Just out of curiosity, is the female looking to meet another female, alone?
Asking because you have an ad in couples looking for women and also one in women looking for women.
I'd lose the comment about 'sad single men' if I were you - unecessary and makes you look a bit mardy in my opinion. This site attracts single men, yes. However, there are most likely sad single females and sad couples out there who pretend they are somehthing they are not.
Thanks for your comments, we have taken on board a few things. x
I'm no expert by any means, but I can offer an opinion from my point of view. I've looked at your profile and see that you want to meet bi-fems. This could be one reason why 'you're struggling for meets' as you say. Although I think one meet in a year is quite good!
There was a whole thread done recently on similar lines, but I'm not that techy to be able to find it and link it (maybe someone else will later).
I don't know about you but if and when I swing I prefer to have some chemistry between myself and whomever I swing with. It's difficult enough to find 1 person that has that certain something, but if you're looking for a single, you both have to like them and they have to like 2 of you.
Sorry if that sounds as confusing to you as it does to me now I've read it back, but it sounded good in my head.
All I can say is don't give up, get yourself both known on the forums, in the chat rooms, if you aren't already. Put your name down for socials and munches, go to clubs and just try to enjoy the social side of swinging for a while and who knows where it might lead.
It's all been said before - but there really are relatively few single bi fems here, compared to the number of couples looking at them. Which means that they can pick and choose. You also have to bear in mind that this is all a bit scarier and potentially more dangerous for women on their own, so we tend to be very, very careful about who we meet.
Personally, I only ever meet couples who I've met first socially at a munch, and 'clicked' with. It's not worth the risk or the hassle for me, to meet couples who I don't know or even to get to know them online - I meet so many lovely people at munches.
Keep persevering - there are single bi girls out here, and we do meet people, it does happen! One meet since you've been here really isn't a bad average, you're doing better than many. My best tip would be to come along to a munch sometime - it really is so much easier to 'click' with people when you meet them face-to-face in a no-presure environment like a munch.
What your searching is the Holy Grail on here......don't get me wrong there are single bi females on here but they are far and few between......also you say you only play as a couple have you thought that maybe these bi single females don't want to play with the guy....and would rather have him watch only....you may have to broaden your horizons and start think about looking for couples with bi-females.
If you read through some of the threads similar to yours, it'll show it's NOT you at all ( and as I know both of you personally, I can say that truthfully 
) There again, they've probably heard that bleeding bird of yours squarking ! 
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