Which Midands Club?

24 Aug 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
We went to Utopia at the weekend and really liked the place PLeanty to see and do and no evidence of any "working" girls at all ...
C x

if you went on the friday (couples night) there are no working girls as they are there to cater for the single guys
Even though it was a while ago we went on a saturday night and there were working girls there as we spoke to a guy that organised them. I think he was trying to recruit the Mrs lol

25 Aug 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
We went to Utopia at the weekend and really liked the place PLeanty to see and do and no evidence of any "working" girls at all ...
C x

if you went on the friday (couples night) there are no working girls as they are there to cater for the single guys
It was a Saturday night, so doubtless they were there.
Lets just say that........ 1) we were obviously farrrr to busy to notice them hump

and 2) they were obviously not 'in your face' as it were.

25 Aug 2005

Quote by partyman
The other alternative not mentioned yet is Liberations (in Lutterworth). It's an upper class swingers club, offering top class facilities with a select membership (all members are interviewed for suitablility before being granted a membership) It prices-out single members, therefore with no singles-subsidy, couples have to bear the fuill cost of the clubs existance. This means a Â£100 membership fee, drinks at Â£5 a time and all other costs in proportion to this. I suspect it caters more for the London / Home Counties swingers (who are used to such prices) travelling north than Midlanders travelling south.

Hmmm not quite sure where you got your information from partyman but the last time i had contact with Liberations managers the membership fee for a couple is Â£50, that was on Monday. They are having difficulty with their website so their site is a little bland at the moment, however if memory serves the membership for a single fem is Â£20 but thesingle male is well over Â£100, may even be Â£200 i cant remember (as i'm not a single male i didnt pay that much attention lol).
Drinks Â£5!?!? Again, not the last time we went. Granted that was before all the 'changes' so it may be different there now.
All said and done, we have yet to visit somewhere that beats it as a whole. Utopia was good, the pool, sauna and steam room were good facilities that Libs doesnt have. Utopia is bigger and is set to be improved with the 'caves' being ripped out, more playrooms being put down there and the upstairs converted into accomodation for those wishing to stay overnight.
But as has been said the best thing to do is try the clubs for yourself.
We really liked the 'old'Libs, not been to the new one so can't really comment.
Utopia was really good, had a great time, no problems with working girls, great place to go as a group.
Chams, not been but want to try it soon.
GOE was OK, we were knackered when we visited so prehaps not in the best frame of mind to 'judge' to much.
Adam and Evesin Manchester - didnt like it.
Again our opinions and we all have different tastes even though we enjoy the same general activities :twisted:
Ah well, i supose i best get on with my portfolio, Calista will

:smackbottom: if i'm on here too long :twisted:

25 Aug 2005

Anyone been to the Atlantis in Stoke recently? Wondered if that had improved.

25 Aug 2005

Quote by Morbius
...This means a Â£100 membership fee, drinks at Â£5 a time and all other costs in proportion to this.

membership fee for a couple is Â£50, that was on Monday. They are having difficulty with their website so their site is a little bland at the moment, however if memory serves the membership for a single fem is Â£20 but thesingle male is well over Â£100, may even be Â£200
As you say, things change, and what I heard was in the aftermath of the News Of The Screws "exposee" when demand for membership was very high (and the price probably went up as a result) Yes I've heard about Â£200 for singles memberships too - their way of pricing the single guys out of the club, the result being that couples end up footing the whole bill for running the place.
Point to remember, if you join NOW, your Â£50 membership fee lasts until 31 December, so that's 18 weeks time, which is roughly per week! (Equivelent to Â£125 per year) Libs are the odd-balls in not doing 12 month memberships, a point which has ruffled a few feathers I can tell you.
Oh and being a licenced bar, what are you expecting there? I've heard several people tell me about Â£5 per drink (obviously dependent on what you have. Anyway, much prefer the unlicenced bars that store and pour your own drinks, like the one at Xtasia.
As for Utiopia, I couldn't help but think about it last night, watching that C5 documentary about the Cat House (brothel) on telly lol

25 Aug 2005

Most clubs are really expensive for single guys i think the best priced one is the private club in Aston,Birmingham but due to the low prices there are lots of men and they do have a few working girls there and it does tend to be a gang bang, bukakke place, personally as a female i didn't find it a good club to go to as the working girls seemed to get all the attention, but i suppose if thats what the guys go for

25 Aug 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
Most clubs are really expensive for single guys i think the best priced one is the private club in Aston,Birmingham but due to the low prices there are lots of men and they do have a few working girls there and it does tend to be a gang bang, bukakke place, personally as a female i didn't find it a good club to go to as the working girls seemed to get all the attention, but i suppose if thats what the guys go for

I thought that Â£25 in Xtasia was steep for single guys, but the Private Club is Â£30 or more.
As I said before though, I don't classify Private as a "SWINGERS" club, but more of a "Sex Club", kind of like a freestyle brothel, where the door receipts pay for the prostitutes wages and any free assistance from the females of passing couples, well more fool them.
If you are a couple thinking about where to go, ask yourself...what are the guys like at a place where sex is on a plate for them, they don't need to exhibit any social skills and any riff raff with Â£30 in his hand will be welcome. Don't you deserve better than this?
At least at a club like Xtasia or Chameleons, where single guys meet couples, the guys know that a bit of chat, friendliness, politeness and decorum is needed to get on with people, to stand any chance of some fun and games. If you lack these social skills, fear not, Private Club will be happy to welcome you.

25 Aug 2005

i have heard that charm and X-tasia................ are good........... so i plan to go to both in one day :twisted: :twisted:
what dunno

25 Aug 2005

Quote by partyman
At least at a club like Xtasia or Chameleons, where single guys meet couples, the guys know that a bit of chat, friendliness, politeness and decorum is needed to get on with people, to stand any chance of some fun and games. If you lack these social skills, fear not, Private Club will be happy to welcome you.

Maybe you should try going to chamelens as a single fem and see if you still feel like that, now i love chameleons i have been going for about 5 years now but men there do not chat to you and are not really friendly as such, i have been many times on my own and done nothing because i have decided not to just play with guys who make no effort to talk to you, as a single fem you get guys sat round the bar watching you waiting for you to make a move and soon as you do have 10 guys following you round the club just waiting for you to go in a room, ok so the sex is there for women if you want to just go in a room and have men who can't be bothered to chat to you jump on you soon as you get on a bed, but as for chat! i have never ever been to chams on my own and had a guy in the bar area come over and talk to me and ask me to a room, they either wait till u go in the jacuzzi and all feel u up or follow u about till you go in a room so really the type of men who go to chameleons is not different to those who go to the private club its all about sex in any club only difference is at the private club if your a man and u want sex you will get it, i have been with a single fem friend b4 and had a group of guys kick the door in at chamelens to join us and when we said no and walked out was hurled with abuse, i also had a incident when a guy pinned me down in the jacuzzi and forced himself on me while all the other guys just sat there and watched and it took another woman to tell him to get off me, now i admit that that don't happen regular and the amount of trouble i have had at chams in minimal but the point i am trying to make is all clubs are the same when you get down to the basics, all becase you go to a club where there are no working girls don't make you better than a guy who does go to such places your both after a shag after all

25 Aug 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
At least at a club like Xtasia or Chameleons, where single guys meet couples, the guys know that a bit of chat, friendliness, politeness and decorum is needed to get on with people, to stand any chance of some fun and games. If you lack these social skills, fear not, Private Club will be happy to welcome you.

Maybe you should try going to chamelens as a single fem and see if you still feel like that, now i love chameleons i have been going for about 5 years now but men there do not chat to you and are not really friendly as such, i have been many times on my own and done nothing because i have decided not to just play with guys who make no effort to talk to you, as a single fem you get guys sat round the bar watching you waiting for you to make a move and soon as you do have 10 guys following you round the club just waiting for you to go in a room, ok so the sex is there for women if you want to just go in a room and have men who can't be bothered to chat to you jump on you soon as you get on a bed, but as for chat! i have never ever been to chams on my own and had a guy in the bar area come over and talk to me and ask me to a room, they either wait till u go in the jacuzzi and all feel u up or follow u about till you go in a room so really the type of men who go to chameleons is not different to those who go to the private club its all about sex in any club only difference is at the private club if your a man and u want sex you will get it, i have been with a single fem friend b4 and had a group of guys kick the door in at chamelens to join us and when we said no and walked out was hurled with abuse, i also had a incident when a guy pinned me down in the jacuzzi and forced himself on me while all the other guys just sat there and watched and it took another woman to tell him to get off me, now i admit that that don't happen regular and the amount of trouble i have had at chams in minimal but the point i am trying to make is all clubs are the same when you get down to the basics, all becase you go to a club where there are no working girls don't make you better than a guy who does go to such places your both after a shag after all
You do surprise me about your perspective on single guys. Having been on my own and with a partner, I've not found the guys slow in coming forward, but of course, I'll never be able to replicate a single female way of looking at things. And I thought Chameleons were very selective as to who they accept as single members. Has that policy changed?
How can those guys get away with kicking doors down and stuff? I've been going to clubs (more Xtasia than Chameleons) for 10+ years and have never seen anything like that. I presume that the matter was dealt with by the staff? Sorry to hear that you had to put up with that though. It's embarrasing to admit to being a single guy when you hear that "our" reputation is sullied by idiots like that. I suppose that there are always bad apples in every barrel, and if you go for long enough, you are bound to encounter some, however unfortunate that is.

25 Aug 2005

Quote by Debbiewebs
i have heard that charm and X-tasia................ are good........... so i plan to go to both in one day :twisted: :twisted:
what

Both on one day??? Wow, that'll take some energy (makes note to buy shares in Red Bull...sales are about to shoot up)
Perfectly possible though, Chameleons is open during the day and early evening, and Xtasia don't really get started til 10pm. So a mid evening swapsies (possibly with a bite to eat on the way) aounds like a good plan.

25 Aug 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
At least at a club like Xtasia or Chameleons, where single guys meet couples, the guys know that a bit of chat, friendliness, politeness and decorum is needed to get on with people, to stand any chance of some fun and games. If you lack these social skills, fear not, Private Club will be happy to welcome you.

Maybe you should try going to chamelens as a single fem and see if you still feel like that, now i love chameleons i have been going for about 5 years now but men there do not chat to you and are not really friendly as such, i have been many times on my own and done nothing because i have decided not to just play with guys who make no effort to talk to you, as a single fem you get guys sat round the bar watching you waiting for you to make a move and soon as you do have 10 guys following you round the club just waiting for you to go in a room, ok so the sex is there for women if you want to just go in a room and have men who can't be bothered to chat to you jump on you soon as you get on a bed, but as for chat! i have never ever been to chams on my own and had a guy in the bar area come over and talk to me and ask me to a room, they either wait till u go in the jacuzzi and all feel u up or follow u about till you go in a room so really the type of men who go to chameleons is not different to those who go to the private club its all about sex in any club only difference is at the private club if your a man and u want sex you will get it, i have been with a single fem friend b4 and had a group of guys kick the door in at chamelens to join us and when we said no and walked out was hurled with abuse, i also had a incident when a guy pinned me down in the jacuzzi and forced himself on me while all the other guys just sat there and watched and it took another woman to tell him to get off me, now i admit that that don't happen regular and the amount of trouble i have had at chams in minimal but the point i am trying to make is all clubs are the same when you get down to the basics, all becase you go to a club where there are no working girls don't make you better than a guy who does go to such places your both after a shag after all
To be honest as a couple we have been followed around the club by single guys. To be honest we find it quite amusing to let the guys follow us to the top rooms of the club then leg it down the other stairs lol

25 Aug 2005

Quote by seagull69
To be honest as a couple we have been followed around the club by single guys. To be honest we find it quite amusing to let the guys follow us to the top rooms of the club then leg it down the other stairs

We haven't been to a club on a mixed night where the guys don't follow you round. It is funny to suddenly stop and turn round and see the ensuing pile-up. Generally it's just amusing to watch them doing it but if the numbers of couples:singles are greatly out of balance then it does become a nuisance.
It's a shame that more single guys don't actually chat to the couples, they would probably have more success.

25 Aug 2005

Quote by partyman
At least at a club like Xtasia or Chameleons, where single guys meet couples, the guys know that a bit of chat, friendliness, politeness and decorum is needed to get on with people, to stand any chance of some fun and games. If you lack these social skills, fear not, Private Club will be happy to welcome you.

Maybe you should try going to chamelens as a single fem and see if you still feel like that, now i love chameleons i have been going for about 5 years now but men there do not chat to you and are not really friendly as such, i have been many times on my own and done nothing because i have decided not to just play with guys who make no effort to talk to you, as a single fem you get guys sat round the bar watching you waiting for you to make a move and soon as you do have 10 guys following you round the club just waiting for you to go in a room, ok so the sex is there for women if you want to just go in a room and have men who can't be bothered to chat to you jump on you soon as you get on a bed, but as for chat! i have never ever been to chams on my own and had a guy in the bar area come over and talk to me and ask me to a room, they either wait till u go in the jacuzzi and all feel u up or follow u about till you go in a room so really the type of men who go to chameleons is not different to those who go to the private club its all about sex in any club only difference is at the private club if your a man and u want sex you will get it, i have been with a single fem friend b4 and had a group of guys kick the door in at chamelens to join us and when we said no and walked out was hurled with abuse, i also had a incident when a guy pinned me down in the jacuzzi and forced himself on me while all the other guys just sat there and watched and it took another woman to tell him to get off me, now i admit that that don't happen regular and the amount of trouble i have had at chams in minimal but the point i am trying to make is all clubs are the same when you get down to the basics, all becase you go to a club where there are no working girls don't make you better than a guy who does go to such places your both after a shag after all
You do surprise me about your perspective on single guys. Having been on my own and with a partner, I've not found the guys slow in coming forward, but of course, I'll never be able to replicate a single female way of looking at things. And I thought Chameleons were very selective as to who they accept as single members. Has that policy changed?
How can those guys get away with kicking doors down and stuff? I've been going to clubs (more Xtasia than Chameleons) for 10+ years and have never seen anything like that. I presume that the matter was dealt with by the staff? Sorry to hear that you had to put up with that though. It's embarrasing to admit to being a single guy when you hear that "our" reputation is sullied by idiots like that. I suppose that there are always bad apples in every barrel, and if you go for long enough, you are bound to encounter some, however unfortunate that is.
as i have said i love chameleons and that was just two matters out of 5 years of going, i wouldn't ever suggest people didn't go because of that, the point i was trying to make was that clubs such as chameleons (as nice as they are) do not attract a higher class of swingers, people who go there go for the same reson as any other club, i also have never found the guys there shy of coming forwards but i do find that they are not interested in chatting to you, i find the only time i have been there and found a social side is when i go as a couple and chat to other couples.

25 Aug 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
To be honest as a couple we have been followed around the club by single guys. To be honest we find it quite amusing to let the guys follow us to the top rooms of the club then leg it down the other stairs

We haven't been to a club on a mixed night where the guys don't follow you round. It is funny to suddenly stop and turn round and see the ensuing pile-up. Generally it's just amusing to watch them doing it but if the numbers of couples:singles are greatly out of balance then it does become a nuisance.
It's a shame that more single guys don't actually chat to the couples, they would probably have more success.
Couldn't agree more. We have very few single guys chat to us. If they did they would have a chance especialy if they were bi. wink

25 Aug 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
To be honest as a couple we have been followed around the club by single guys. To be honest we find it quite amusing to let the guys follow us to the top rooms of the club then leg it down the other stairs

We haven't been to a club on a mixed night where the guys don't follow you round. It is funny to suddenly stop and turn round and see the ensuing pile-up. Generally it's just amusing to watch them doing it but if the numbers of couples:singles are greatly out of balance then it does become a nuisance.
It's a shame that more single guys don't actually chat to the couples, they would probably have more success.
i used to go to chams regular on a sunday night with a fem friend and we used to walk upstairs, get the usual following of guys then just stop on the top landing and chat, its really funny to see all the sudden looks of "what do i do now" on their faces lol
Saying that i love the single guys but hey u gotta have a laugh :lol:

25 Aug 2005

I went to the Private club once with a mate and it really pissed us off
clearly they were using the blokes to make bukkake videos and taking facial
pics for a pay site. There were some couples sitting around but no one really did anything
we though F*** this and left.

25 Aug 2005

Try avoiding single guys on the swing at Partners:
*Creep down the back stairs (noone has seen you).
*Hold the chains still while mrs northwest climbs on (no clinking, not a sound).
*Start to play (empty room).
*30 seconds later look up (3 figures have appeared in the doorway but are motionless in the gloom).
*Look away, then look back (3 figures are still motionless in the gloom but are 3 paces closer).
*Look away again, then look back (3 figures are still motionless in the gloom but are another 3 paces closer).
*You begin to think you are in a Stephen King film and have encountered the living dead. At no point have you seen them move but now they have surrounded you and are wanking right by mrs northwest's face. Another 5 figures are motionless in the doorway...
*Exit stage right.
Then they wonder why they don't get anywhere. dunno

25 Aug 2005

Quote by tomas
I went to the Private club once with a mate and it really pissed us off
clearly they were using the blokes to make bukkake videos and taking facial
pics for a pay site. There were some couples sitting around but no one really did anything
we though F*** this and left.

i don't really think that the private club caters for women at all be them part of a couple or single, because the guys who go have to make no effort to play with the 'workers' they tend to stick with them and ignor the other women. Even tho the private club does try to encourage more women to go.

25 Aug 2005

Then they wonder why they don't get anywhere
We do get some where and no we dont wonder

25 Aug 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
Try avoiding single guys on the swing at Partners:
*Creep down the back stairs (noone has seen you).
*Hold the chains still while mrs northwest climbs on (no clinking, not a sound).
*Start to play (empty room).
*30 seconds later look up (3 figures have appeared in the doorway but are motionless in the gloom).
*Look away, then look back (3 figures are still motionless in the gloom but are 3 paces closer).
*Look away again, then look back (3 figures are still motionless in the gloom but are another 3 paces closer).
*You begin to think you are in a Stephen King film and have encountered the living dead. At no point have you seen them move but now they have surrounded you and are wanking right by mrs northwest's face. Another 5 figures are motionless in the doorway...
*Exit stage right.
Then they wonder why they don't get anywhere.

:laughabove:
Brill, had me in stitches cause its so true lol

25 Aug 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
i used to go to chams regular on a sunday night with a fem friend and we used to walk upstairs, get the usual following of guys then just stop on the top landing and chat, its really funny to see all the sudden looks of "what do i do now" on their faces lol

NN1 - I did wonder if I had seen you before when I saw your avatar, and when you say that you go with another fem, it kind of confirmed it. And I think I have a possible reason for you. I think your chances of being approached when you are with another female, by a single guy are much more remote than if you were on your own.
Maybe you go on your own as well, I don't know, I can only reflect on the time when I saw you there.
Call it cowardice if you like, but the fear of being torn apart by 2 or more women would put all but the most confident/arrogant/irrepressible of guys off the idea totally.
As I said, I thought I have seen you there, with a fem friend or two, and thought, shall I / shan't I? A couple of women together, (I wondered) are they into blokes? (don't take offence, these questions just cross the mind amongst others) Who do I talk to first, and will the other one take offence? What if one likes me and the other doesn't? There were a number of thoughts which raced through my head, which are not a reflection on you, but perhaps more a reflection of male (my?) insecurity in the potential situation. And trust me, having seen one single guy have the piss taken out of him by 2 or more women, you don't want it happening to you. So I chickened out and went for the "safer" option of talking to some other couples. At least with a couple if the woman shows no interest, you can politely talk football to the bloke, make excuses and part with honour and ego intact.
Which is not to say I don't talk to single women. Only 2 weeks ago I did just that in Xtasia, on a Mixed night, and as they do, one thing led to another, and we've become really good friends since. But then she was (at the start of the night) on her own, and so I found it easier to feel confident about approaching her,
Just a thought, from a male perspective which you might find of use. Or you might just want to throw it in the bin and have a scream at me. Either way, it's just an attempt to foster a bit of understanding and not meant to bo offensive.

26 Aug 2005

Quote by partyman
i used to go to chams regular on a sunday night with a fem friend and we used to walk upstairs, get the usual following of guys then just stop on the top landing and chat, its really funny to see all the sudden looks of "what do i do now" on their faces lol

NN1 - I did wonder if I had seen you before when I saw your avatar, and when you say that you go with another fem, it kind of confirmed it. And I think I have a possible reason for you. I think your chances of being approached when you are with another female, by a single guy are much more remote than if you were on your own.

And here was me thinking it was cause i was a ugly fecker
I do go on my own a lot as well and to be honest don't find it any different than going with another female, as i have said b4 the only time i have found men chat if i go as a couple (m/f) and then they usually chat to him first
I also find it easier to play when with a guy, i have never quite got the hang of how you start when alone even after all these years :lol: if your with a fella you get on a bed and guys join in, when alone do you get on a bed alone and just lay there and wait like some sad billy no m8s hoping some will will join you? any advice welcome :haha:

26 Aug 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
Try avoiding single guys on the swing at Partners:
*Creep down the back stairs (noone has seen you).
*Hold the chains still while mrs northwest climbs on (no clinking, not a sound).
*Start to play (empty room).
*30 seconds later look up (3 figures have appeared in the doorway but are motionless in the gloom).
*Look away, then look back (3 figures are still motionless in the gloom but are 3 paces closer).
*Look away again, then look back (3 figures are still motionless in the gloom but are another 3 paces closer).
*You begin to think you are in a Stephen King film and have encountered the living dead. At no point have you seen them move but now they have surrounded you and are wanking right by mrs northwest's face. Another 5 figures are motionless in the doorway...
*Exit stage right.
Then they wonder why they don't get anywhere.

Had the exact same experience at Partners and must admit it was incredibley creepy. This was in the low tunnel on the stairs. We thought we'd outwitted the single men but they seemed to appear from nowhere! Not only was it creepy but one of the fellas set himself up as an unofficial "doorman" and refused entry to the que of single fellas who wanted to join the living dead... and as you did, we exited stage right.. or kind of scrabbled out.
Same night a bit later we had a single fella trying to break the door down on one of the rooms.. A polite "piss off" got nowhere and he then spent 5 minutes talking through the door about how big his cock was etc and begging to be let in, while we sat inside hoping he'd go away. The lass I was with wouldn't let me go out and have a word... though things were said to the management later. Put the mockers on an otherwise good night.
Saying all that, at the time the common concensus was that it was unusual to find that behaviour at Partners. Maybe it has become usual. I haven't been back since so I wouldn't know.

26 Aug 2005

Quote by postie
Saying all that, at the time the common concensus was that it was unusual to find that behaviour at Partners. Maybe it has become usual. I haven't been back since so I wouldn't know.

We first went to Partners not long after it opened and have been more than several times since. We have found the guys at Partners consistently more bad mannered than at any other club. We have met some very nice guys there but they are heavily outnumbered by those that don't know how to behave.
On our first visit there we were sat at the tables in the cafe chatting to another couple while mrs northwest was eating a bowl of apple pie and custard. A guy came up to us, stark naked and wanking, asking if we wanted to play. He seemed quite bemused when we all started pissing ourselves, so much so that he had the balls (clearly on display) to ask again as if we hadn't heard the first time. A polite refusal finally sent him on his way. lol

26 Aug 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
We haven't been to a club on a mixed night where the guys don't follow you round. It is funny to suddenly stop and turn round and see the ensuing pile-up. Generally it's just amusing to watch them doing it but if the numbers of couples:singles are greatly out of balance then it does become a nuisance.

:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :thumbup:

Quote by northwest-cpl
It's a shame that more single guys don't actually chat to the couples, they would probably have more success.

This does seem to be a problem dunno

There would also be more successful meets, if single men remembered i am with my partner. Asking hornyred to play without Dino
:shock: this has ended many potential play times loon

:loon:
And then comes the nice chat to me, thinking i will change my mind. :wanker:

26 Aug 2005

Quote by bluexxx
yeah, maybe chamleons in the future, don't really fancy a sauna club for my first time!

Chams isn't really your typical sauna club........ it's huge, lots of rooms, even an outdoor one :shock: lol

Hell yeah and I have tried them all :twisted:

26 Aug 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
Try avoiding single guys on the swing at Partners:
*Creep down the back stairs (noone has seen you).
*Hold the chains still while mrs northwest climbs on (no clinking, not a sound).
*Start to play (empty room).
*30 seconds later look up (3 figures have appeared in the doorway but are motionless in the gloom).
*Look away, then look back (3 figures are still motionless in the gloom but are 3 paces closer).
*Look away again, then look back (3 figures are still motionless in the gloom but are another 3 paces closer).
*You begin to think you are in a Stephen King film and have encountered the living dead. At no point have you seen them move but now they have surrounded you and are wanking right by mrs northwest's face. Another 5 figures are motionless in the doorway...
*Exit stage right.
Then they wonder why they don't get anywhere.

:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: pmsl

26 Aug 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
any advice welcome :haha:

Sounds from what you are saying that if the guys fear the prospect of breakind the ice with you, that you need to show that there is nothing to fear. Chatting about football or cricket (a good topical subject at the moment. Just pretend that you are interested even if you're not) at the bar with the lads will do wonders.
OR
Let it be known that you want to go on couples only nights and are looking for someone to take you.
Then when you've sorted out which one you like, and if he hasn't asked you...grab him by the towel and do the girl power turn on him, take him to a room and onwards and upwards.
Guaranteed that when the other guys see that you are there to play with guys, and not just to chew them up and spit them out, then you'll get a lot more friends very quickly IMHO
Tell you what, next time I see you there, I'll pop over and say hello, as long as you don't pour your drink over me wink

27 Aug 2005

Quote by partyman
Then when you've sorted out which one you like, and if he hasn't asked you...grab him by the towel and do the girl power turn on him, take him to a room and onwards and upwards.

:shock: i would never do that, i'd just just die if the guy turned round and said thanx but get lost i have only once asked a guy if he wanted to play and he said no and i have never made the first move since, see the female ego gets brused too :lol:
Oh and i never do couples night at any club