Warming the Bed
Hey everyone, when looking for a male or female to join us for a threesome is it common that its a lot harder to find a women to want to join rather than a male?
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when looking for a female or male for threesome...
Welcome to the world of swinging! ;-)
Everyone's looking for them which is why swingle women are known as unicorns. Persevere, there are some out there, but they can afford to be choosy. Given time, and some effort in terms of getting yourself established on the site (by using chat and/or the forums) you should find what you're looking for.
Everyone's looking for them which is why swingle women are known as unicorns. Persevere, there are some out there, but they can afford to be choosy. Given time, and some effort in terms of getting yourself established on the site (by using chat and/or the forums) you should find what you're looking for.
Orgasminator
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There are 40 males on here for every female.
Three males for each couple and six couples for each female. You do the maths.
Thats based on all profiles being truthful, a bunch of those females are TVs, TSs, (who are usually honest about this in profile text) or just wierdos pretending to be female so they can fap to your PMs!!
There are lots of nice single fems on here, I have met a few, unicorns are real ;)
Warming the Bed
In that case we shall be on the look out for the much fabled unicorn!
Sex God
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Welcome to the world of swinging! ;-)
Everyone's looking for them which is why swingle women are known as unicorns. Persevere, there are some out there, but they can afford to be choosy. Given time, and some effort in terms of getting yourself established on the site (by using chat and/or the forums) you should find what you're looking for.
I'm not!!
They are like rocking horse shit though!
Casanova
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Three males for each couple and six couples for each female.
Wonder what the ratio is like once you take out all the couples that are male-driven or even male-only.
To the original poster, having the woman of the couple actively involved in your search is a real boost. Judging from your other forum posts you sound like you are both keen, that alone can give you a head start, as there are so many couples that are not on the same page or are just idling. Must say though that most *straight* single women I have seen on here are looking for single men, it is very rare for a straight single woman to be looking for a couple
Unfortunately you are going to find it harder than a lot of other couples to find a single female to join you, that is just another statistic, most of the single women in the scene are bisexual, which means that when they do seek to join a couple they do so to play with both partners, as your are a straight female couple that puts you in the minority of what the single ladies are looking for.
Warming the Bed
yea , guess we can only but hope then! Makes sense that most women on here are looking for a bi experience as lets face it theres plenty of other places they can just meet other men.
Orgasminator
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yea , guess we can only but hope then! Makes sense that most women on here are looking for a bi experience as lets face it theres plenty of other places they can just meet other men.
Indeed, but not many places where a girl can find a guy or couple who wont be possesive, wont judge her by her desire to break with convention and have recreational sex, will help explore boundaries and turn fantasies into memorable sexual experiences.
lots of guys are just here for NSA sex and thats fine, some of us are here to try new things for ourselves and also share the opportunities for that kind of fun with others :rascal:
I cant really offer you much advice, but you seem have a good attitude to all this so Im sure with time and a little and patience you will have loads of fun :thumbup:
Sex God
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yea , guess we can only but hope then! Makes sense that most women on here are looking for a bi experience as lets face it theres plenty of other places they can just meet other men.
Indeed, but not many places where a girl can find a guy or couple who wont be possesive, wont judge her by her desire to break with convention and have recreational sex, will help explore boundaries and turn fantasies into memorable sexual experiences.
lots of guys are just here for NSA sex and thats fine, some of us are here to try new things for ourselves and also share the opportunities for that kind of fun with others :rascal:
I cant really offer you much advice, but you seem have a good attitude to all this so Im sure with time and a little and patience you will have loads of fun :thumbup:
:thumbup: What he said.
Oi Fraser... when did you get so sensible?!
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yea , guess we can only but hope then! Makes sense that most women on here are looking for a bi experience as lets face it theres plenty of other places they can just meet other men.
Indeed, but not many places where a girl can find a guy or couple who wont be possesive, wont judge her by her desire to break with convention and have recreational sex, will help explore boundaries and turn fantasies into memorable sexual experiences....
:thumbup: What he said.
Oi Fraser... when did you get so sensible?!
I had a word in his ear ;) But I must say - he summed it up nicely what I've seen and experienced of some of the sexy single females on here who do rude things, with sexy people, without too many people having to know ;)
joe_katy - my experience is that you tend to reap what you sow on here and if you continue in the vane that you've started I'm sure you'll have people banging your (back!) door down for meets :rascal:
Good luck :thumbup:
PS: Don't shag fraser - he has a chipolata dick ;)
Orgasminator
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Oi Fraser... when did you get so sensible?!
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PS: Don't shag fraser - he has a chipolata dick ;)
Do you ever get the feeling you are being ganged up on?
In order to answer both of these baseless accusations I will, this afternoon, be walking round the city centre wearing only a cowboy hat :silly:
Sex God
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Oi Fraser... when did you get so sensible?!
Quote by bIoke
PS: Don't shag fraser - he has a chipolata dick ;)
Do you ever get the feeling you are being ganged up on?
In order to answer both of these baseless accusations I will, this afternoon, be walking round the city centre wearing only a cowboy hat :silly:
Photos please!And me and Bloke gang up on you?! Never.... ish! :wink:
Sex God
:laughabove: Wonders if Fraserville was ready for that....
Sex God
What you will find, and it may amaze you, is that of the 80 guys you've decided fit your criteria, and seem really keen to join you, according to communications you've had with them, only one in 130 will actually turn up.
If a woman says she'll meet you then you can pretty much count on it...your difficulty here is only to confirm that it's actually a woman...we recommend that the two girls chat on the phone first to confirm, or in chat and on cam...can be in a private room.
good luck.
If a woman says she'll meet you then you can pretty much count on it...your difficulty here is only to confirm that it's actually a woman...we recommend that the two girls chat on the phone first to confirm, or in chat and on cam...can be in a private room.
good luck.
On another site that we are members of Sasha has her own profile to meet on her own, she has had the profile for more than a year, everyday "single females" contact her, she immediately asks for a fem to fem phone chat, in over 1 year and 1000s of mails no "female" has ever called her, they all come up with an excuse "cant the kitchen fitter is here" sorry I am at work (but ok to log into adult websites) etc etc.
Most don't even mail they just send friend invites obviously believing that pretending to be a female will get them easier access to her private galleries. Sometimes it is couples who contact her but claiming to be the female chatting, same thing applies, as soon as she asks for fem to fem chat to prove each is genuine they disapear and dont get in contact again :sad: but true
Most don't even mail they just send friend invites obviously believing that pretending to be a female will get them easier access to her private galleries. Sometimes it is couples who contact her but claiming to be the female chatting, same thing applies, as soon as she asks for fem to fem chat to prove each is genuine they disapear and dont get in contact again :sad: but true
