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I was listening to radio today and the presenters were laughing at a recent poll of where people met their partners... the top answer was "on a coach" :shock: lol
I met Jay in a nightclub (now there's originality for you!), but I'm a great believer in fate, I didn't want to go out that night, I'd come from a nasty relationship and certainly was not looking for anyone, he'd was hurting from a split also.. and the rest is history, we clicked! :inlove:
What about others?
met my ex in the bank where she worked, i was a customer.
rest i cant write sorry to pain full sad
Quote by Ukwineman
met my ex in the bank where she worked, i was a customer.
rest i cant write sorry to pain full sad

:therethere: I know but you still always contribute, I luv ya for that wink
My last Vanilla gf literally fell into my lap! :shock:
She made the mistake of trying to dance whilst in high heels (which she wasn't used to, and erm drunk... lol ), stepped on my foot and fell backwards. I helped her up and things went from there....:lol:
Met my last two partners off this site. rolleyes
That's about as strange as it gets and it's strange enough for me. Well, enough to put me off relationships indefinitely! lol
I met fektart for the first time at an SH munch.
I met my ex husband in a pub on a friend of mine's after work birthday drinks.
The bloke I was with before that I met in a children's playground. I was taking some little children to play on the swings and he was playing frisbee with a couple of his mates. I was just about to head off to uni, his parents had just moved to the village and he had just finished uni. Oh yeah there was loads to do in that village on a sunny afternoon in the middle of summer rolleyes
lol :lol: :lol:
In a kitchen, near some vodka jelly, dressed as a nurse, he was dressed as a surgeon, oh and at a 'party'
:lol: :lol: :lol:
"She was working as a waitress in a bar" biggrin
Friday x
In a bed and breakfast dining room. He was 8 and I was 5 :smitten:
We met at work- I was the student!!!naughty den!!
We made sure we made full use of all the rooms at work as well- my favourite was the bosses office!
Maz xx
Playing volleyball in a farmer's field just outside sunny Warwickshire.
See Dawnie - bet you thought I'd forgotten !
Ian
first fiance - my cousins boyfriend
my ex husband - at work
my last ex - on the scene
Earthy xx
Most people who know me and Bart assume that we both met off this or other sites. WRONG!! I met Bart in our local pub shortly after my marriage collapsed. It was only on our second night of chatting and finding out more about each other that i told him about SH and so on. Anyway you could have knocked me sideways when he told me he'd been swinging for years! Match made in heaven lol
That was September 05 and we are still very much together..
Suze xx
Girlfriend no. 1: Singer in the band I was in.
Girlfriend no. 2: She was the responding police officer to some criminal damage to my mums car. lol
Girlfriend no. 3: In the queue for the womens toilets at a club - she accused me of following her. (I wasn't by the way.)
Boyfriend no. 1: He was the tutor at a song writing course I was on.
Girlfriend no. 4: She came to do a recording at the music studio I worked at.
Mrs Kiss: I was still friends with GF No. 4 and she knew Mrs Kiss and brought her to see me playing at a gig!
we met at my work he was well erm a customer i spose lol
We met 31st March 2006 in a service station on the M1 after we had been talking on line in SH for a few months. It was just for a quick coffee to say hello and well a year this Saturday its well a year later :shock: :shock: now it hasn't all been a bed of roses but thats no different to the vanilla world of meeting your partners lol :lol: :lol:
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Playing volleyball in a farmer's field just outside sunny Warwickshire.
See Dawnie - bet you thought I'd forgotten !
Ian

I am stunned you remember :eeek:
kiss
My ex-fiance: in an internet chat room (on the old Webchat site, 1996)
Warrington R.S.P.C.A
:shock:
her name's peg and she's my bestest girl rolleyes wink
We lived in the same building dunno I was 17 and fiercely independent, had a flat on the ground floor..he was in one of the flats upstairs and we met after I nicked the fuses out their main fuse box after enduring 4 hours worth of dodgy rave music lol He was the only one who dared knock on my door demanding it back ...& after that used to come down to me to borrow food/money/my iron etc when they were all skint rolleyes
I moved after a couple of months to my own house and didnt see him for a while (didnt care either :lolsmile - then bumped into him on Xmas eve & he said he wasnt doing owt for Xmas, so I invited him to mine for dinner with the rest of the social misfits & deliquents, and he's never left :lol:
The most important ones are:
my ex husband....at a new years eve party (lasted 16 years)
my last ex boyfriend on here (lasted a good year and a half too!)
Met russ online thro his group loosely covering everything including swinging,became internet buddies picked his brains online reagrding swinging in a attempt to introduce it into my failing marriage and as a means to a end for NSA sex for me .....yes i know not the brightest idea i ever had. Hubby wasnt intrested and im abit of a traditionlist regarding marriage and couldnt bring myself to be unfaithfull, so 17 months later Finaly ended the marriage and a couple of months after started chatting to russ again. As i was now free and single decided to go to a group social meet june 05 and the rest is history. We clicked sexually and become best mates and f/buddys as neither of us wanted a realtionship. We swung as a cpl from the august 05 and we went vanilla oct 06. Neither of us are sure how the vanilla slipped in there dunno but we are happy and thats the main thing :thumbup:
My x hubby i met thro CB radio and he was best mates with my x b/f who i also met through CB radio...in fact i had a few passing b/f i met that way. Still have my harrier cbx in a box somewhere in my out buildings whoohoo redface :shock: Anyhow i had a party for bonfire night he got wrecked i thro a quilt over him and he never left :doh:,asked me to marry him 2 days later :shock: spent 7 years engaged then had a shotgun wedding when i was 7 months pregnant with our 3rd child..in a last ditch attempt to have a legitimate child (Then found out when regestring the birth that when you get married all joint children become legitimate surprisedops: ) Plus my step dad had had a few serious strokes and other health implications(docs didnt think he was gonna be around much longer),he wanted to see me married off even tho he hated my x hubby and i wanted some kind of family member at my wedding :doh: remained married for 8 yrs so did a total of 15yrs too many lol .
My eldest daughters father was a CB'r too but didnt meet him thro the CB. Met him as he was one of my neighbour's in a house share but was realy funny as alot of our mates were the same so we ended up spending quite alot of time together and then a few months later had a boy meets girl moment on my 18th birthday party...daughter born 9 months later rotflmao Still in contact now and have had his mum,sister,him and his mate all come and stop at my house in the last 8 weeks..not all at the same time tho thank god. :scared:
So this is my life...now wheres me big red book thingy :lol:
Nicky
Met Mrs Lost from a suggestion from my Dad that he knew a girl from oop north down this way as a sort of nanny/au pair thing. She not having much luck in meeting people and finding it hard being away from Mummy.
Was a bit strange because we did the blind date thing. That night i knew if she'd have mr i'd marry her. And i did two years later. If i live to be a hundred the day she said yes will remain the finest day!
I met my wife in Calella, Spain in a bar called The Talk of the Town. "It'll never last" they said as she was from Manchester and me being from Leicester. We're limping along to 20 years this July and not a day has gone by when I haven't thought "Why the fuck did I get married so young!" :-(
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In a bed and breakfast dining room. He was 8 and I was 5 :smitten:

That is so sweet :inlove:
I met my ex hubby through a dating page in the local paper ( straight up! ) I've always said you get the strangest and most useless things in the Echo :dry:
Quote by swing_fun_cpl
Met russ online thro his group loosely covering everything including swinging,became internet buddies picked his brains online reagrding swinging in a attempt to introduce it into my failing marriage and as a means to a end for NSA sex for me .....yes i know not the brightest idea i ever had. Hubby wasnt intrested and im abit of a traditionlist regarding marriage and couldnt bring myself to be unfaithfull, so 17 months later Finaly ended the marriage and a couple of months after started chatting to russ again. As i was now free and single decided to go to a group social meet june 05 and the rest is history. We clicked sexually and become best mates and f/buddys as neither of us wanted a realtionship. We swung as a cpl from the august 05 and we went vanilla oct 06. Neither of us are sure how the vanilla slipped in there dunno but we are happy and thats the main thing :thumbup:
My x hubby i met thro CB radio and he was best mates with my x b/f who i also met through CB radio...in fact i had a few passing b/f i met that way. Still have my harrier cbx in a box somewhere in my out buildings whoohoo redface :shock: Anyhow i had a party for bonfire night he got wrecked i thro a quilt over him and he never left :doh:,asked me to marry him 2 days later :shock: spent 7 years engaged then had a shotgun wedding when i was 7 months pregnant with our 3rd child..in a last ditch attempt to have a legitimate child (Then found out when regestring the birth that when you get married all joint children become legitimate surprisedops: ) Plus my step dad had had a few serious strokes and other health implications(docs didnt think he was gonna be around much longer),he wanted to see me married off even tho he hated my x hubby and i wanted some kind of family member at my wedding :doh: remained married for 8 yrs so did a total of 15yrs too many lol .
My eldest daughters father was a CB'r too but didnt meet him thro the CB. Met him as he was one of my neighbour's in a house share but was realy funny as alot of our mates were the same so we ended up spending quite alot of time together and then a few months later had a boy meets girl moment on my 18th birthday party...daughter born 9 months later rotflmao Still in contact now and have had his mum,sister,him and his mate all come and stop at my house in the last 8 weeks..not all at the same time tho thank god. :scared:
So this is my life...now wheres me big red book thingy :lol:
Nicky

quick hijack sorry : i used to play hide and seek in my car using cbr's out till stupid o'clock id forgotten about that :lol:
We met online, i saw Anne's profile on a vanilla site & sent her the corniest email. Fortunately , she thought i was being tongue in cheek ( Yes, it was that bad ) & sent me one night we spent hours waffling on the phone & that was it, we were hooked.
We were totally open from the start & soon found out we had mutual " friends".
It's an anniversary at the end of this week.
The girl must be mad, but she makes me very happy.
smile
We met 13 years ago. My friend was dating his friend, it was an instant attraction. I went to see my friend at her house and there he was :inlove: Two weeks later we had a holiday together, six months on we were having our first child and had moved in together. We knew near enough straight away that we were destined to be together :inlove:
Louise xx
We met at work!
Mr swin came to work for the same company - and lasted all of about 4 weeks!
but we stayed in touch and we were friends before romance. But also knew we were destined. 18months into the relationship our daughter was born!
now we have 2 kids and a lovely house! love him to bit too! :inlove: :inlove: