Why are you here

30 Jul 2006

Quote by angleseyfella
Welcome to :swingingchair: heaven angleseyfella :welcome:
Looks like you are enjoying it here already :giggle: I hope you find what you are looking for and enjoy yourself :happy:
Why am I here? well to be made fun at and poked at or maybe thats just what I like sexually

Cheers Andy
Was just pervin ...err i mean looking at your profile
How do you get all the different categories for who and what your looking for ??
cheers Rob lol

Perv away :P
As all web pages are basincly created in HTML or XHTML to display the page, I used a heading tag for each section, so for example:
<h1>About Me</h1>You can use h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6
Alternatively you could do something like this<span style="background-color: red; color: white;">About Me</span>
That would display About Me in white on a red background.
Hope that helps smile

30 Jul 2006

Quote by AndyNudeUK
Welcome to :swingingchair: heaven angleseyfella :welcome:
Looks like you are enjoying it here already :giggle: I hope you find what you are looking for and enjoy yourself :happy:
Why am I here? well to be made fun at and poked at or maybe thats just what I like sexually

Cheers Andy
Was just pervin ...err i mean looking at your profile
How do you get all the different categories for who and what your looking for ??
cheers Rob lol

Perv away :P
As all web pages are basincly created in HTML or XHTML to display the page, I used a heading tag for each section, so for example:
<h1>About Me</h1>You can use h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6
Alternatively you could do something like this<span style="background-color: red; color: white;">About Me</span>
That would display About Me in white on a red background.
Hope that helps smile

Big thanks for that cheers :thumbup:
Its way over my head i,m not that pc teckie
But at least youve tried to help so again thanks I generaly get ignored around here coz of my age i get quotes like "bugga i,m old enough to be your mother" seems to be double standards in this place some ppl say ur to old some say ur to young and you lot are supose to be the grown ups ....for me if i find an attraction i go for it ..its ur body thats old not YOU
Ive looked at loads of profiles and found some realy nice ..attractive..interesting...to say the least ppl but not acording to the general view in my AGE group so mabey i should just put up an under 25 chatroom and just ignore the cafe coz i sure aint getting anywhere
Girls where i live are pretty str8 most only shag when there pished and then its just messy ..just looking for a bit of quality and i know it has to be with an older woman ...if your out there i can be very discreet ..mums the word wink

.. im looking for adventure but im not afraid to care
Rob
Im noty feeling sad well ok a bit but its so so hard to get a start round here
I supose at the end of the day i just need a little help ..if theres an older woman that has the time to spare i would thank you for it any way you choose :smitten:

30 Jul 2006

Quote by angleseyfella
Welcome to :swingingchair: heaven angleseyfella :welcome:
Looks like you are enjoying it here already :giggle: I hope you find what you are looking for and enjoy yourself :happy:
Why am I here? well to be made fun at and poked at or maybe thats just what I like sexually

Cheers Andy
Was just pervin ...err i mean looking at your profile
How do you get all the different categories for who and what your looking for ??
cheers Rob lol

Perv away :P
As all web pages are basincly created in HTML or XHTML to display the page, I used a heading tag for each section, so for example:
<h1>About Me</h1>You can use h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6
Alternatively you could do something like this<span style="background-color: red; color: white;">About Me</span>
That would display About Me in white on a red background.
Hope that helps smile

Big thanks for that cheers :thumbup:
Its way over my head i,m not that pc teckie
But at least youve tried to help so again thanks I generaly get ignored around here coz of my age i get quotes like "bugga i,m old enough to be your mother" seems to be double standards in this place some ppl say ur to old some say ur to young and you lot are supose to be the grown ups ....for me if i find an attraction i go for it ..its ur body thats old not YOU
Ive looked at loads of profiles and found some realy nice ..attractive..interesting...to say the least ppl but not acording to the general view in my AGE group so mabey i should just put up an under 25 chatroom and just ignore the cafe coz i sure aint getting anywhere
Girls where i live are pretty str8 most only shag when there pished and then its just messy ..just looking for a bit of quality and i know it has to be with an older woman ...if your out there i can be very discreet ..mums the word wink

.. im looking for adventure but im not afraid to care
Rob
Im noty feeling sad well ok a bit but its so so hard to get a start round here
I supose at the end of the day i just need a little help ..if theres an older woman that has the time to spare i would thank you for it any way you choose :smitten:Sorry for getting all techie, I have a habbit of doing that sometime innocent

Like anything it is hard to get started with something but the important thing is to sit back and enjoy yourself, get to know people, talk to them in the forums and chatroom, have a profile and add(s) that will interest people you are looking for. Then sit back and wait. I would say nothing will happen straight away and could take some time smile

31 Jul 2006

Quote by AndyNudeUK
Welcome to :swingingchair: heaven angleseyfella :welcome:
Looks like you are enjoying it here already :giggle: I hope you find what you are looking for and enjoy yourself :happy:
Why am I here? well to be made fun at and poked at or maybe thats just what I like sexually

But at least youve tried to help so again thanks I generaly get ignored around here coz of my age i get quotes like "bugga i,m old enough to be your mother" seems to be double standards in this place some ppl say ur to old some say ur to young and you lot are supose to be the grown ups ....for me if i find an attraction i go for it ..its ur body thats old not YOU
Ive looked at loads of profiles and found some realy nice ..attractive..interesting...to say the least ppl but not acording to the general view in my AGE group so mabey i should just put up an under 25 chatroom and just ignore the cafe coz i sure aint getting anywhere
Rob i gotta tell you, you were doing really well til the frustration started showing lol

I would have said carry on as you are, because you certainly dont come across as being 'only 18' , just drop the continual emphasis on your age, cos its you who's bringing attention to it, not us - but then you posted the above and i'm retracting my comment lol

while i'm at it, i may as well say its not 'double standards' confused

its individual differences and preferences & you might need to get used to that concept wink

Like anything it is hard to get started with something but the important thing is to sit back and enjoy yourself, get to know people, talk to them in the forums and chatroom, have a profile and add(s) that will interest people you are looking for. Then sit back and wait. I would say nothing will happen straight away and could take some time

have you been here before under a different name Andy? or are you just very familiar with internet forums? lol

that's spot on :thumbup:

31 Jul 2006

Quote by angleseyfella
...mabey i should just put up an under 25 chatroom and just ignore the cafe coz i sure aint getting anywhere

I would say you are almost right there... if you use a different chatroom name (you'll only get the old pervy guys coming in to letch at young girlies if you call it under 25's).
But you are spot on about the cafe being a crap place to pull wink

31 Jul 2006

Quote by PoloLady
But you are spot on about the cafe being a crap place to pull

Don't I know it PL. I've been trying to get into YOUR pants for months rolleyes

Hi North Wales type person wave

from a rather elderly South Wales type person. Judging by your posts so far you'll fit in a treat around here :silly:

31 Jul 2006

Quote by Darkfire
Like anything it is hard to get started with something but the important thing is to sit back and enjoy yourself, get to know people, talk to them in the forums and chatroom, have a profile and add(s) that will interest people you are looking for. Then sit back and wait. I would say nothing will happen straight away and could take some time

have you been here before under a different name Andy? or are you just very familiar with internet forums? lol

that's spot on :thumbup:Hi Darkfire,
Never been here before although I wish I had - better late than never though biggrin

I am very familiar with internet forums (have even setup forums myslef before) and listening to advice I have been given as I am new to swinging. Having said that though, it's just common sense, no one wants someone who is pushy and/or looks desperate :doh: smile

31 Jul 2006

Why am I here?
I like the nonjudgemental atmosphere on the forum, you don't have to skirt round issues that you can't always talk to your vanilla friends about. Plus trying to meet people in the vanilla world who wont try to move in and take over your life isn't as easy as it might seem. At least if you meet on a swinging site they'll (hopefully) respect the fact that you don't wont to instantly settle down and live an eternally monogamous existance.
Welcome to the forum by the way, judging by your replies so far I think you'll fit in just fine.
H.x

31 Jul 2006

Hi Angleseyfella - I'm new here too so this post seemed as good as any to say hello........ Anyway don't wish to hijack your thread so I'll answer the question....why am I here? Well, I'm lucky enough to have found a soulmate that appreciates and shares my deviant ways, cool

and then we were lucky enough to find this site after lots of browsing!
Why am I here on the forum? Well, having been on here a few weeks and finding the chatrooms rather too intense at times, thought I'd come on over here and see what it's all about, erm...so hello everyone else...!
Re: your age - it will only become a stumbling block if you let it. I expect the, 'I'm old enough to be your mother' expressions you've experienced come from the fact that in my limited experience there aren't too many people on the scene under about 25. I don't really know why, perhaps its a self-confidence issue, perhaps the majority of 18 year olds are having exciting enough lives without all this, who knows? I for one would never have had the guts (or inclination probably) to try this at age 18, but that's just my humble opinion. Personally I've found the vast majority of people to be incredibly welcoming and accepting of age, build, height, colour etc....so enjoy.
Pink
x
PS: Yes I'm old enough to be your mother (just) biggrin

31 Jul 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren

But you are spot on about the cafe being a crap place to pull

Don't I know it PL. I've been trying to get into YOUR pants for months rolleyes

You can't have been trying very hard - they usually fall off at the first chance lol

31 Jul 2006

Why are you here?
Mainly to perv at all the sexy pictures and also ecause no where else will have me :cry:
oohh and to meet the woman of my dreams but I've sorted that one already :inlove:

31 Jul 2006

Quote by sheddy
Why are you here?
Mainly to perv at all the sexy pictures and also ecause no where else will have me :cry:
oohh and to meet the woman of my dreams but I've sorted that one already :inlove:

:laughabove:
:therethere:
I'm sure there are lots of folk willing to have you round Sheddy!
smile

31 Jul 2006

Quote by pink_lady
Hi Angleseyfella - I'm new here too so this post seemed as good as any to say hello........ Anyway don't wish to hijack your thread so I'll answer the question....why am I here? Well, I'm lucky enough to have found a soulmate that appreciates and shares my deviant ways, and then we were lucky enough to find this site after lots of browsing!
Why am I here on the forum? Well, having been on here a few weeks and finding the chatrooms rather too intense at times, thought I'd come on over here and see what it's all about, erm...so hello everyone else...!
Re: your age - it will only become a stumbling block if you let it. I expect the, 'I'm old enough to be your mother' expressions you've experienced come from the fact that in my limited experience there aren't too many people on the scene under about 25. I don't really know why, perhaps its a self-confidence issue, perhaps the majority of 18 year olds are having exciting enough lives without all this, who knows? I for one would never have had the guts (or inclination probably) to try this at age 18, but that's just my humble opinion. Personally I've found the vast majority of people to be incredibly welcoming and accepting of age, build, height, colour etc....so enjoy.
Pink
x
PS: Yes I'm old enough to be your mother (just)

Thanks for the reply but with an age gap of 12 years i hardly going to think of you as motherly all tho if you want me to sit on your knee and suck your tits thats fine by me biggrin

Thanks for the advice its appreciated and that goes to every one
This place rocks..some real stars here ..but i wont name names and embarrass you all
but you know who you all are
Rob x

31 Jul 2006

Quote by PoloLady

But you are spot on about the cafe being a crap place to pull

Don't I know it PL. I've been trying to get into YOUR pants for months rolleyes

You can't have been trying very hard - they usually fall off at the first chance lol

I'm on my way bolt

:rascal:

31 Jul 2006

Quote by Scandal
This place rocks..some real stars here ..but i wont name names and embarrass you all
but you know who you all are
Rob x

It's ok, I don't mind being named lol

Well i do my best lol

31 Jul 2006

Posative finkin biggrin

1 Aug 2006

Thanks for the reply but with an age gap of 12 years i hardly going to think of you as motherly all tho if you want me to sit on your knee and suck your tits thats fine by me

You obviously haven't been round my way Anglesey....12 yrs seems old enough to be a mother! rolleyes

1 Aug 2006

I've been thinking about this one for a while and trying to work out why I am here!
I think I first joined, like many men, for the chance of a quick leg over. But the longer I've stayed the more this has changed. I think now it has become a forum for me to be me, which is strange given that we hide behind avatars and user names. In real life I think we all spend a lot of time living up to a self image that we have constructed over many years, here we create ourselves a fresh.
I suffer from depression and this leads to bouts of endless introspection, which honestly can drive you mad. Only my close friends know this and they make allowances when I suddenly disappear off to be alone. Why do I mention this? Well here it seems I can announce it to the world (well this little world) without feelingly too embarrassed about what people think of me. The more time I spend here the more I open up, this is better than the destructive introspection.
So I think I maybe here for therapy.
(and a leg over!!!! biggrin

)

1 Aug 2006

Quote by Scandal
This place rocks..some real stars here ..but i wont name names and embarrass you all
but you know who you all are
Rob x

It's ok, I don't mind being named lol

It is true - we are not shy lol

1 Aug 2006

Been giving the question of why are you here as much thought as I do to most things, taking into account lifestyle, home life, personal, social, want and needs and the fact that I'm blonde and thinking isn't really mt thing. And I came up with the conclusion of .....
dunno

1 Aug 2006

Quote by PoloLady

But you are spot on about the cafe being a crap place to pull

Don't I know it PL. I've been trying to get into YOUR pants for months rolleyes

You can't have been trying very hard - they usually fall off at the first chance lol

Can i be there for the opening
(ok who whispered legs in my ear)

1 Aug 2006

Quote by PoloLady
This place rocks..some real stars here ..but i wont name names and embarrass you all
but you know who you all are
Rob x

It's ok, I don't mind being named lol

It is true - we are not shy lol

To be honest with you the nicest friendliest warmest most honest guy ive come across on this site (given the posts ive read) is goose of course unless you know somethink i dont ?

2 Aug 2006

You got that right hunni :thumbup: Goose is a sweety kiss

2 Aug 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
You got that right hunni :thumbup: Goose is a sweety

Agreed Sassy and Anglesey! Goose is a genuine decent guy and always the first to be there with support.

3 Aug 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
You got that right hunni :thumbup: Goose is a sweety

Was thinking of going into the forum chatroom last night but got all shy at the last moment
Do all you from the forum know each other have you all met ?
I feel quite safe in the forum but the chat rooms another story
Ive been in lots of chatrooms with people my own age but this one scares me a little
Any advice
Rob

3 Aug 2006

Quote by angleseyfella
You got that right hunni :thumbup: Goose is a sweety

Was thinking of going into the forum chatroom last night but got all shy at the last moment
Do all you from the forum know each other have you all met ?
I feel quite safe in the forum but the chat rooms another story
Ive been in lots of chatrooms with people my own age but this one scares me a little
Any advice
Rob
To be honest i struggle in the chat rooms and heres a thread i prepared earlier
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81294.html
Have a look at that for the whys and wherefors.
But forum chat is no problem.
And thanks all you made me go redface

3 Aug 2006

Quote by angleseyfella
You got that right hunni :thumbup: Goose is a sweety

Was thinking of going into the forum chatroom last night but got all shy at the last moment
Do all you from the forum know each other have you all met ?
I feel quite safe in the forum but the chat rooms another story
Ive been in lots of chatrooms with people my own age but this one scares me a little
Any advice
Rob
i frequent the forum chatroom rob and most people from the forum or chat i havent actually met yet, which i am working on changing, we are a friendly bunch hun and there is no need to worry,
we wont strip you naked and use the nipple clamps on you for at least the first couple of times.
Earthy xx wink

3 Aug 2006

Quote by angleseyfella
You got that right hunni :thumbup: Goose is a sweety

Was thinking of going into the forum chatroom last night but got all shy at the last moment
Do all you from the forum know each other have you all met ?
Rob
I've met a few people on here and they're not as scary as they make out to be :dry: Well maybe Minxy after a couple of bottles of wine :scared:
still sexy though hunni :twisted:

3 Aug 2006

Quote by earthchild
we wont strip you naked and use the nipple clamps on you for at least the first couple of times.
Earthy xx

So exactly how long DO I have to be here for that??? Geezzzzz ..... I am waiting !!!!!!!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

3 Aug 2006

Everybodys got to be somewhere