Which of the 5 senses.......

16 Feb 2008

adds most spice to your sex life?
I was having another ponder last night, when I couldnt get to sleep, about the five senses we posess and which if any you preferred over the others when having sex.
I realise that ALL senses have a big part to play in the act itself, but wondered if there was one particular on that really made it all the more toe-curlingly fizzly for you?
mine is the sense of hearing.
I ,love being talked really dirty to, when having sex, and to a lesser extent talking dirty to my partner myself, so i tend to talk a lot to initiate it whilst shagging, but for me, it really can make a good orgasm so much better.
I love the sounds of sex and the noises made by our bodies in the throes of a good session. it just seems to send me over the edge into blissful freefall biggrin

:D :inlove:
So, what does it for you?
is it smell.....of each others bodies or a sexy perfume/aftershave that does it for you
sight....looking at your lover enjoying themselves or looking sexy in lingerie, or watching their face as they orgasm.
Taste....the taste of their mouth or skin, or their sex juices that turns you into a quivering wreck
or touch, the feeling of them naked against you, or feeling the way they move with you, or feeling them deep inside you, or touching all you favourite erogenous zones?

16 Feb 2008

Touch, for sure! :rascal: Oh and definately taste :rascal: :rascal:
Miss Cream xxx

16 Feb 2008

I would say touch followed closely by smell
hearing does nothing for me (at least not this year so far)
sight and taste are both middleish for me

16 Feb 2008

hearing does it for me every time closly followed by touch!.

16 Feb 2008

Quote by Bonedigger
I ,love being talked really dirty to, when having sex, and to a lesser extent talking dirty to my partner

:shock: Noooooooooooooooo, will you shhhhhhhhh It's hard enough trying to concentrate on not doing the PremEjack thing (i find the 9 times table helps) without some silly bint giving it all the dirty talk rolleyes

for gods sake woman give a guy a chance dunno

just kidding, being a bloke i have to confess that all 5 do it for me, but if pressed i'd have to say that sight just nips into the top place, nothing turns me on more than seeing a woman in the throws of lustful passion really letting go and enjoying herself. :wanker:
:shock: what? :dunno:
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16 Feb 2008

Hearing for me.
Whimpers, groans, breathing, sighs, dirty talk, slapping and everything else in between :twisted:
G x

16 Feb 2008

Touch. Not always in the absolute throes of passion either. The build-up, the little light touches as you have dinner or talk; the brushing of someone's leg against mine; a finger slowly drawn down from the lips to the cleavage; adjusting a strap; a hand in the small of the back, guiding you into a room. Then of course there's all the sensual, sexual touching during sex. :twisted:
Ooooooerrrrrrr I'm all wibbly now redface

16 Feb 2008

100% touch - I absolutely love being stroked and could lie there for hours biggrin

And it's nice to be out and about and you can still touch all innocent like and it's a reminder of what you've been up to and what you're going to be up to later wink

16 Feb 2008

gosh, when I first looked at this I thought it was easy to say...after reading everyone elses' view I am not completely sure.
I think were I to choose one that I couldn't have sex without.. it would be sight.
I can enjoy watching a sexual 'event' and be brought to orgasm without me or anyone else touching me. I have got a bit damp after reading others descriptions redface

Neither of those would be a sure thing if I was unable to see.

16 Feb 2008

Quote by Freckledbird
Touch. Not always in the absolute throes of passion either. The build-up, the little light touches as you have dinner or talk; the brushing of someone's leg against mine; a finger slowly drawn down from the lips to the cleavage; adjusting a strap; a hand in the small of the back, guiding you into a room. Then of course there's all the sensual, sexual touching during sex. :twisted:
Ooooooerrrrrrr I'm all wibbly now

Me too

That sensual touch is guaranteed to send me into a frenzy! There again, so is the 'grab it and fuck it' approach sometimes :twisted:

16 Feb 2008

As FB and others have put so well - it's touch for me too.
The sense I could probably most easily do without in sex is sight. But then again ... Shit - this isn't as easy as it sounds!
Must experiment ...

16 Feb 2008

Sight & touch.
As far as sight is concerned, not so much the "phwoooar, nice arse" thing as this....
Looking into a lovers eyes & seeing how much they want you.
That tops it for me, however, deprive me of that- by blindfolding etc- and the other senses, especially touch are heightened dramatically.
One of the most intense orgasms I ever had was whilst blindfolded (by a guy I didn't fancy btw) and treated to an extraordinary sensual massage- with fruit, and ice pop & Baileys. >>>>Shutting up before I get carried away!

16 Feb 2008

Quote by winchwench
Looking into a lovers eyes & seeing how much they want you.

That is made so much better by the touchy-feely build-up though :twisted:

16 Feb 2008

Quote by Freckledbird

Looking into a lovers eyes & seeing how much they want you.

That is made so much better by the touchy-feely build-up though :twisted:
I know......I just skipped to the bedroom! lol

Mainly because in the scenario I was recalling means spending the day with someone & not being allowed to touch them.....a furtive glance is the closest you can get.
Now thats tense. :frustratedashell:

16 Feb 2008

I think it's probably sound for me. Nothing is guaranteed to make me get that sexy squidgey feeling more than a soft spoken whisper in my ear from a certain extremely aroused person behind me. If I happen to be handcuffed with soft black cuffs at the time thats even better :twisted:

16 Feb 2008

What a really thought provoking thread....kudos to the person who put it up!! :giggle:
Seriously I have really enjoyed reading all the different replies, and of how people who thought it was clear cut (like myself) are now maybe undecided.
After reading the replies, and then going off to have a cold shower before I was able to type again lol

I am now thinking that
winchys "
Mainly because in the scenario I was recalling means spending the day with someone & not being allowed to touch them.....a furtive glance is the closest you can get.
Now thats tense. :frustratedashell "
was really horny and has reminded me of occssions when its happened to me :inlove:
that I would LOVE to see Frex going all wibbly :smitten:
and that I would LOVE to talk dirty to Pete SW to see him mentally recite his nine times table without mistakes :giggle:

16 Feb 2008

Quote by Freckledbird
Touch. Not always in the absolute throes of passion either. The build-up, the little light touches as you have dinner or talk; the brushing of someone's leg against mine; a finger slowly drawn down from the lips to the cleavage; adjusting a strap; a hand in the small of the back, guiding you into a room. Then of course there's all the sensual, sexual touching during sex. :twisted:
Ooooooerrrrrrr I'm all wibbly now

A women after my own heart surprised

ops:
its the little touches that make the big bit worthwhile, i go all gooey over my back being kissed and carressed. Its the only place none sexual where i think i can come just by it being kissed in the right way
toe curling moments :P

16 Feb 2008

Quote by firelizard
I think it's probably sound for me. Nothing is guaranteed to make me get that sexy squidgey feeling more than a soft spoken whisper in my ear from a certain extremely aroused person behind me. If I happen to be handcuffed with soft black cuffs at the time thats even better :twisted:

:notes:

:rascal:

18 Feb 2008

Quote by Sassy-Seren
I think it's probably sound for me. Nothing is guaranteed to make me get that sexy squidgey feeling more than a soft spoken whisper in my ear from a certain extremely aroused person behind me. If I happen to be handcuffed with soft black cuffs at the time thats even better :twisted:

:notes:

:rascal:
I can lend you some Sassy if the urgent need arises (well once you have taken them off of course)

18 Feb 2008

Quote by Mistress_39
I think it's probably sound for me. Nothing is guaranteed to make me get that sexy squidgey feeling more than a soft spoken whisper in my ear from a certain extremely aroused person behind me. If I happen to be handcuffed with soft black cuffs at the time thats even better :twisted:

:notes:

:rascal:
I can lend you some Sassy if the urgent need arises (well once you have taken them off of course)
I'll need a demonstation of course :twisted:

19 Feb 2008

The first thing I noticed was her shining hair and deep blue eyes. Then the complex scent of her perfume. As she stepped closer and her gown slipped to the floor I felt her warmth bridging the gap between us. Still she had not touched me. I reached out and felt the soft firm curves of her body. She pulled me to her and spoke for the first time since returning to the room. Our lips meet, that taste, undefinable, unique.
Which sense I don't know they seem to enhance each other.

19 Feb 2008

Sight- Turns me on never made me puke
Sound- Turns me on never made me puke
Smell- Turns me on made me puke occasionally
Touch- Turns me on never made me puke
Taste- Turns me on made me puke occasionally
Spirit
Makes my soul soar and my herat beat faster. Makes me want to be with someone and hold them and love them.

19 Feb 2008

This reminded me of a man I used to work with. He claimed that when his wife sat on his face he lost 3 of his 5 senses. But never said which ones.

21 Feb 2008

I have just reconsidered. The one sense that I could not lose and still enjoy sex, touch! It is the only one that is needed.