Who is the relationship is the person who most advocates swinging?
Him
or
Her
*The reason for this post is to prove to a friend that it isn't just men who want to swing.*
So you could call this poll my market research!!!!
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Who is The more dominant????
Sexpert
Can't realy help here.
We both love swinging.
Obviously different activities to a different degree, also depending on mood, and who we are with.
A most favourable to sittuations where K is getting all the attention, and
K is most favourable to FF fun. So neither of us advocates it more than the other.
:P
We both love swinging.
Obviously different activities to a different degree, also depending on mood, and who we are with.
A most favourable to sittuations where K is getting all the attention, and
K is most favourable to FF fun. So neither of us advocates it more than the other.
:P
Sex God
Quote by Dawn_Mids
Sorry but I made a small edit.
I've added 'Both' as we share all the decisions between us
What Dawn said
Quote by the_Laird
Sorry but I made a small edit.
I've added 'Both' as we share all the decisions between us
What Dawn said
What they both said.
In my opinion if the woman is pushing the guy its as unacceptable as the man pushing the woman into doing things, only its not a big is it?
People pat that guy on the back for having an adventurous mrs and tell him he's lucky. He might be feeling dead lucky, he might be over the moon, on the other hand he might feel pressured and cornered into doing things or he'll loose her.
Men should be given more rights within the swinging scene to say no and respected for saying no in the same way women are and should be.
Orgasminator
any bloke who cant stand up for himself in a relationship shouldnt be in that relationship.....same goes for women. i learnt that the hard way.
Quote by easyease
any bloke who cant stand up for himself in a relationship shouldnt be in that relationship.....same goes for women. i learnt that the hard way.
Why do you have to 'stand up for yourself'
Relationships are about talking and sharing, not standing up and fighting for your corner
Sex God
Quote by warwick
I agree with Dawn
bloody hell now theres a first :shock:
thats only because you havnt a corner to fight for on account of living in a lighthouse and the fact that after about three in the afternoon you've always struggled to stand up for yourself
you've misinterpruted Dawns answer.
Orgasminator
i meant that some relationships are totally unbalanced and there is a dominent partner who pressures the other, of course a person should stand their ground or get out of the relationship in such circumstances.
not all relationships are built on equality unfortunately, but its easy to forget that if your in a happy two sided relationship.
not all relationships are built on equality unfortunately, but its easy to forget that if your in a happy two sided relationship.
Sexlightened
when our conversation got round to swinging, I guess I initiated that, but before we do (did) anything we both talked (and talked and talked...!) about what we were prepared to do and what we wanted. Once WE had decided OUR limits, we joined as a couple, to please ourselves,so neither is more dominant in that sense as we both started swinging and cams together.
As far as anything else goes, we can both be dominant as in asking the other to try new things, but it's only pushing if you're going against someone's will.
As a poll answer I put both, cos it should be equal! (obviously not counting sub/dom!)
:smackbottom: :smackbottom:
As far as anything else goes, we can both be dominant as in asking the other to try new things, but it's only pushing if you're going against someone's will.
As a poll answer I put both, cos it should be equal! (obviously not counting sub/dom!)
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: 
Sex God
Quote by warwick
Now listen mrj I only have trouble standing up by myself after 5 not 3
Do not besmirch my character I am rarely wrecked before 5Pm :shock:
lighthouses are good because you cant walk into sharp corners
If you live in a lighthouse and there are no corners.... where do the spiders live???
:confused2:
Sexpert
While I have limited experience, in my last relationship it was even. We both discussed and fantasised about the possibility an equal amount. While she initiated both encounters (woefully few I know), we both enjoyed them equally!
Sex God
Quote by mik69
Since in my (humble and usually wrong) opinion this is just a fantasy of your's I really don't think it's worth a vote
Loving your shed doesn't really count Mike :shock:
Sex God
Quote by meat2pleaseu
Since in my (humble and usually wrong) opinion this is just a fantasy of your's I really don't think it's worth a vote
Loving your shed doesn't really count Mike :shock:
If you lived in your shed, then you'd love it too......
Gem. x
Quote by meat2pleaseu
Since in my (humble and usually wrong) opinion this is just a fantasy of your's I really don't think it's worth a vote
Loving your shed doesn't really count Mike :shock:
What :shock: really oh bugger in that case sorry all i've never had a relationship then
