Dilema.... We always go to clubs to meet folks, but just recently I (harltot) have been asked to meet guys at hotels. Obviously husband would know. What do most of u who have done this do;
Do u meet for a coffee 1st then arrange another meet.
Do u go straight to a room ?
Who pays for the room ? both? one who booked?
What if u don't want to go any further ?
What if he doesn't want to go any further ? (gawd) ! ( i think that's the one I dread).
What to be aware of ? Any tips ?
Should I do it ?
Think it would be exciting but want to avoid a bad experience as have all been good up to now.
:love: xxx
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Quote by hornet harlot
Dilema.... We always go to clubs to meet folks, but just recently I (harltot) have been asked to meet guys at hotels. Obviously husband would know. What do most of u who have done this do;
Do u meet for a coffee 1st then arrange another meet.
Do u go straight to a room ?
Who pays for the room ? both? one who booked?
What if u don't want to go any further ?
What if he doesn't want to go any further ? (gawd) ! ( i think that's the one I dread).
What to be aware of ? Any tips ?
Should I do it ?
Think it would be exciting but want to avoid a bad experience as have all been good up to now.
:love: xxx
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Be very careful harlot,you could get yourself into a very "sticky" situation.I think it would be best for you to definately meet up socially first and then always make sure hubby knows exactly where you are even down to a room number.
by the way your name implies you'r a biker chick are you?
:lol: :lol:
by the way your name implies you'r a biker chick are you?
:lol: :lol:
Quote by Nellquinn
Be very careful harlot,you could get yourself into a very "sticky" situation.I think it would be best for you to definately meet up socially first and then always make sure hubby knows exactly where you are even down to a room number.
by the way your name implies you'r a biker chick are you?
:lol: :lol:
Yes nellquinn pillion pussy at moment but taking my direct access. getting a Hornet it's BLUE !
Right my personal opinion on this is meet him for a drink with your hubbie first, if hes not willing to do this i'd be asking why? most genuine men will be ok meeting ur hubby, ur putting urself at risk locking urself away with a stranger so always do what feels right, if u get on arrange to meet him alone another time as for paying bill i suppose thats summat u have 2 work out urselves but i think men as a rule pay after all the woman can look else where, its harder 4 the guy 2 get a meet lol
as for paying bill i suppose thats summat u have 2 work out urselves but i think men as a rule pay after all the woman can look else where, its harder 4 the guy 2 get a meet lol 
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Quote by hornet harlot
Dilema.... We always go to clubs to meet folks, but just recently I (harltot) have been asked to meet guys at hotels. Obviously husband would know. What do most of u who have done this do;
Do u meet for a coffee 1st then arrange another meet.
Do u go straight to a room ?
Who pays for the room ? both? one who booked?
What if u don't want to go any further ?
What if he doesn't want to go any further ? (gawd) ! ( i think that's the one I dread).
What to be aware of ? Any tips ?
Should I do it ?
Think it would be exciting but want to avoid a bad experience as have all been good up to now.
:love: xxx
Perhaps discuss this with the bloke you are thinking about meeting?
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Right my personal opinion on this is meet him for a drink with your hubbie first, if hes not willing to do this i'd be asking why? most genuine men will be ok meeting ur hubby, ur putting urself at risk locking urself away with a stranger so always do what feels right, if u get on arrange to meet him alone another time
Please tell me thats a joke - really close to biting!!
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Right my personal opinion on this is meet him for a drink with your hubbie first, if hes not willing to do this i'd be asking why? most genuine men will be ok meeting ur hubby, ur putting urself at risk locking urself away with a stranger so always do what feels right, if u get on arrange to meet him alone another time
Thanks for your views all into account, I'm just going to stick to clubs and parties after all. Husband there all the time and if I want to go to a room no probs. Your right naughtynymphos, seemed a turn on this morning, wonder what brought that on ???
"How Kinky Are You" thread was right I am impulsive.xxx
Quote by naughtynymphos1
as for paying bill i suppose thats summat u have 2 work out urselves but i think men as a rule pay after all the woman can look else where, its harder 4 the guy 2 get a meet lol
Harder for the guy to get a meet? Really? Not that tricky in my experience..I always tend to go Dutch when booking a room ..means we end up in a really nice place, with big old balcony (nice for the exhibitionism) and jacuzzi, in nice rural area rather than some nasty motorway TravelLodge (did it once, huge mistake, never again!)
Anyhow I'm glad to hear you've decided to stick to clubs n hotels. As mentioned by the earlier correspondents safety is paramount and dogging with complete strangers although exciting should only be considered if you have a bodyguard or two!
Quote by hertsguy30s
as for paying bill i suppose thats summat u have 2 work out urselves but i think men as a rule pay after all the woman can look else where, its harder 4 the guy 2 get a meet lol
agree men shouldn't pay just cause it's harder for them (pardon pun) No probs with chivalry and all that but shouldn't feel obliged (whoever she is).
Do you ever ask a Question then wish you hadn't ? Seemed a good idea this morning. Gone right off it now.
xxx
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Think you've made the right decision Harlot, besides there's more choice at Clubs and Parties.
Good luck with the direct access, hope to see you flying around soon.
John
Good luck with the direct access, hope to see you flying around soon.
John
We've met a few single guys and have almost always:
Made it absolutely clear that the first meeting is just to socialise. On occasions we have literally left after one drink, realising that we didn't click!
Shared hotel costs with the guy, as some men think they hav a right to anything if they pay the bill, almost as if it's a service they are paying for!
Agreed with the guy that the wife is in control; if she's had enough, then he must leave!
Made it absolutely clear that the first meeting is just to socialise. On occasions we have literally left after one drink, realising that we didn't click!
Shared hotel costs with the guy, as some men think they hav a right to anything if they pay the bill, almost as if it's a service they are paying for!
Agreed with the guy that the wife is in control; if she's had enough, then he must leave!
