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Quote by meat2pleaseu
I've got a bit of a tit fetish, what time should i expect you here :rascal: :lickface: wink

Ah, now that I know that I'll renew my profile pics slightly just for you kiss :wink:
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Quote by Rainbows
Okay so it is a known thing that I am not here to play, but I do sometimes browse the ads section if I am on line. I like to see who is on from around my area rolleyes Oh and okay - I'm a perve and some of the photos are quite interesting :twisted: redface

You beat me to it sexy! I was just about to call you a perve!! passionkiss
Quote by Rainbows
So now I find out that you can see who has viewed you and it just made me wonder whether people find it useful or a little intrusive?

I actually quite like it! But then I'm a nosey cow lol I like the fact that people have wanted to check out my profile and even if they don't take it further and pm, well thats fine, doesn't worry me in the slightest! I get lots of looks at my profile after being in the chatrooms but thats just cause people want to know a little bit more about who has just been watching them on cam or been passing the time of day with.
I do live a bit further away from the heart of the country's swinging community so its not surprising that some people don't want to take things any further for that reason alone.
Anyway, I do engage in pm'ing with some people who contact me from viewing my profile although I also admit to knowing who I want and going after them!! :twisted:
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Quote by lilnfil
confused is this an extra's thing or can we all view who's looked at our profile's dunno
edit: sorry,yes it is an extras thing redface lol
fil

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
I got all excited when I read the first post and thought "ooo I'll go and see if any nice men have been perving over me," only to discover that. surprisedops:
Jas
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Quote by Jas-Tim
confused is this an extra's thing or can we all view who's looked at our profile's dunno
edit: sorry,yes it is an extras thing redface lol
fil

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
I got all excited when I read the first post and thought "ooo I'll go and see if any nice men have been perving over me," only to discover that. surprisedops:
Jas
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Well actually Jas.....
You show as having six pics and I've only ever been able to see one :cry:
That one is exceptional tho' :twisted: :twisted:
Quote by the_Laird
confused is this an extra's thing or can we all view who's looked at our profile's dunno
edit: sorry,yes it is an extras thing redface lol
fil

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
I got all excited when I read the first post and thought "ooo I'll go and see if any nice men have been perving over me," only to discover that. surprisedops:
Jas
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Well actually Jas.....
You show as having six pics and I've only ever been able to see one :cry:
That one is exceptional tho' :twisted: :twisted:
You've never asked for an invite to the gallery ya numpty smackbottom :lol:
You have a pm :P
Jas
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Quote by Jas-Tim
confused is this an extra's thing or can we all view who's looked at our profile's dunno
edit: sorry,yes it is an extras thing redface lol
fil

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
I got all excited when I read the first post and thought "ooo I'll go and see if any nice men have been perving over me," only to discover that. surprisedops:
Jas
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Well actually Jas.....
You show as having six pics and I've only ever been able to see one :cry:
That one is exceptional tho' :twisted: :twisted:
You've never asked for an invite to the gallery ya numpty smackbottom :lol:
You have a pm :P
Jas
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now we sit back and wait for Jas to be bombarded with requests for an invitation
Me!! Me!! I want to see Jas!!
Oh hang on, I can now if thats ok Jas? wink
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Quote by Jas-Tim
You've never asked for an invite to the gallery ya numpty smackbottom lol
You have a pm :P
Jas
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I was always too scared :shock:
Happy now tho' :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Quote by Jas-Tim
You've never asked for an invite to the gallery ya numpty smackbottom lol

And how is one meant to do that?
Not that I'm interested innocent
Quote by the_Laird

You've never asked for an invite to the gallery ya numpty smackbottom lol
You have a pm :P
Jas
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I was always too scared :shock:
Happy now tho' :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Nooo you weren't really were you?
I'm getting worried now, I must have been spending too much time with Vix. :P :lol: :lol: :lol:
Jas
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Quote by LadyFeeBee
Ah, now that I know that I'll renew my profile pics slightly just for you kiss wink
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I just have a Fee fetish :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: Can you adapt your gallery for me please? :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
RSxx :color:
:twisted: :twisted:
How about I send you some private ones? wink
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Quote by LadyFeeBee
:twisted: :twisted:
How about I send you some private ones? wink
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Well if you insist cool :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Oh dear - I am in trouble now! Hello Mrs R :wink:
By the way - you trying to tell me something with that new av? Hey hey! lol
RSxx :color:
Well and I didn't know you had a tit-fetish....... hmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Similar av's then - hmmm wonder who that is then?
rolleyes
Quote by pebb_bambam
Well and I didn't know you had a tit-fetish....... hmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Similar av's then - hmmm wonder who that is then?
rolleyes

smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
See - I knew I'd be in trouble! wink
RSxx :color:
When we had the free month of the list, it was interesting to see who viewed us. Especially as we were new to the Forum lots of the regualr members had a look to check us out and a fair few singles males standard practice for all I am sure. Now I don't get the list and I don't mind who sees I'm looking at their profile.
I look at profiles because of something interesting (or annoying even rolleyes ) they've said on the Forum, or when I am browsing the ads. Quite often also to remind me who people are, what they're looking for etc. None of this means I am interested in taking it further, if i want to do that i will send a detailed and pleasant PM. lol
pink x
I think it's good. Firstly when you see that someone has viewed you it is interesting to see who it is and why they may have got in touch.
Secondly, If they havent got in touch with you after looking at your profile then surely that should tell you that they are not interested or that you are out of their area.
I think that people should respect peoples decission on this generally.
rolleyes
Don't see the list myself as I guess you have to be subscribed to the Extras for that, but really, I don't think it intrusive or creepy really.
Needs to be put into context rather than read too much into it.
As has been said, sometimes people look at someones profile out of curiosity plain and simple, sometimes simply because of something they've said in forum or on chat. Doesn't necessarily mean "you're" interested or otherwise ... though I would say I'd think it a bit odd if someone whose profile I'd looked at and not contacted should PM me because they're upset/offended and asking why I'd not contacted them etc etc.
Anyway, surely anyone who doesn't like their profiles being looked at, should just leave them blank?
... I know, mine's blank, but it's just because I've been too damn lazy to get off my arse to fill it in properly ... so go spank me! ...
Its an excellant feature wink
Plus only extra members can see whose been viewing them biggrin
The only problem for me is that, with the Chat Op status, no one realises I've been checking them out sad
I cant subtley check them out and register my interest that way confused
That said.....I can have a right good perve at their pics :twisted:
Quote by the_Laird
That said.....I can have a right good perve at their pics :twisted:

it may not say you have been looking.... but the sheep droppings are a give-away wink
In chat I've often clicked on a profile so see what the chatter looks like or to check an age or something, it certainly doesn't mean I'm interested in them for more than that, but then again occasionally it might....
Quote by Kiss
I'm not bothered if people know that I've looked at their adverts or profile, if I did I wouldn't look. lol
I just like the idea of looking at the list sometimes on my profile to see who's been 'viewing' me.

Well I thought I'd git on yer list.
Why've you got 13 photos listed and only two show up - you shy??
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Quote by the_Laird
The only problem for me is that, with the Chat Op status, no one realises I've been checking them out sad

Quote by the_Laird
That said.....I can have a right good perve at their pics :twisted:

Thank god they cant tell we have been looking at their profiles.... The amount I perve.... redface I mean look at because of OP matters means that I would look a right perve :giggle:
I think the function is quite good as it reminds me who I have given a bolloking to as they always view my profile after i bollok em for summat in the chatroom...
*just a shame they are the only ones to view it*
*and thats why its now blank before you start*
Quote by westerross
I'm not bothered if people know that I've looked at their adverts or profile, if I did I wouldn't look. lol
I just like the idea of looking at the list sometimes on my profile to see who's been 'viewing' me.

Well I thought I'd git on yer list.
Why've you got 13 photos listed and only two show up - you shy??
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Shy?
I don't think anyone would call me shy... more likely introverted. :lol:
Invite to private gallery on it's way!
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Quote by Rainbows
...So now I find out that you can see who has viewed you and it just made me wonder whether people find it useful or a little intrusive?

Whilst I still feel generally it means nothing when you see who has been nosey enough to look at your profile - in some situations, I am starting to realise it can be quite useful wink
Polo - care to explain, a little more, the situation you're finding it useful?
A list of the last 20 for EACH of your pictures and ads would also be interesting. It might be an interesting way of knowing which pics attract the kind of people you want to attract and those that don't...
Quote by 36openminded
Polo - care to explain, a little more, the situation you're finding it useful?

Just a little personal titillation on seeing who has been nosey just lately lol