Why Do Men Turn Bi...

12 Jul 2007

I have always considered myself to be 100% straight, and have never felt attracted to a man in a sexual way. However, I have been swinging for quite a while now and have become perfectly comfortable in the company of naked men - I even once had a guy suck another guy off right in front of my face whilst I was fucking a woman, but it didn't put me off my stroke. I guess the familiarity and exposure to this makes one much more accepting of such things. In fact I have become so accepting that I have in fact wondered what it would be like to try some bi stuff. I still don't have any plans to do so - but if the opportunity arose and I felt the desire to try it at the time, I think I probably would, mainly just to see if I'm missing out on anything!
Russell

13 Jul 2007

Sorry, Kiss, I think your imagination has run away with you.....my partner's abstinence is a result of a physical condition I would not wish on anyone else, and 'shagging the guy at work' as you so delicately put it has a sort of hollow ring (no pun intended). Stick to the day job, eh?

13 Jul 2007

Quote by laterunner
Sorry, Kiss, I think your imagination has run away with you.....my partner's abstinence is a result of a physical condition I would not wish on anyone else, and 'shagging the guy at work' as you so delicately put it has a sort of hollow ring (no pun intended). Stick to the day job, eh?

Imagination? lol

Quote by laterunner
Simple....wife withdraws unilaterally from intimate physical contact,...... and you don't have to take other guys out to to dinner, theatre etc. to get a decent wank/BJ. Brutal but true.

Seems you are just as delicate as me. wink

13 Jul 2007

What total tosh lol

13 Jul 2007

Quote by swing_fun_cpl

I have always considered myself to be 100% straight, and have never felt attracted to a man in a sexual way. However, I have been swinging for quite a while now and have become perfectly comfortable in the company of naked men - I even once had a guy suck another guy off right in front of my face whilst I was fucking a woman, but it didn't put me off my stroke. I guess the familiarity and exposure to this makes one much more accepting of such things. In fact I have become so accepting that I have in fact wondered what it would be like to try some bi stuff. I still don't have any plans to do so - but if the opportunity arose and I felt the desire to try it at the time, I think I probably would, mainly just to see if I'm missing out on anything!
Russell

very much how things started to change for me. in my teens lots of people thought, and i suspected as much myself, that i might be gay. had a couple of bi experiences in my teens, which were frankly awful, to the point of being emotionally damaging. helped me decide that i clearly wasn't gay after all though, but i didn't understand bisexuality back then, and almost feared it might be some kind of slippery slope to gayness.
being on here, where people openly discussed theirsexuality, and revelled in it, made it a lot easier to at least start thinking about things i'd deliberately not thought about for 20 odd years, and get a bit comfier with it. that's when the fantasies started! lol

;)
when the chance came to test things a little bit, and push my boundaries in a kinda natural way, in the right environment, with people i was comfortable with . . . . well suffice to say i made the most of the opportunity, and have never looked back. biggrin

with the right people, there are endlessly erotic, endlessly inventive possibilities every single one of you can take pleasure in exploring, and share equally in. the satisfaction i get from that is as much mental, and emotional, as it is physical, if not more so. :D
neil x x x ;)

13 Jul 2007

i think some guys do use it as a way of getting a shag. i though have known i've had a liking for guys since i was about 15, but at that age it is hard to do anything about it, i actually lost my virginity to a girl, before a guy. i am now 35, and i still like guys, but i also love girls. i am unfortunatly in the position of having a girlfriend, whom i love very much, but who doesnt understand my bisexual side. she likes to explore that side of me in the bedroom, but is reluctant to allow me to go out and play. if something was to happen when we are say with another couple, she would go with the flow, but the only way i can really satisfy it is to discreetly play without her knowing. it can be a life of termoil....!lol