When does Bi-Curious become Bi-Sexual?

An interesting topic. From my point of view I now consider myself bisexual, after having my first bisexual encounter, rather than bi curious. I'm no longer curious and most definitely want more sex with other men and find the idea a real turn on. Yes, I have more to learn and experience but in terms of a "mind set" I am now bisexual!

Labels are a weird thing in general - I did say on here a long time ago that we would do better advertising ourselves as "person with vagina seeking person with penis" because that's all it really amounts to.

Before the hetroflexible label became an option here, I went by bi-curious because I do play with women as part of a group but don't actively seek them out to have sex with. To my mind, I could only really consider myself fully bi if I were interested in having one-to-one meets/relationships with women - I'm really not, therefore bi-curious was always the next best thing. Plus to call myself bisexual is kind of misleading if I meet up with a m/f couple who are expecting me to be as full-on with the female party as the male.

Hetroflexible is a much better option for me - it kind of says "As long as there's a dick available to me, I will go down on a girl for a bag of peanuts" (I know, I'm kinda cheap!) I guess if I were creating my own label it would be something like cock-centric bisexuality. But hetroflexible is much more user-friendly!

The restrictive nature of labels eh?

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The restrictive nature of labels eh?

Yep! I have posted elsewhere about the need it seems, for labels. We are down as straight as we don't want to mislead anyone, but have this on our profile:

"Some touching, licking, sucking may go on in the mix, if all agree. Although those actions are Bisexual, we think of it more like having fun that is acceptable to all."

Others label us, we don't above what the site requires.

With experience of course.

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The restrictive nature of labels eh?

My thoughts exactly.

When you have had some form of serial relations with a member of the same sex, like it and continue

What I do not understand is men meeting men only say the meet is bi when no women are there.

I find women attractive but men are fun, better still as part of a couple or group. I'm not sure if I'm bi or bi curious. I just enjoy sex.

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Labels are a weird thing in general - I did say on here a long time ago that we would do better advertising ourselves as "person with vagina seeking person with penis" because that's all it really amounts to.

Before the hetroflexible label became an option here, I went by bi-curious because I do play with women as part of a group but don't actively seek them out to have sex with. To my mind, I could only really consider myself fully bi if I were interested in having one-to-one meets/relationships with women - I'm really not, therefore bi-curious was always the next best thing. Plus to call myself bisexual is kind of misleading if I meet up with a m/f couple who are expecting me to be as full-on with the female party as the male.

Hetroflexible is a much better option for me - it kind of says "As long as there's a dick available to me, I will go down on a girl for a bag of peanuts" (I know, I'm kinda cheap!) I guess if I were creating my own label it would be something like cock-centric bisexuality. But hetroflexible is much more user-friendly!

I'm very similar to you but from a male perspective. I have a deep craving for cock fun in MMF threesomes but have no interest in meeting guys romantically or one on one.

I tend to agree with you and HothouseSub on this score. If in a MMF situation I think interaction is inevitable, and as long as all agree on that then we will have a fine time, hopefully.

I was curious until ten minutes in to my first live meet then I knew I was definitely bi

So what do you call not fancing guys but likes to suck cock and loves to take a cock in the arse while fucking a pussy at the same time?

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So what do you call not fancing guys but likes to suck cock and loves to take a cock in the arse while fucking a pussy at the same time?

Fun? lol