I think a lot of characters around these parts are very special people. In the case of the couples, who swing, I think they're special because they must have strong relationships and be really comfortable with eachother. Many also, I think are special because they have the guts to realise their wishes and fantasies particularly in the swinging context.
However, I think there is a point where people draw a line and say 'Yeah that's a fantasy but I'm not sure I'll ever realise it'.
Unfortunately (poor miserable sod - is there an emoticon for that?) mine is to fantasise about swinging but never to be able to to realise it for reasons I've mentioned elsewhere so won't go into here.
Anybody else got got fantasies they have but think they will not act out : :?: