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Why A Munch is Called a Munch

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Im a bit of a newbie to all this, but what really does make me laugh is why the word for a social meet "munch" is it just me that thinks this sounds a bit cheesy. Also can anyone tell me why its called a munch.
Thx
Quote by Ch33k3y monk3h
Im a bit of a newbie to all this, but what really does make me laugh is why the word for a social meet "munch" is it just me that thinks this sounds a bit cheesy. Also can anyone tell me why its called a munch.
Thx

Read this
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/munch.html
PS - it's on the left under Terminology.
:P
Quote by Jags
Im a bit of a newbie to all this, but what really does make me laugh is why the word for a social meet "munch" is it just me that thinks this sounds a bit cheesy. Also can anyone tell me why its called a munch.
Thx

Read this
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/munch.html
PS - it's on the left under Terminology.
:P
I know what one is I was just wondering where the name came from thats all, it doesnt seem to be in the terminology.
Same reason 'lunch' is called 'lunch' or 'motor car' is called 'motor car'.
:P
I do believe the word "munch" in relation to vanilla meets of the type popular now on SH orginated on the S/M scene where people arrange day time vanilla meets, drinks etc to introduce new or curious people into the scene. The word "munch" is a cross between "meet " and "lunch".
That might not be true, but it might be.... who knows smile
Quote by Jags
Same reason 'lunch' is called 'lunch' or 'motor car' is called 'motor car'.
:P

I guess that clears everything up biggrin
Quote by bluexxx
I do believe the word "munch" in relation to vanilla meets of the type popular now on SH orginated on the S/M scene where people arrange day time vanilla meets, drinks etc to introduce new or curious people into the scene. The word "munch" is a cross between "meet " and "lunch".
That might not be true, but it might be.... who knows smile

Sounds about right to me will have to get myself down to one soon
Quote by Jags
Same reason 'lunch' is called 'lunch' or 'motor car' is called 'motor car'.
:P

So why is that ? wink
Quote by longhandle8
Same reason 'lunch' is called 'lunch' or 'motor car' is called 'motor car'.
:P

So why is that ? wink
I can understand why 'bottom' is named but who thought of 'window'?? And why do the words 'inflammable' and 'flammable' mean the same thing?
confused :? :?
My understanding, and I'm quite prepared to be corrected by the BDSMers, is that the Munch term came about because the meetings traditionally happened in Restaurants and coffee shops. So people were quite literally "munching" on burgers and stuff.
The idea being that they are quiter places to meet where folk can chat without being in a noisy club or play environment.
CQ
Quote by bluexxx
I do believe the word "munch" in relation to vanilla meets of the type popular now on SH orginated on the S/M scene where people arrange day time vanilla meets, drinks etc to introduce new or curious people into the scene. The word "munch" is a cross between "meet " and "lunch".
That might not be true, but it might be.... who knows smile

Aha the oracle's got it - so munching's not obligatory then, phew - now we can all sleep tonight wink
Quote by Jags
I can understand why 'bottom' is named but who thought of 'window'??
confused :? :?

I know this one. It comes from wind eye - originally a small hole in a wall (where wind came through as there was not glass in them days!!
CQ
I know what gormless means but is it literally lack of gorm and if so, what is gorm? Where can i get some gorm from?
Quote by Jags
Same reason 'lunch' is called 'lunch' or 'motor car' is called 'motor car'.
:P

So why is that ? wink
I can understand why 'bottom' is named but who thought of 'window'?? And why do the words 'inflammable' and 'flammable' mean the same thing?
confused :? :?
Hmmmmmm bottom + window = mooning doesn't it :wink:, so where did that one come from :twisted:
It comes from BDSM scene terminology, and started when a local BDSM group in Palo Alto, California decided to hold get-togethers at a burger restaurant - see the full story at:

Mike.
Quote by MikeNorth
It comes from BDSM scene terminology, and started when a local BDSM group in Palo Alto, California decided to hold get-togethers at a burger restaurant - see the full story at:

Mike.

so burgers all round at next munch then lol
Just need a captain birdseye wink
I knew you would know MN. I knew I had read that somewhere but could not find the bloody link.
I also think that BDSMers just love using jargon - they can't resist using terminology that vanilla's will not understand.
Quote by celticq
I knew you would know MN. I knew I had read that somewhere but could not find the bloody link.
I also think that BDSMers just love using jargon - they can't resist using terminology that vanilla's will not understand.

Heehee, CQ, I couldn't find the link in here either, but I did some googling. lol
and there was me thinking the Black Darlek heard it somewhere and liked the sound smile
Quote by Marya
People! I still don't have any gorm!!!

even though i have read your original entry...
can I say ....
That makes you Gormless.... rolleyes
TUT!
That's the point, eejit! What is this gorm stuff and where do I get it?
Quote by Marya
People! I still don't have any gorm!!!

Marya... I found your Gorm!
Quote by Marya
People! I still don't have any gorm!!!

Go to Scotland, where you will find the Cairngorms. On the top of each of the Cairngorms you will find a cairn (a pile of rocks), & under each cairn there is a huge pile of gorm. Take a big bag to put some in. lol
Gorm is available from all good "Negative only Retailers" along with ample supplies of Feck, Hap and Ruth.
fine, but what's vanilla?
a) people who are outside of the whole circle, or novices
eg
Quote by celticq
BDSMers just love using jargon - they can't resist using terminology that vanilla's will not understand.

or
b) meets where there is no sex, just socialness
eg
Quote by the origins of munch website
...for the vanilla type socials people in the scene attend...

and
Quote by bluexxx
I do believe the word "munch" in relation to vanilla meets of the type popular now
Quote by celticq
Gorm is available from all good "Negative only Retailers" along with ample supplies of Feck, Hap and Ruth.

They had a 3 for 2 on Gorm, Feck and Hap at my local but I decided to pass on Ruth! wink
Quote by tomu
fine, but what's vanilla?

We had this thread a little while ago about the meaning of "vanilla":
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/45572.html
I seem to be lacking in the Gorm Department !! confused :? :? :?