wanders of muttering about justifying your choices being something that belongs in the real world not in here*
Kat
Funny how most people say that it doesnt matter, but it clearly does matter when you see the poll results (unless there is multiple voting of course). It is not always fair but people will always have some prejudices even if they don't want to admit it in public.
To Kitkat: when I was younger sleeping with women 20 years older than my taught me quiet a lot :twisted: , and so I dont see the problem with any age really so long as there is some sort of attraction.
Will be interesting to work out the average age on here though. Nice question.
(And no I haven't voted).
To Kitkat: when I was younger sleeping with women 20 years older than my taught me quiet a lot :twisted: , and so I dont see the problem with any age really so long as there is some sort of attraction.
Will be interesting to work out the average age on here though. Nice question.
(And no I haven't voted).
Can't do multiple voting... but only 18 have voted and this site has 3,000 members. The only postings are saying 'can't vote' so I would assume that those who did want to vote took their opportunity without comment.
*Goes off to look for a younger man to grace and liven up my old age. Where is that M6???*
*Goes off to look for a younger man to grace and liven up my old age. Where is that M6???*
Funny how most people say that it doesnt matter, but it clearly does matter when you see the poll results (unless there is multiple voting of course). It is not always fair but people will always have some prejudices even if they don't want to admit it in public.
The question on the poll asked for peoples preference. I prefer to have a shower rather than a bath, does not mean that I feel there is anything wrong with having a bath, or that I do not enjoy having a bath, or that I do not have a bath occaisionally. All it means is that given the choice between a bath and a shower, I would pick a shower.
To Kitkat: when I was younger sleeping with women 20 years older than my taught me quiet a lot- I have only ever slept with one woman, and fully intend for it to stay that way. That does not mean that I do not find other women attractive. It is something I have thought about, and made a choice.
And no, I have not voted either. My prefered age is Kits age, and always will be.
Kat
Hi again,
Didnt mean to offend anyone, but I am still young enough to remember the frustration experienced when I was a young guy out looking for some fun. Wasn't easy to understand what seems like mixed messages and I was just trying to help put the original poster at ease.
Kitkat: Just assumed that you would have had more than one partner being on a swingers forum an all. Guess shouldn't be so quick to make judgements.
Didnt mean to offend anyone, but I am still young enough to remember the frustration experienced when I was a young guy out looking for some fun. Wasn't easy to understand what seems like mixed messages and I was just trying to help put the original poster at ease.
Kitkat: Just assumed that you would have had more than one partner being on a swingers forum an all. Guess shouldn't be so quick to make judgements.
Without knowing the ages of the people casting the vote I'm not sure what this poll is actually telling us (if anything). Perhaps it's nothing more than just an indication of the average age of the people using the site.
With only 21 votes cast out of a membership of 3000+ people, age doesn't seem to figure very high on many people's priority list.
With only 21 votes cast out of a membership of 3000+ people, age doesn't seem to figure very high on many people's priority list.
I've thunk and thunk and I think I'm not the slightest bit fussed.
I used to think that younger men had no mojo when push comes to grind but then I came across Serge (a Moscow student of dentistry) who dug in for the duration and even sent out for Pizza. That was a weekend I can tell you! :twisted: :twisted:
At the other end of the scale, Arthur, who I picked up in the post office queue, could do things with his hands that a surgeon would claim to be impossible (especially after a hip operation) and ever since I've thanked the brains behind the idea of switched pension day to child benefit day.
Hence, I decline to vote
Hxx
I used to think that younger men had no mojo when push comes to grind but then I came across Serge (a Moscow student of dentistry) who dug in for the duration and even sent out for Pizza. That was a weekend I can tell you! :twisted: :twisted:
At the other end of the scale, Arthur, who I picked up in the post office queue, could do things with his hands that a surgeon would claim to be impossible (especially after a hip operation) and ever since I've thanked the brains behind the idea of switched pension day to child benefit day.
Hence, I decline to vote
Hxx
Didnt mean to offend anyone,I doubt you have (I don't think the comment was aimed at us). Our decision on who we do and do not meet is a complex one. And to try to justify that decision in terms of one single parameter will always make the decision look foolish.
There are many reasons why we choose the people we want to have sex with, and yes, age is one of them. But there are also many blokes of our age who we will decided not to meet for other reasons.
Kitkat: Just assumed that you would have had more than one partnerTakes all sorts!
lhk
Kat
Quote by KitKat
Daughters wedding, other daughter is bridesmaid; 'hi dad, this is my boyfriend from uni', 'umm, we have already met!'
I guess we're all scared of bumping into someone we met through the "scene". But the boyfriend in question would probably be MUCH more embarrased about admiting any connection than you would.
Just pretend you've never met them...
Orgasminator
Quote by wankerdave
I voted for 50 -60 but would meet with a lady over 60 to as there are some very attractive ladies over 60
Well my luck could be in, should i wear the bag as a dress or as my last partner surgested over my head.
I have a couple of sayings.
1) I like guys who look as if they have two boiled eggs under a blanket, when looking at them from behind.
2) If you pick up a one night stand and get them to bed with their face in the pillow and the lights out, do's it matter what they look like
Orgasminator
Quote by mfromr
Daughters wedding, other daughter is bridesmaid; 'hi dad, this is my boyfriend from uni', 'umm, we have already met!'
Just pretend you've never met them...
I get quite a lot of this sort of thing
