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Am getting quite a few pm's from bi blokes even though i'm only interested in straight couples and straight / bi fems. Do I need to emphasise this in ads & profile as I don't want to waste anyone's time?
Yes, I think it's worth repeating it in your profile message.
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It's already in the ads and my profile says what I'm looking for. I didn't think I needed to labour the point any more!
Just seen the edit CT. lol
lol
I was just going to write, "C.T. - I like that, wasn't there a character in TopCat called C.T?"
And then I remembered it was TopCat himself, and it wasn't C.T, it was T.C...

I'll sidle off gracefully
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I guess that makes me Benny The Ball(s) lol
:giggle:
I'm not looking to meet couples but I still get mail from them, half of me takes it as a compliment that they'd be interested and half of me thinks why can't they read? - it depends what mood I'm in. Don't take it to heart to much, lots of people don't actually look further than the photo.
H.x
Quote by Northernheight5
Am getting quite a few pm's from bi blokes even though i'm only interested in straight couples and straight / bi fems. Do I need to emphasise this in ads & profile as I don't want to waste anyone's time?

If you put it in 10ft high burning letters you'll still get messages from them!
Apparently "no" means "maybe"..!
Quote by Dark_side72
Am getting quite a few pm's from bi blokes even though i'm only interested in straight couples and straight / bi fems. Do I need to emphasise this in ads & profile as I don't want to waste anyone's time?

If you put it in 10ft high burning letters you'll still get messages from them!
Apparently "no" means "maybe"..!
Yeah but wouldn't that look so cool! biggrin
Alot of people are retards and dont even read whats written on the profile or in the ad so it doesnt matter, just ignore them or reply with abuse if you're really bored.
(with a resigned chuckle) – I have the same problem – I’ve certainly had more invitations from bi guys than from women, especially in chatroom whispers!
…….. half of me takes it as a compliment that they'd be interested and half of me thinks why can't they read? - H.x
I agree H-x, but I do get a little confused when I get attention from a guy with “straight” on his profile !!!
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Alot of people are retards and dont even read whats written on the profile or in the ad so it doesnt matter, just ignore them or reply with abuse if you're really bored.

Sorry fella but thats got to be wrong neutral Though I might appreciate where your coming from, I believe the ignore option is the best one. How long does it take not to look at something biggrin confused: If you reply with abuse then thats just escalating a problem which may backfire.
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Alot of people are retards and dont even read whats written on the profile or in the ad so it doesnt matter, just ignore them or reply with abuse if you're really bored.

:shock: :shock: How about the easy opinion as with any pest just ignore them?
I suggest if you get bored switch off your pc and do something less boring instead! wink
Quote by Northernheight5
Am getting quite a few pm's from bi blokes even though i'm only interested in straight couples and straight / bi fems. Do I need to emphasise this in ads & profile as I don't want to waste anyone's time?

I'm always curious about this, and maybe I am naive but as a bi bloke myself why is this an issue with some women? I accept that everyone has choice on their side, always, but on the outside mostly we look just the same as a straight guy. And in my personal experience I have never had any problem from a straight guy whilst shagging his partner - and one or two have even become curious when we get started.
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Am getting quite a few pm's from bi blokes even though i'm only interested in straight couples and straight / bi fems. Do I need to emphasise this in ads & profile as I don't want to waste anyone's time?

I'm always curious about this, and maybe I am naive but as a bi bloke myself why is this an issue with some women? I accept that everyone has choice on their side, always, but on the outside mostly we look just the same as a straight guy. And in my personal experience I have never had any problem from a straight guy whilst shagging his partner - and one or two have even become curious when we get started.
We never quite get that either, odd ain't it.
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I agree H-x, but I do get a little confused when I get attention from a guy with “straight” on his profile !!!

I saw one guy with 'straight' on his profile the other day had checked the 'gay male couple' in who are you looking for. Made me giggle.
Quote by samj6484
I'm always curious about this, and maybe I am naive but as a bi bloke myself why is this an issue with some women? I accept that everyone has choice on their side, always, but on the outside mostly we look just the same as a straight guy. And in my personal experience I have never had any problem from a straight guy whilst shagging his partner - and one or two have even become curious when we get started.

The OP is a guy.
H.x
They obviously didn't read your name properly.
H.x
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They obviously didn't read your name properly.
H.x

Maybe I should highlight the sarcastic part
oh well lol
Maybe you should change it to 'Ironic Eros'?
Or 'Ignore me, I'm just taking the piss but by the way d'you fancy a drink'?
Maybe not biggrin
H.x
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Maybe you should change it to 'Ironic Eros'?
Or 'Ignore me, I'm just taking the piss but by the way d'you fancy a drink'?
Maybe not biggrin
H.x

My dad is called Eross but with 2 s's cause he likes to be special so I cant use that name lol
Dont give me false hopes, ive been dying for a shandy all day.