Ok, I don't like to moan but.
I answered an ad on another site - I am a married man looking for some fun with a couple.
Actually got a reply and phoned as requested. Spoke to the male partner and he said that they had not done this before but would like to meet for a coffee and see how things went.
i explained that i had had one long tem threesome and was looking for something similar.
All pretty clear so far?
When i arrived at the place appointed i got a phone call fom the guy saying that his wife had got there before him and was waiting in the car. He told me which one and said don't approach her but just have a look.
There she is sitting in a nice coat, legs apart flashing her stockings. The guy says he will be late but if i like the look of her to follow to where she is going and he will meet us there.
OK i know i am naieve but i though we where going to their place.
WRONG !
We end up at a lay-by by the side of a busy road. His car turns up and we walk over to hers. She is now playing with herself and getting very turned on.
OK says i, i like what i see but i thought this was going to be at your place not here (the side of a very busy main road and not even secluded) With this matey boy starts geting arsey, saying how i am wasting their time and the deal is fuck her here or fuck off.
So i fucked off.
Point is if he had been upfront straightaway i would have said no on the phone. I know a lot of people get a lot of fun dogging, but not me. Also they were obviously not doing this for the first time. They had mobiles on with headsets and where in contact continuously with his car parked so he could see what was happening.
I spent 2 hours on a round trip to meet them and all that i got was an eyeful of his wife and a load of grief. Now i am getting abusive e-mails from him too.
What i was looking for was a long term threesome.
This was my first contact for ages, you all know how us married guys struggle to make contacts, now i don't think i'll bother again.
So the question is - Why the deception? All it did was waste my time and theirs and has really put me off answering any more ads.
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Why Decieve
Awwww VFR Rider :therethere:
When you replied to their ad, were you specific? Be very clear to them about what you are looking for. Ask them questions about what they're after along with giving your criteria. Make sure you get answers to any questions you may have to reduce the chances of this happening again.
Maybe instead of arranging a swinging meet straight away, arrange just to meet up for a drink. Get to know eachother a bit. As you are after a more long term arrangement, this should suit the other couple too. If not, then they're probably not into what you are looking for.
Unfortunately there are the odd couple that thinks they are doing the world a huge favour and everyone should be grateful. They think that the single guy should just take what is offered and be thankful they were 'chosen', that they don't have the right to have their own criteria ...... The good part is that they are very much in the minority, you were just unlucky.
As for the abusive emails - if you can forward them onto us, we can take a look and deal with it appropriately. Whether it's just to make a log in their account, or if it's a recurring thing, to ban them from the site.
So pick yourself up, dust yourself down and get back out there :twisted:
Good luck
When you replied to their ad, were you specific? Be very clear to them about what you are looking for. Ask them questions about what they're after along with giving your criteria. Make sure you get answers to any questions you may have to reduce the chances of this happening again.
Maybe instead of arranging a swinging meet straight away, arrange just to meet up for a drink. Get to know eachother a bit. As you are after a more long term arrangement, this should suit the other couple too. If not, then they're probably not into what you are looking for.
Unfortunately there are the odd couple that thinks they are doing the world a huge favour and everyone should be grateful. They think that the single guy should just take what is offered and be thankful they were 'chosen', that they don't have the right to have their own criteria ...... The good part is that they are very much in the minority, you were just unlucky.
As for the abusive emails - if you can forward them onto us, we can take a look and deal with it appropriately. Whether it's just to make a log in their account, or if it's a recurring thing, to ban them from the site.
So pick yourself up, dust yourself down and get back out there :twisted:
Good luck
Chill out matey. *hugs* It happens. There are wasters in all walks of like, eh?
Pick yerself up and post on this thread, instead.
Pick yerself up and post on this thread, instead.
Thanks Both of you,
I did think i'd been pretty specific, but obviously not. I really was expecting to meet for a coffee and a chat, but still i'll put it down to one of lifes experiences.
As to the abusive e-mails, thankfully they have stopped. I didn't reply so i guess he got bored and moved on. This couple where advertising on another site and i have already dealt with that side with their moderator.
Yes i will try again, and Vix thanks for the very polite decline when i answered your ad -sob!
Will shortly be changing my name to Billy No Mates LOL
Hope to meet some of you soon
I did think i'd been pretty specific, but obviously not. I really was expecting to meet for a coffee and a chat, but still i'll put it down to one of lifes experiences.
As to the abusive e-mails, thankfully they have stopped. I didn't reply so i guess he got bored and moved on. This couple where advertising on another site and i have already dealt with that side with their moderator.
Yes i will try again, and Vix thanks for the very polite decline when i answered your ad -sob!
Will shortly be changing my name to Billy No Mates LOL
Hope to meet some of you soon
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