We do not meet couples, but I would presume that for those that do, if a meal is had before hand, then the bill is shared!!!
So what is the protocol when meeting as a threesome? Do we split the bill three ways? What do you do?
Also what about the cost of a hotel room?
Love to know!
Mike
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I'd bring a calculator, I've never found division by three to be an easy task
My sister-in-law used to be able to do it ...... to the nearest 1/2 penny & if you had a more expensive starter, the 1/2p was hers!!!! so glad I don't need to see her anymore! :giggle:
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If we went for a meal with one other person then we would pay. if it was with a couple then we would still offer to pay. Depends on the individual I suppose
Sex God
I think that it is only fair to go 'dutch' or we would offer to pay. Of course the offer if accepted may bring on a raised eyebrow from us but no real hard feelings 
Our first good swing was in a hotel with a lovely single guy off SH. We met before hand and drank a few nervous coffee's before going off to do the do in the room. It was only after we left that I realised that we had payed for everything
but hey it was a great time had.
In fairness I do think that it should all be payed Dutch fashion (why is it called going Dutch that I wonder)OK a round of drinks yes I can see that but hotel meal drinks etc nah lets play fair. Unless ofcourse the other party/s are adamant about it bwefore hand.
I would say though that I would feel different if the extra/s we were seeing had a hotel r meal on company expenses then in that case pay away :D
Our first good swing was in a hotel with a lovely single guy off SH. We met before hand and drank a few nervous coffee's before going off to do the do in the room. It was only after we left that I realised that we had payed for everything
but hey it was a great time had.In fairness I do think that it should all be payed Dutch fashion (why is it called going Dutch that I wonder)OK a round of drinks yes I can see that but hotel meal drinks etc nah lets play fair. Unless ofcourse the other party/s are adamant about it bwefore hand.
I would say though that I would feel different if the extra/s we were seeing had a hotel r meal on company expenses then in that case pay away :D
Master of Sex
Quote by Lucyandmike7
Lucy here.
When I see a few notes left on the table (sometimes the bedside table) it makes me feel so like a prositute!!!!
And do you expect a tip as well?
Quote by Lost
I think that it is only fair to go 'dutch' or we would offer to pay. Of course the offer if accepted may bring on a raised eyebrow from us but no real hard feelings
Our first good swing was in a hotel with a lovely single guy off SH. We met before hand and drank a few nervous coffee's before going off to do the do in the room. It was only after we left that I realised that we had payed for everything
In fairness I do think that it should all be payed Dutch fashion (why is it called going Dutch that I wonder)OK a round of drinks yes I can see that but hotel meal drinks etc nah lets play fair. Unless ofcourse the other party/s are adamant about it bwefore hand.
I would say though that I would feel different if the extra/s we were seeing had a hotel r meal on company expenses then in that case pay away :D
Know what you mean Lost. My point is that a meal for three, and a hotel room, comes to between £100 and £200 when all the drinks are taken into account. That is one hell of an expense to pay.
Asking to meet with single guys means we get a lot of requests for meets, some are very persistant, but when it comes to the meet, are very slow to put their hand in their pocket.
I just feel that it is costing me a fortune to let other guys shag my wife!!!!!!!!
Mike
Quote by NLondonJohn
Lucy here.
When I see a few notes left on the table (sometimes the bedside table) it makes me feel so like a prositute!!!!
And do you expect a tip as well?
John.....a pocketful of your change is not enough!
Those Euros are worthless now!!!!
P.S Just clicked and viewed your ad....one hell of a face pic there!!! Beauty!!!
Quote by Lucyandmike7
I think that it is only fair to go 'dutch' or we would offer to pay. Of course the offer if accepted may bring on a raised eyebrow from us but no real hard feelings
Our first good swing was in a hotel with a lovely single guy off SH. We met before hand and drank a few nervous coffee's before going off to do the do in the room. It was only after we left that I realised that we had payed for everything
In fairness I do think that it should all be payed Dutch fashion (why is it called going Dutch that I wonder)OK a round of drinks yes I can see that but hotel meal drinks etc nah lets play fair. Unless ofcourse the other party/s are adamant about it bwefore hand.
I would say though that I would feel different if the extra/s we were seeing had a hotel r meal on company expenses then in that case pay away :D
Know what you mean Lost. My point is that a meal for three, and a hotel room, comes to between £100 and £200 when all the drinks are taken into account. That is one hell of an expense to pay.
Asking to meet with single guys means we get a lot of requests for meets, some are very persistant, but when it comes to the meet, are very slow to put their hand in their pocket.
I just feel that it is costing me a fortune to let other guys shag my wife!!!!!!!!
Mike
Then make it clear in your advert or profile that you are not a cash machine for single guys on SH.
You will be meeting in hotels and you expect that the single guy will contribute 33% (or 50% *delete as necessary) of the room bill up front and not left on the side, as that makes your wife feel like a prostitute.
There you go. Sorted :lol:
Dave_Notts
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I think that it is only fair to go 'dutch' or we would offer to pay. Of course the offer if accepted may bring on a raised eyebrow from us but no real hard feelings
Our first good swing was in a hotel with a lovely single guy off SH. We met before hand and drank a few nervous coffee's before going off to do the do in the room. It was only after we left that I realised that we had payed for everything
In fairness I do think that it should all be payed Dutch fashion (why is it called going Dutch that I wonder)OK a round of drinks yes I can see that but hotel meal drinks etc nah lets play fair. Unless ofcourse the other party/s are adamant about it bwefore hand.
I would say though that I would feel different if the extra/s we were seeing had a hotel r meal on company expenses then in that case pay away :D
Know what you mean Lost. My point is that a meal for three, and a hotel room, comes to between £100 and £200 when all the drinks are taken into account. That is one hell of an expense to pay.
Asking to meet with single guys means we get a lot of requests for meets, some are very persistant, but when it comes to the meet, are very slow to put their hand in their pocket.
I just feel that it is costing me a fortune to let other guys shag my wife!!!!!!!!
Mike
Then make it clear in your advert or profile that you are not a cash machine for single guys on SH.
You will be meeting in hotels and you expect that the single guy will contribute 33% (or 50% *delete as necessary) of the room bill up front and not left on the side, as that makes your wife feel like a prostitute.
There you go. Sorted :lol:
Dave_Notts
What advert Dave??? Do you mean that I have to advertise her services?? :!: :!: :D :lol:
Quote by hisandhers
If we went for a meal with one other person then we would pay. if it was with a couple then we would still offer to pay. Depends on the individual I suppose
Sounds good to me. When you taking me out?
Hope you guys are well. Not seen you 4 ages. Think it was a munch a year ago.
mike x
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Quote by Kojak
If we went for a meal with one other person then we would pay. if it was with a couple then we would still offer to pay. Depends on the individual I suppose
Sounds good to me. When you taking me out?
Hope you guys are well. Not seen you 4 ages. Think it was a munch a year ago.
mike x
your invited anytime hun :rascal:
Quote by kentswingers777
If a couple meets another couple, then I would say split the bill but....If a couple meets a single guy then he should pay.
The reason is he possibly will be getting a shag later. Surely that has to be worth the price of a meal?
I would agree with that to some extent, but a meal for three and a hotel room is a lot for one person to pay.
Also others have argued that we are also (well Lucy anyway)getting a shag!!!!!
Has anyone actualy been in this position or is it all theory????
MIke
Quote by Lucyandmike7
If a couple meets another couple, then I would say split the bill but....If a couple meets a single guy then he should pay.
The reason is he possibly will be getting a shag later. Surely that has to be worth the price of a meal?
I would agree with that to some extent, but a meal for three and a hotel room is a lot for one person to pay.
Also others have argued that we are also (well Lucy anyway)getting a shag!!!!!
Has anyone actualy been in this position or is it all theory????
MIke
Never been in a situation with 3 but 8 of us in a hotel room paid 8 shares. Like essex said. Not hard to do the maths
Dave_Notts
Quote by Lucyandmike7
And I am not sure he was joking!!!!!!!
Was I? I have never been in that situation yet.
For us a hotel would seem a bit seedy, and would not go for a meal, as we want a guy for a shag, not too discuss things over a meal. Sounds a tad hard, but a meal or a hotel would not be for us.
IF we did though decide to have a meal, Mrs 777 would not pay, so the bill would be shared between the two guys. A hotel room I would never pay for. As a couple we hold most of the cards, tough but true.
If the guy does not want to play by our rules, then we do not play...funnily enough we have never found a guy yet, who does not want to play by our rules.....funny that. :lol:
Quote by kentswingers777
And I am not sure he was joking!!!!!!!
Was I? I have never been in that situation yet.
For us a hotel would seem a bit seedy, and would not go for a meal, as we want a guy for a shag, not too discuss things over a meal. Sounds a tad hard, but a meal or a hotel would not be for us.
IF we did though decide to have a meal, Mrs 777 would not pay, so the bill would be shared between the two guys. A hotel room I would never pay for. As a couple we hold most of the cards, tough but true.
If the guy does not want to play by our rules, then we do not play...funnily enough we have never found a guy yet, who does not want to play by our rules.....funny that. :lol:
Then having people playing by your rules is a lucky result for you.
Mrs 777 may not be paying, so are you saying you are having her share of the shag, and will pass it on?
I am guessing that the mentality shown by yourself in what I have quoted is that you feel the single person should be grateful for being given the opportunity, and so as not to be too hard on him/her, you will graciously pay half.
You say , as a couple, you hold the cards, and yes, to a certain degree, that is true, but you are almost coming across as a pimp.
You say a hotel would seem a bit seedy, and that you wouldn't pay for one, so I expect that is one cost that would be expected of the single?
In one breath you say "we would not go for a meal" and then follow that with "if we did go for a meal"
I don't think you know what you want, other than getting the single to pay for an night out for you both, with Mrs 777 getting a shag thrown in.
For us it would depend on a number of things, a meal we'd expect the other couple or person to split equally between us.
A hotel room depends on more things, if we were travelling to meet and were intending to stay over then we would foot the cost of a room, if if was purely for the meet the we'd share the cost!
A hotel room depends on more things, if we were travelling to meet and were intending to stay over then we would foot the cost of a room, if if was purely for the meet the we'd share the cost!
Quote by kentswingers777
If the guy does not want to play by our rules, then we do not play...funnily enough we have never found a guy yet, who does not want to play by our rules.....funny that.
Hypothetically, if I was one of these single guys then I would tell you to shove the arrangement up your arse. Funny that.
Dave_Notts
I mentioned 33% and 50% earlier on.
This is because if we use a hotel room with 2 couples and the room costs £40 then it is £20 per couple or £10 per person. Now if we played with a single person the cost would be split between 3 so that would be £13:33 each or £26:66 for the couple. So it would cost the couple more to play with a single than with a couple in theory.
Is this right.......or should the couple be classed as one and the single be classed as one, hence splitting the bill 50/50.
Dave_Notts
I am starting to question my own opinion on this now
This is because if we use a hotel room with 2 couples and the room costs £40 then it is £20 per couple or £10 per person. Now if we played with a single person the cost would be split between 3 so that would be £13:33 each or £26:66 for the couple. So it would cost the couple more to play with a single than with a couple in theory.
Is this right.......or should the couple be classed as one and the single be classed as one, hence splitting the bill 50/50.
Dave_Notts
I am starting to question my own opinion on this now
