Can't believe anyone would avoid someone as gorgeous as the person in your avatar, therefore must be (c) or alternatively could be (e) they've been involved in a car accident trying to get over to shag you again
babe,... i understand how you feel having been in that position once too many...
the best way to look at it is like this.......dust yourself down, chalk it up as experience... remember the good bits, swear to never do the bad bits again... and move on....
if he doestn't realise what abloody good thing he has that that is his loss... and when he does come back tell him to bog off....
there is someone who is out there and will treat you a million times better.. and you will wonder what all the fuss was about....
sean xxxxxxxxxx
As others have said, it's the excitement of the first meet for some. You've just been unlucky in choosing someone that had that frame of mind.
Me, If I like the person, I'd be back.
More annoying, are those that don't turn up for the first meet..... all too common.
Welcome to SH :welcome: have fun on here.
It does seem unfortunate. But I only have your point of view to think about. Is this fair or right to expect others to give you support and advice to you alone and not your recent partner also?
Hi Jess, nice to find you here after our chat the other night.
Sorry to hear about this person's reaction. Been there not too long ago (even though I didn't do the naughties because I felt we ought to get to know each other better before hitting the sack) and know how it hurts when they suddenly switch off or disappear.
All I can say is that women like us can sometimes be intimidating. We know what we want and we realise a good thing when we see one so we cannot really control ourselves and have to give it all.
You have two options:
a) put it behind you and move on
b) keep thinking about it and analyse everything you said and did till your mind goes numb and you no longer know whether you are coming or going...
There is plenty more fish in the sea and as long as you play safe, there is no reason why you shouldn't make the most of each encounter, no matter how brief.
Hugs
Tania, I don't think there is anyone else about now, so I don't see the point in us having a row.
Yeah they are all probably sleeping after a good night's shag. *sigh* Ain't life unfair!
The other person was probably only after a quick shag...you seem to want a relationship...most of the people I know in this scene only WANT a quick shag, and rarely meet more than once or twice.
It's called life, I think !
How many answers are there to this question...
They lied.
They do want to see you again - but too soon feels too much like dating.
They do want to see you again - but it is a rota system and you have to wait till you get to the top of the list again.
The wife only lets 'um out once per month.
They don't want to appear they are coming on too strong - trying to play it cool.
They have had another offer.
They are busy.
They suffer from short term memory loss.
They are worried they won't manage it again because you nearly ate them alive.
They are a shit!
They are saving up to make the next time special - oh that one makes me laugh.
They have thought about what they have done and are unsure it is for them.
They want to leave it a while so it will be exciting again.
They are testing you to see what you do and how you react.
They are just not that into you - but didn't want to hurt your feelings.
They need a break.
They think if they see you too often they will fall for you and don't think you would like that.
Something big has happened in their life and sex is not a priority at the minute.
They just don't rush things.
I could go on - but I need to do some work.
Continued....
They only ever intended it to be once - the chatty stuff was just being polite.
They only ever intended it to be once - the chatty stuff just shows they are spineless.
You're being too keen and they are getting mixed messages.
They are trying to make a point.
They are no longer in the country.
They are looking after a sick relative.
They are on a guilt trip.
They have had a moment of clarity and reassessed their life-style.
They have realised they have been kidding themselves about their sexuality.
They want to see you but just do things slower than you.
They don't think they really made a good impression and think you are just being polite.
They see women asking as a sign of desperation (yeah right!)
They are worried you are expecting too much from them.
They are arranging a suprise for you - trying to get some other people to join in for the next time becuase you were such a greedy girl.
They just don't get it.
They are wondering what you saw in them and feel insecure.
They realised they want a relationship but not with you.
Their ex has come back.
Their current partner was away the first time - they are back now.
They have been there and done it too many times and are now looking for something new.
They want to see how long they can keep you guessing.
They just can't be bothered at the minute.
They are too busy bragging to their mates.
They like you and don't know how to handle it.
Oops, lunch break over - back to some more work.
Continued...
They decided the drive was too much.
Their car has been stolen and their phone and laptop were in the boot.
They actually live miles away and were just working in the area.
Something good is on the TV.
Football is on the TV.
Their Open University course has started.
They moved house.
They realised they loved someone else.
They have joined a religious order.
They have been arrested.
Their home leave is over.
Thier mum won't lend them the car again.
Did I mention they lied?
They thought it was good but just not what they were looking for.
The meet they had the next day offered to pay next time.
They think you were not kinky enough.
They think you were too kinky.
They have dicovered something better than sex (ok that one might be stretching it abit)
They were so excited by the thought of seeing you again - they had a heart attack.
Someone else offered them a 3some.
Someone else offered them a 4some.
They have been abducted by aliens.
They have been deported.
Ok I am getting short on ideas now, I must be getting tired.
, you discuss future plans for naughties, you have some naughties 
!! then you catch up online the next day - agree what a fantastic time you both had arrange to meet again and then.....................nothing...................you are left wondering a) was i really dull b) has the person simply lost interest and moved on? c) has their pc (& mobile phone) been swallowed in the fiery chasms of hell and therefore they cannot contact u? or d) they are a complete b#####d?!
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