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why do some men lie about there cock size and looks

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i met a guy from here last night after speaking to him a few times, he was very charming and seemed quite shy so like a woman on heat thought i would take a chance..
i asked for a pic of his face and cock,
he responded, wow lol made my eyes pop out :eeek: :inlove:
could this be a real stallion.. rolleyes
well we met last night at , i spend an hour and half getting myself ready and surprised
what a bullshitter....he was not the guy on the pics sent through mad :x :x
i was so evil i just drove off after telling him what i thought...... why o why
i just wish that some people would be honest. :fuckinghell:
still i will not give up and hope that i will meet a good man or lady soon...
confused
I dont average size but know how to use much more effective in my view
Quote by norfolkbigirl
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i met a guy from here last night after speaking to him a few times, he was very charming and seemed quite shy so like a woman on heat thought i would take a chance..
i asked for a pic of his face and cock,
he responded, wow lol made my eyes pop out :eeek: :inlove:
could this be a real stallion.. rolleyes
well we met last night at , i spend an hour and half getting myself ready and surprised
what a bullshitter.... mad :x :x
i was so evil i just drove off after telling him what i thought...... why o why
i just wish that some people would be honest. :fuckinghell:
still i will not give up and hope that i will meet a good man or lady soon...
confused

Im lost :roll:
So u got there....... He lobbed it out...... and u told him what u thought of him and drove off????
soory just edited as i missed out bits due to anger i just had to tell you all how i feel
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Is he a member of the forum or does he use the chatroom....
I think he should be reported if he is sending pics that are not him...
Something could of gone seriously wrong last nite... u could of been murdered!!
Quote by LilMissGullable
Is he a member of the forum or does he use the chatroom....
I think he should be reported if he is sending pics that are not him...
Something could of gone seriously wrong last nite... u could of been murdered!!

now your scarring me... :scared:
i told a friend of mine where i was going and they were not to far away, had my phone as well.....
not to sure as he emailed me saying he had seen my profile on sh. not a pm
Quote by norfolkbigirl
:cry:
i met a guy from here last night after speaking to him a few times, he was very charming and seemed quite shy so like a woman on heat thought i would take a chance..
i asked for a pic of his face and cock,
he responded, wow lol made my eyes pop out :eeek: :inlove:
could this be a real stallion.. rolleyes
well we met last night at , i spend an hour and half getting myself ready and surprised
what a bullshitter....he was not the guy on the pics sent through mad :x :x
i was so evil i just drove off after telling him what i thought...... why o why
i just wish that some people would be honest. :fuckinghell:
still i will not give up and hope that i will meet a good man or lady soon...
confused

Hun, ..................... do you have your email address in your ad?? ................. if so remove it immediately and make sure the option "anonymous email" is turned ON.
that way anyone who wants to respond to you HAS to be a registered user..........
Now fake pictures............ this is CLEARLY in breach of the AUP and you should report it, so the guy gets banned.
Sounds like you did all the right things (letting friends know you were meeting someone etc)....... so don't worry too much, but do be careful, and better luck next time
M smile
I'm guessing he either hoped you were desperate or wouldn't remember what he was supposed to look like.
Unfortunately, chancers are a dime a dozen and you will encounter others... nothing you can do about it, except move on.
I always find it strange why, on a site like this, that blokes lie about the size..its not as if your going to see it or nothing... confused
Any way i alway's find a sexy girl and a strap on is more relliable... biggrin
jane
xx
Quote by norfolkbigirl
Is he a member of the forum or does he use the chatroom....
I think he should be reported if he is sending pics that are not him...
Something could of gone seriously wrong last nite... u could of been murdered!!

now your scarring me... :scared:
i told a friend of mine where i was going and they were not to far away, had my phone as well.....
not to sure as he emailed me saying he had seen my profile on sh. not a pm
If you can forward his email and his email address, perhaps we can do something about it.
Mal
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To be honest i have never had that problem with men, every man i have ever met have sent me pic that are of them, even if they did look better on the pics they was at least of them lol the only thing i have ever had that comes close to this is women who send pics of them 5 stone ago :shock: i can never understand this, i fully know how it feel to not like the way you look and not being a size 10 myself knows how it feel to think 'if i tell them my real size they'll block me' :lol: but surely that better than sending out your old slim pics and turning up to meet someone whos not expecting you? confused
Little white lies about your appearance/size/ shape is not a problem. Everyone will have some problem in the way they look and try and gloss over it or exagerate other aspects they feel are positive, to overcome it.
However, using a picture that is not of you is completely wrong, certainly from the security point of view.
Although less problematic from the security aspect, using pics that are some years out of date can make the meet go down like a "lead baloon" as you will have disappointment and suspicion from the first second of the meet.
Out of interest, did he offer any explanation?
Clearly more sensible to meet people from the forum wink :wink:
Not just a male thing - have met women in the past - admittedly not from here - that have sent me pics that blatantly are not them. Seems ridiculous to me.
Just have to walk away.
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Out of interest, did he offer any explanation?

soory but i didn`t give him chance to ,, i flew off the handle a bit called him a sick xxxxxx xxxxxxx xxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxx. :censored:
then drove off quickly. got his reg though and had told my friend to look out at the local sites.... xxxxxxxxx.. ( you know who you are )if your on here. :wanker: :censored:
when i got home i deleted his emails sad mad
wish i had kept them so that i could let mal have the details, dunno
his nickname is xxxxx ... :x name and shame the axxxole
not sure if he is a member here or not???????
You may be hurt and you may be angry - but you DO NOT name and shame on here, nor do you publish his car details!
If you have deleted his emails, are they in your 'deleted mail' folder?
We can only help if we have the correct information from you.
Mal
Guys like this DEFINATELY need reporting to the site mods so they can be weeded out and banned. Firstly from a danger point of view for the females who are genuinely looking for someone to have fun with, anything could have happened to you. Secondly for the reason that, for us fellas that ARE genuine, it makes it more difficult to arrange honest meets with likeminded ladies. When i've met people, i've given them advice such as to have a close friend ring their mobile shortly after any designated meeting time, etc.
Hope you can find his deleted emails in your folder hun, if so send the details in and let the mods ban his ass to oblivion. Sorry about your bad experience. sad
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Guys like this DEFINATELY need reporting to the site mods so they can be weeded out and banned. Firstly from a danger point of view for the females who are genuinely looking for someone to have fun with, anything could have happened to you. Secondly for the reason that, for us fellas that ARE genuine, it makes it more difficult to arrange honest meets with likeminded ladies. When i've met people, i've given them advice such as to have a close friend ring their mobile shortly after any designated meeting time, etc.
Hope you can find his deleted emails in your folder hun, if so send the details in and let the mods ban his ass to oblivion. Sorry about your bad experience. sad

I've just got to add - - Ditto.
shouldn't need his email address now shes posted his user name on the site, surely a mod could have traced him thro that b4 it was edited?
how could i lie about something i cant see.... :shock: lol
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shouldn't need his email address now shes posted his user name on the site, surely a mod could have traced him thro that b4 it was edited?

The name she mentioned is registered, but he has never posted and lives the other end of the country from her, so it is likely he has registered under a different nick name, if he is registered at all!
I'm not as daft as I look, Ali!! lol (did I say that right? :shock: )
Mal
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I suppose we could try the reverse psychology :twisted:
I'm actually a complete Troll, with a staggered walk and a funny eye, not to mention my dissapointingly small metric sized apendage blink innocent
ah but if I did say that, maybe people would think I'm saying that when I think I'm actually ok, OR maybe I would say it because I know they would maybe think that, in which case I'm actually a complete troll, with a staggered...............................
Or maybe, because they think that, and I think it, I'm just lawling them into another false sense of security by saying I'm a troll, they think I'm ok, I'm bluffing, but they don't know ........or maybe they do :shock:
Seemed funnier when I thought about it.....instead of writing about it :blink: dunno :doh:
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I suppose we could try the reverse psychology :twisted:
I'm actually a complete Troll, with a staggered walk and a funny eye, not to mention my dissapointingly small metric sized apendage blink innocent
ah but if I did say that, maybe people would think I'm saying that when I think I'm actually ok, OR maybe I would say it because I know they would maybe think that, in which case I'm actually a complete troll, with a staggered...............................
Or maybe, because they think that, and I think it, I'm just lawling them into another false sense of security by saying I'm a troll, they think I'm ok, I'm bluffing, but they don't know ........or maybe they do :shock:
Seemed funnier when I thought about it.....instead of writing about it :blink: dunno :doh:

:dunno: :dunno: :dunno: :dunno: :dunno:
Hmmm...
Wasn't really necesary in my eyes....I mean, I guess looks are subjective - I've probably had equal amounts of women that find me attractive to those that don't...thats just the way of the world, and I would say it's wrong to "misrepresent" your appearance.
Sorry to hear you had a bad experience NBG - unfortunately the inconsiderate "few" spoil it for the genuine "many" single guys, of which I'm one.
Hope you'll find what you're after next time eh?
xx
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shouldn't need his email address now shes posted his user name on the site, surely a mod could have traced him thro that b4 it was edited?

The name she mentioned is registered, but he has never posted and lives the other end of the country from her, so it is likely he has registered under a different nick name, if he is registered at all!
I'm not as daft as I look, Ali!! lol (did I say that right? :shock: )
Mal
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ok just making sure you doing you job right bolt
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dunno :dunno: :dunno: :dunno: :dunno:

hmmm really didn't make much sense to me either when I re-read it....................
must remember in future,,,,,silly gags must stay amongst the cobwebs of my head,,,,,,,and at no point must any futile effort be made to post them in public :shock:
would of deleted,,,but you quoted it evil bugger :P
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Sorry to hear you had a bad experience NBG - unfortunately the inconsiderate "few" spoil it for the genuine "many" single guys, of which I'm one.
xx

Ah, but does it? Everytime some dickhead pulls a stunt like that, it reinforces the point that the Forums and organised socials are the right place to meet the decent single guys. As the numpties don't post much and don't attend the socials, the ladies know that when they meet us, we're the genuine article! lol
Jobs a gud 'un!! :lol:
Mal
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Sorry to hear you had a bad experience NBG - unfortunately the inconsiderate "few" spoil it for the genuine "many" single guys, of which I'm one.
xx

Ah, but does it? Everytime some dickhead pulls a stunt like that, it reinforces the point that the Forums and organised socials are the right place to meet the decent single guys. As the numpties don't post much and don't attend the socials, the ladies know that when they meet us, we're the genuine article! lol
Jobs a gud 'un!! :lol:
Mal
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i have to admit every decent single guy i have met thro this site has been thro the forum one way or another, be it at a munch, a private party thats been arranged on here or just by talking and getting to know them via the threads and taking a change and meeting them.
Fair comment Mal!
so basically folks....remember:- The Cream Always Rises to the Top!
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Fair comment Mal!
so basically folks....remember:- The Cream Always Rises to the Top!

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