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Why do men fantasise about their Wives fucking other men?
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Quote by Alan
I have tried over the last 12 months to get my wife agree to being fucked by other males while I watch with no success. I have offered her everything from single males to groups in our house, outdoor dogging or going to a swingers club all to no avail anybody got any ideas how I can get her to change her mind.
It took my husband 4 years to convince me to do so, only he didn't come right out and ask. Instead, he was very sly , and made a lot of subtle suggestions. Too detailed to explain in this type of forum.
Now that you have shown your hand, that type of approach isn't going to work. Perhaps you should let her know that if she sees a man she fancies, you would be thrilled to see her just flirt with him. Enough flirting will lead to more in time. It awakens the woman in a woman.
Small steps leads to large gains.
Quote by dazandlou
Well, Daz LOVES watching me doing ANYTHING with another man.... he's easily pleased, bless him!! HOWEVER...... i've only just become comfortable with the idea myself!!! And it's only recently that i've actually got over the "guilt" of doing something with someone that isnt Daz!!! (he's never had a problem but i was too immature to cope, i think!!)
Guilt!!! I wouldn't let Mike touch me for weeks after I found out he had been watching me entertain that first guest.
However, the guilt subsided with time, and that only left the excitement that I'd experienced that night.
Quote by Scandal
I have tried over the last 12 months to get my wife agree to being fucked by other males while I watch with no success. I have offered her everything from single males to groups in our house, outdoor dogging or going to a swingers club all to no avail anybody got any ideas how I can get her to change her mind.
Why don't you try putting about 10 stones on, don't wash or clean your teeth for a couple of weeks, fart alot, keep the same undies on, go bald on top and grow ridiculously long dirty straggly hair.......... oh and try biting your toenails and spitting them out into the bed just before lights out.
That should do the trick.
*giggles*, Are you speaking from experience, Scandal?
I think he wanted to have his mate do others, not to have himself evicted!!
One of the anthropological explanations for men enjoying watching their wives screw someone else is, they find it reasuring to have proof that other men still find their wife desireable.
In addition one could argue that monogomy is not a natural state and that it is quiet normal that sex is a group or spectator sport
But really who the hell cares, lets just keep it that way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
In addition one could argue that monogomy is not a natural state and that it is quiet normal that sex is a group or spectator sport
But really who the hell cares, lets just keep it that way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote by Mark
Like loads of other men, I have always fantasised about my wife fucking other men, but have never been able to figure out why it turns me on so much!
For the last three years, the fantasy has become a regular reality and it still excites me to the extreme!
Why do you other male members think it turns them on so much?
It heightens the rudeness factor for me, plus the added involvement from someone else heightens it for the woman which in turn does it for me even more. Good job sex isn't an open-loop system eh, or we'd explode (or something)
PS BTW, no need to say f*cking. It's perfectly appropriate to use adult words on here. For example, fucking, spoffle, plooking, gunterush, cunt, tally-whacker.... they're all fine on here.
Spoffle, plooking and gunterush?? never heard of those ones??
Quote by Twisted - Sister
Maybe you are all gay at heart and get turned on by seeing another guy naked and to stop them having any feelings of guilt they imagine the naked guy shagging their wives.
TS
But I don't fantasise about my wife with other men at all! Oh god, maybe I'm not bi
... and to think I wasted all that effort learning to deep thoat and all... 
never looked back since I hope I dont upset anybody here this is something I remember reading about, which obviously doesn't make it true as I'm sure there are other reasons. Apparently many men like to see their wives/girlfriends engaging in sexual acts with other men partly because its a my wifes desirable but you cant keep her sort of thing. Also the article said it was a kind of subconcious sexual control, in a nice way of course, sometimes the man in control of how his wife receives pleasure, and/or, the wife receives pleasure by having sex with others which can give a feeling of sexual control to her as well. Or it may just be bloody great . Hope how this reads makes sense........it will be a first lol.
I have been known to babble on by the way.
I have been known to babble on by the way.
Quote by foxylady123
One of the anthropological explanations for men enjoying watching their wives screw someone else is, they find it reasuring to have proof that other men still find their wife desireable.
In addition one could argue that monogomy is not a natural state and that it is quiet normal that sex is a group or spectator sport
But really who the hell cares, lets just keep it that way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm sure your right. I'm doing everything I can to let Mike know I'm desirable.
Oh and BTW, sexy tush girl.
Quote by kitkat
You mean there are men that don't?
How strange ...............
:lol: Too funny Kitkat
Quote by fruity1976
Spoffle, plooking and gunterush?? never heard of those ones??
and neither have I, but I'm sure we know what Mark meant. Right?
Quote by Mister descreet
But I don't fantasise about my wife with other men at all! Oh god, maybe I'm not bi ... and to think I wasted all that effort learning to deep thoat and all...
No, you haven't wasted your time learning to DT. Your still secure in knowing that she only knows you. Heaven forbid if you were to allow her to experience another man. The security blanket would be out the window.
Quote by wewantu2
it all started for us when i saw my babes blatantly flirting with my mate in a vaniilla club,spoke to both of them thru the evening,and then back to uors for a shag marathon. never looked back since its all about the moment and grasping it
Flirting leads to much more eventually. That's how it all started for me. Quote by bonnienclyde
I hope I dont .............I have been known to babble on by the way.
Makes sense to me. Your reading and thinking about the subjet. So? when is it going to happen. :lol:
Quote by teppic
excuse me for butting in, but i prefer my wife with other women, which she does on a regular basis..she's not interested in other men.., but the rule we have is that we both play alone..although we both swing, out tastes are dfferent
Much in the reverse of us teppic. Mike preferes me to entertain other guests ( men ). He has just recently started hinting if I wouldn't like to entertain another woman.
Quote by compas4u
Your still secure in knowing that she only knows you. Heaven forbid if you were to allow her to experience another man. The security blanket would be out the window.
I think you've greatly misunderstood my post! I'm quite happy for her to do whatever she pleases, and she's definitely allowed to "experience" and "know" to her heart's content... all I'm saying is that I don't fantasise about it at all.
it's just good to see T having fun and enjoying herself, she totally has my blessing... and why not? I would give my wife anything in my power and if that means seeing her getting what she wants then its fine by me
I think I get a lot of pleasure in seeing T doing something where she is having pleasure.... in short if she is comfortable then so am I
I think I get a lot of pleasure in seeing T doing something where she is having pleasure.... in short if she is comfortable then so am I
Warming the Bed
is it because guys like to see their missus from a distance, how she hops and too check out the cum face ???
soz dont know, this is just a guess
soz dont know, this is just a guess
