Took this clip from one profile, but there are many more. I'm a size 22, 38J chest, look like a coke bottle.....I also have the belly to go with the boobs, so boys if you don't like big and bouncy you WON'T like me.
Why can't people just come out with it. "Fat" is the actual word. Or obese if you're sensitive. Why do people always dress over the fact that they are overweight, by glorifying being unhealthy.
Big, Cuddly, a few extra pounds, bouncy? Come on, what do those words really mean. You figure it out.
Each to their own Charlie
Some people including me prefer the fuller figure and the word fat can seem quite derogatory to be honest. cuddly etc is a description we can all understand and everyoe has their own views on beauty desireability etc,
Took this clip from one profile, "I haven't been withing 10 feet of a woman in 3yrs."
And now I know why.
And fat isn't the only word - try
abdominous, paunchy, potbellied, blubbery, chubby, plump, buxom, zaftig, zoftig, corpulent, obese, weighty, rotund, double-chinned, dumpy, podgy, pudgy, tubby, roly-poly, fattish, fleshy, heavy, overweight, porcine, portly, stout, curvacious, Reubenesque (my favourite). A mixture of negative and positive words and of course we are going to use positive words on our profiles.
I think you will find that the words people use on their profile are their business, not yours. If you don't like the ones they choose, you have one choice - walk away.
I shall mull over your sentiment whilst I gorge on comfort food.
I have to be honest and say when I look at a profile if the female is not what I am looking for physically then I dont get past the photos. If someone is likely to be describing themselves politely as not what I am looking for then I wont be getting as far as the profile text. For me physical attraction is a must when dealing in photo ads mainly cus they have are large part of what you have to go by.
Actually if the advertiser is saying 'I am like this and you won't like me if that's not your thing', then that seems to me to be quite realistic, and knowing.
So take the woman's advice.
should all ways look befor u leap....
n think befor u write....
The lady in question used a selection of synonyms and a delighful simile to honestly describe her shape and size ... she communicated this effectively to you and you understood the message. So what's the problem? Whether she said fat, cuddly or obese, you still understood she wasn't slim. From that, you could then decide whether she was your type or not.
And I don't see how she was 'glorifying being unhealthy' ... correct me if I'm wrong but I was under the impression this was a swinger's site - not a health and fitness one. People only need to describe how they look and a bit about their personality - not what their blood pressure or resting heart rate is! People on here are, generally, looking for sexual encounters - not someone to go jogging with!
What a sad, flat, bland world it would be if we only ever communicated in literal terms just to suit those who lack the imagination to appreciate our colourful vocabulary.
I like big butts and I cannot lie.