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Why do males continue to email when you say no single guys?

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Unknown User
mad we joined only a few days ago, already all we get is guys pretending to be couples or girls,, i mean come on ffs :doh: . So if you are a single female or a couple PLEASE restore our faith.
We are 19/bf & 24/m, check our add out 217156 hump
Rainbows
Sex God
You are going to get loads or replies with links to similar threads. Unfortunately it is par for the course. Frustrating isn't it?!!
No tips on how to avoid it I'm afraid sad
Rs :color:
Tania
Orgasminator
Same reason why 90% of the emails I get are from married guys wanting to play without their wife's knowledge!
Still out of the 10% that sound OK, there are a couple of interesting cases which I am exploring as we speak. (No, not that kind of exploring! It is working day for goodness sake and I am just on checking emails before going to work. Sex can wait.)
Be patient and good luck.
Unknown User
Quote by gritgrat&sez
mad we joined only a few days ago, already all we get is guys pretending to be couples or girls,, i mean come on ffs :doh: . So if you are a single female or a couple PLEASE restore our faith.
We are 19/bf & 24/m, check our add out 217156 hump

its not just the couples and ladies that get the replies
im a single guy and i get them replying to my adds as well
makes me wonder sometimes if they can actually read
colin
Unknown User
Don't boast now jah_2uk, I'd be happy to get anyonereplying to my ad. Evil dictators, mass-murderers, hell maybe even estate agents, I'm open-minded.
*Sniff*
Actually, maybe if I change the title from 'Chainsaw sex and kinky latex donkey buggery' I might get more replies...
Worth considering I suppose.
Cheers
Cock of the North
Unknown User
Well that certainly killed this thread...
In fact, maybe we have chanced upon a solution?
Maybe dropping the phrase 'Chainsaw sex and kinky latex donkey buggery' into a quick note to persistent emailers is actually the way best way to put them off too?
Worth a try...
Cheers
Cock of the North
foxylady__123
Sex God
I have found the answer, (i think) forget the carefully worded and thought out ad. Throw some crappy words together , call it a story, post in stories section and you will get far more genuine replies . thats my experience anyway!!
harry0
Orgasminator
Quote by gritgrat&sez
mad we joined only a few days ago, already all we get is guys pretending to be couples or girls,, i mean come on ffs :doh: . So if you are a single female or a couple PLEASE restore our faith.
We are 19/bf & 24/m, check our add out 217156 hump

It works both ways, lol. I once had an add on here, asking for a female partner to join me at swinging parties. Being male I wasn't expecting any reply at all. But after some three months I did actually get a reply from a local, drop dead gorgeous female, who enclosed her picture.
Sad to relate, she thought there was too big an age difference between us, she was 18 and I was 60. FFS, if she had teamed up with me she could have had a good number of males at parties who were considerably younger than me. Such is life. :cry:
At my age, I often get invited to sex parties, if only for no other reason, than the host doesn't want to be the oldest swinger there. lol
Harry0
Casanova, Drunk and Dogger of this Parish.
:hump: drinkies :borg:
dirtydoug
Forum Virgin
They reply because they are stupid, lazy and desperate. Sadly they pollute the environment for everyone else.
Sites like these need a kind of 'lameness' score that you can attach to unwanted emails which would then be visible to everyone who viewed the punter's profile. I think that would be fairly discouraging once word got around.
Doug
mr__powers1
Sex God
When somethings says Don't Touch........we still go ahead and touch it.....it's human nature to ignore and take a chance.....
kristof
Orgasminator
Quote by dirtydoug
They reply because they are stupid, lazy and desperate. Sadly they pollute the environment for everyone else.
Sites like these need a kind of 'lameness' score that you can attach to unwanted emails which would then be visible to everyone who viewed the punter's profile. I think that would be fairly discouraging once word got around.
Doug

I have to agree here Doug, that could well work, trouble is half these cnuts just dont give a damm anyway, I think they work on the old adage of send a thousand mails and somethings bound to come back
As a single mail I try to be careful in my replies, I know the competition is fiertce and dont expect to win every race (be fantastic if I could tho )
mr__powers1
Sex God
Quote by freckledbird
OI Dave gerroff lol
Bev
xx

Sorry I'm ignoring you...gotta take a chance.
Unknown User
drinkies
Cheers guys for all the replys, foxy will will try your advice, thanx for the delight of your peach too, makes great viewing :swingingchair:
Bye for now S&G
:cheers: :drinkies:
chick0074
Orgasminator
They are annoying aren't they?
I just had this one tonight:
"Hi Rachael & Richard, I'm Tim. I seen your ad on the swingers heavan
website an thought you might fancy meeting up. I am a 25 profesional male
from Bath. I'm Approx. 6ft 4 with an Athletic / Medium Build, Short
Dark Hair and Blue Eyes.
I'm interested in meeting GENUINE, uninhibited and sexy fems who are
looking a chilled and sane guy with a high sex drive for hot times.
I have been verified member of a couple of swingers websites and have
met a few couples and single fems for fun times. I am 100% genuine and
emphasis is definatley upon quality and not quantity. I have MSN &
Messengers so please feel free to contact me via the internal mail
system and i'll reply with my contact details. "
If he's so 100% genuine then why is he replying to Couple looking for COUPLES when he is a single male?
And what part of "No Single Males" in the ad does he not understand?
He can't read and he obviously can't spell!
So much for a "professional" eh?
Loser!
Rachel
wink
Unknown User
boink we couldnt of said it better ourselves
talk about desperate lol :violin:
rogerthedragon
Sex God
Quote by chick0074
They are annoying aren't they?
I just had this one tonight:

"Hi Rachael & Richard, I'm Tim. I seen your ad on the swingers heavan
website an thought you might fancy meeting up. I am a 25 profesional male
from Bath. I'm Approx. 6ft 4 with an Athletic / Medium Build, Short
Dark Hair and Blue Eyes.
I'm interested in meeting GENUINE, uninhibited and sexy fems who are
looking a chilled and sane guy with a high sex drive for hot times.
I have been verified member of a couple of swingers websites and have
met a few couples and single fems for fun times. I am 100% genuine and
emphasis is definatley upon quality and not quantity. I have MSN &
Messengers so please feel free to contact me via the internal mail
system and i'll reply with my contact details. "
If he's so 100% genuine then why is he replying to Couple looking for COUPLES when he is a single male?
And what part of "No Single Males" in the ad does he not understand?
He can't read and he obviously can't spell!
So much for a "professional" eh?
Loser!
Rachel
wink

I have to say though that reply is actually a lot better than many, and if cut&pasted to a couple of hundred couples and single fems might get him 1 or 2 responses if he was lucky enough to meet their requirements. He could also cut&paste that to a couple of hundred ads much quicker than he could find the few ads that he actually stands a chance with, and the people who were interested would not know about him spamming all the other uninterested people.
In my opinion all the talk about unwanted pm's from sad desperate single men only serves to put off the genuine guys from even bothering, the people it is aimed at don't use the forum anyway and couldn't care less if they are unpopular.
Roger the Dragon.
Rainbows
Sex God
Quote by rogerthedragon
In my opinion all the talk about unwanted pm's from sad desperate single men only serves to put off the genuine guys from even bothering, the people it is aimed at don't use the forum anyway and couldn't care less if they are unpopular.
Roger the Dragon.

Oh believe me - they do!!!! They may not actually post here - but they do register on here!! And then just use the PM button!
Got one recently that just said "ASL?"
Hellooooo????
rogerthedragon
Sex God
Quote by Rainbows

In my opinion all the talk about unwanted pm's from sad desperate single men only serves to put off the genuine guys from even bothering, the people it is aimed at don't use the forum anyway and couldn't care less if they are unpopular.
Roger the Dragon.

Oh believe me - they do!!!! They may not actually post here - but they do register on here!! And then just use the PM button!
Got one recently that just said "ASL?"
Hellooooo????
lol :lol:
You should have sent back:-
Not telling; Yes please; In the middle, down a bit, right a bit!
james02
Sexlightened
I think it’s about time some of the males who have been sending gritgrant&sex; owned up
chick0074
Orgasminator
Quote by Rainbows
Oh believe me - they do!!!! They may not actually post here - but they do register on here!! And then just use the PM button!
Got one recently that just said "ASL?"
Hellooooo????

You're right.
I just had one waiting for me from one of those annoying webcam idiots:
hi u on msn for webcam fun hunny xx

What?
Not even English!
Nowhere in my ads does it say I want to do webcam or am interested, and of course "no single males" is perfectly clear.
Perhaps a good response here would be:
"I already know you're a tosser - I don't need to watch you do it!"
Rachel
wink
james02
Sexlightened
Speaking of msn. Why has the topic about msn been locked?
Rainbows
Sex God
Quote by chick0074
You're right.
I just had one waiting for me from one of those annoying webcam idiots:
hi u on msn for webcam fun hunny xx

Oooh - I got one of them too!!!! lol :lol:
tallnhairy
Sex God
Why do males continue to email when you say no single guys?

A triumph of hope over experience...
Or they have no brains, mad I suppose is the only answer. I have sent two emails to people whose criteria I don't meet, no 3 in my year here. 2 complimenting them on something in their add / looks (not asking to meet them) and once with a tip on photo resizing as they said in their add they couldn't sort it out. So some of us single (in swinging terms) peeps have ability to read, honest smile