Why do we bother

Yesterday I organised a gangbang for a new site member in Northampton, after a lot of hard work managed to  find 10 suitable guys, thinking one or two would drop out,  out of the 10 only two bothered to show up, one did did lastedabout a minute then almost ran out the door, the other lasted about a minute longer, then said he had to pop to the shop and never returned.  Makes you think is it really worth it

Always fancied being the subject of a well organised gangbang, however experience thus far re the organisation is that if it's a group of men sourced vis putting up an advert for gb and who wants to attend (male wise) then it's pretty much doomed to failure and for the very reasons you seem to have experienced recently.

Personally speaking, a gb needs to be when an organised group of males that form part of a gb group and where a 'pool' can sort of be picked from them for the gb...then that seems to work.  I've seen what looks like a couple of well organised gb groups of males, all known to each other, all part of the group and when an opportunity arises they seem to be able to do the deed and everyone is happy....hastily arranged gb's with males not really known to each other and who have simply stated an interest in attending one....well it's a recipe for disaster.

I think on sites like this, it's easy to forget that even though you can talk to 100 people in less than 10 minutes they're still people.

The flip side of the coin is I have 50 women looking for sex in a 5 mile radius of me, but it doesn't mean I don't have to put effort in and may arrive at nothing. This site just improves connectivity.

It is a fair bet that the majority of men who 'sign up' for a gang-bang a few days before the event are married and get cold feet when they have to find a alibi for the evening out. The other problem is the age-old "cum and go" tendency..."I've shot my load so I'm out of here..." Getting a core of fit, reliable men is no easy task.

I guess there are far more fantasies than realities.  It must be difficult, finding guys that the lady likes sufficiently.  I don't mean picky, just ok guys.  And, she must be wanting it to happen, when it does.  That is, when she is feeling sexy enough for it to happen.

Shame, hope the lady still had some fun?

Well if you every decide to organise another event I'd love to attend.  We're not all timewasters i promise

Ive attended a few gang bangs as a fluffer and cleaner upper and they have all been well attended. In one case more turned up than expected and the lady struggled to satisfy all of them. lucky her. LOL