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Why do men fantasise about their Wives fucking other men?

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Like loads of other men, I have always fantasised about my wife fucking other men, but have never been able to figure out why it turns me on so much!
For the last three years, the fantasy has become a regular reality and it still excites me to the extreme!
Why do you other male members think it turns them on so much?
I used to fantasize about my wife fekking off
Then she did WOOHOO lol
Quote by warwick
I used to fantasize about my wife fekking off
Then she did WOOHOO lol
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
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Quote by sheffieldfun4two
I have always fantasised about my wife f*cking other men

I'm a simple person, I'd like her to start with me.
Quote by warwick
I used to fantasize about my wife fekking off
Then she did WOOHOO lol

now thats funny :giggle:
i think its because they like the thought other men find their wife desireable ......
Why confine the subject to men watching their wives? I like to watch my partner with geezers (or a gang of strangers with each other, come to that).
Why do I like watching? Dunno really! It looks good is about as analytical as I need to get on the subject. I'm voyeuristic in other ways too, but that's another tale wink
It's, for me, a voyeur thing..
I love to watch Carolyn being fucked. It gives me a huge buzz to see her having sooo much fun and then I can play with her as well.
Do I know why I like being a voyeur? Well, no I don't. Will probably never be able to explain it - even to myself.
Oh well. Ramble over for today. Best see if I can find some threads to be stupid in.
Paul
not sure that it would do anything for me, but perhaps I shall find out in the fullness of time. However, I assuredly find watching gf licking or being licked or using her strap-on with another girl is very erotic indeed.
Maybe you are all gay at heart and get turned on by seeing another guy naked and to stop them having any feelings of guilt they imagine the naked guy shagging their wives.
TS
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I suppose if they like it being done we can then reap the ongoing rewards, it would obviously bring lol
something I am looking forward too :P
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Like loads of other men, I have always fantasised about my wife fucking other men, but have never been able to figure out why it turns me on so much!
For the last three years, the fantasy has become a regular reality and it still excites me to the extreme!
Why do you other male members think it turns them on so much?

It heightens the rudeness factor for me, plus the added involvement from someone else heightens it for the woman which in turn does it for me even more. Good job sex isn't an open-loop system eh, or we'd explode (or something) lol
PS BTW, no need to say f*cking. It's perfectly appropriate to use adult words on here. For example, fucking, spoffle, plooking, gunterush, cunt, tally-whacker.... they're all fine on here.
Thank God for that.. I was too ashamed to use the "spoffle" word
Paul
Mark said the 'c' word!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
I'm shocked and horrified....... wink
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Thank God for that.. I was too ashamed to use the "spoffle" word
Paul

I need a dictionary! rolleyes
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In my limited experience, Ahem, it certainly is a pleasureable experience for the husband.
All my meetings have been with married couples and upto now theres been only great meetings.
I have tried over the last 12 months to get my wife agree to being fucked by other males while I watch with no success. I have offered her everything from single males to groups in our house, outdoor dogging or going to a swingers club all to no avail anybody got any ideas how I can get her to change her mind.
Alan, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink confused :? :?
Some people just don't fancy swinging, it's as simple as that
Well, Daz LOVES watching me doing ANYTHING with another man.... he's easily pleased, bless him!! HOWEVER...... i've only just become comfortable with the idea myself!!! And it's only recently that i've actually got over the "guilt" of doing something with someone that isnt Daz!!! (he's never had a problem but i was too immature to cope, i think!!)
Thats how daz sees it - as long as everyone's happy with whats going on then there isnt a problem - if i'm with a man or woman, as long as we both get something out of it, then we're both happy.
I think there is a hint of masochism in it. It is sort of the ultimate violation (think how you'd feel if it wasn't consensual) but you (both) are in fact in control.
Boy how i wished that Mr debbiewebs would love to watch me be fucked by other men!..........what a great time i would havemmmmmmmmmmmmmm { ups i think my sex drive has poped up!.}....................but shhhhhhhhhhhhhh working on it! rolleyes ................ but to see him fuck another women!............phew!........ the thought is a real turn on for me!.........................any page 3 models out there?. lol .......................but hes to bloody particular! :twisted:
For some maybe Tune, but certainly not all situations like that are masochistic. In fact, for some watching their partner with others would be considered sadistic - like "forcing" them to go with others etc. There are many reasons why people enjoy voyeurism lol :lol: :lol:
funny you should say that - i found it easier to cope with Daz being with another girl than i did me being with another man!
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I have tried over the last 12 months to get my wife agree to being fucked by other males while I watch with no success. I have offered her everything from single males to groups in our house, outdoor dogging or going to a swingers club all to no avail anybody got any ideas how I can get her to change her mind.

Alan, didn't you say you were having trouble getting your wife to f**k at all!
Coz it,s well horny .............
chance would be a fine thing !!! if i got asked to watch :shock: i would have loved it. :cry: You no who you are you two!!!! wink :wink: . its only a joke iam really cool with it .its my first reply, its daz by the way!
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For some maybe Tune, but certainly not all situations like that are masochistic. In fact, for some watching their partner with others would be considered sadistic - like "forcing" them to go with others etc. There are many reasons why people enjoy voyeurism lol :lol: :lol:

I agree - and so it may be S or M but I think there's some sort of exquisite torture/pleasure in it all.
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On further reflection ive decided the followin on the subject:-
We both like it and thats that, no analysis necessary.

Point taken. If you do and you enjoy it - don't analyse it. If you don't, then analyse to see if you can.
Yes RSAB2 you have a good memory that is why I have tried to get her into swinging with men or women but recently she has no interest in sex at all that is why I try and meet females/couples on my own but that isn't easy.
we can all take it in turns to be cameramen and women!! its all right babe redeemed you both at the end by the way! wink