why??

9 Nov 2004

hiya all
can any one tell me where we are goin wrong? we have an add on here (134403) but all we seem to be gettin back of this is DICKS!! mad

we are not askin for much just some one that is a really WOMEN not a man sayin he is!
can any one in here help by tell me how to stop this!!!!
thanks
claire n david
kiss

9 Nov 2004

maybe it's cos there are so many people looking for single bi fems on here

9 Nov 2004

Bloody hell tell me about it!
Mr KL

9 Nov 2004

okay..... first of all i hope that swinging heaven is treating you well...
can i answer the question it in two parts..
if you are getting replies from blokes then that is not your fault, we all get it... trust me, so blokes take a flyer...
now back to your ad.... the best way of looking at it is like this...... where single men have to impress couples and make it stand out because there are lots of them... the same thing applies to couples after single women....
you give people the basics but i don't think you really sell yourself well..... what do you have to offer... why should they pick you... what makes you different for every other couple wanting a single woman ect.........
hope that helps....
sean xxxxxxx

9 Nov 2004

Hi,
Following on from Fabio, maybe you should remove the note about 'plenty of pics'. I think a lot of the pic collectors will drool at that. Maybe try, further pics available after we chat on the phone, or similar.
I would also suggest phone as a way of being sure people are who they say they are, just don't put your phone number in your add or anything!! Narrow down with a few PM's then ring them with your number withheld.
Also you may want to follow the others on the site's examples, setting out in a few simple lines what you do and dont want, with anyone not meeting these requirements will be deleted and ignored written underneath. Won't stop all the idiots, but will maybe slow them down, and at least you can happily then just delete them as they already been warned.
Finally hide your email address, so only registered users can mail you. At the moment you have it in the open, still wont stop all idiots, but if someone offensive at least you can complain as you know they will be a member of the site.
Just some ideas smile

TnH

9 Nov 2004

hiya all
thanks for all the tips! goin to change the info on our add!
thanks
claire n david
kiss