I always see alot of white girls with black men. But you hardly see a white girl with asian/indian guy?
Im with a white girl btw..
Is this because its socially acceptable for white girls with black guy? Ie in the media and in the music industry. just about any industry it seems that its the norm. the media seems to encourage this sort of relationship. from hip hop videos ect.
But when im with my gf who is white. I get alot of dirty looks from poeple on the street.
Like they dont agree with it. or they think its wrong.
personaly i dont see a problem with any form of interracial relation ect. but why are some kinds of these relationships more accepted then others.
any views
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Why do white girls not go for Indian/asian guys?
Sex God
Hi
I have moved you in to the cafe, as I feel you may get a better response.
Welcome to the forums.
I have moved you in to the cafe, as I feel you may get a better response.
Welcome to the forums.
My business partner is Indian and was with a white girl for 17 years and they had a child together. His Brother is also with a white girl, married with two kids.
Some of their friends who are also Indian are with white girls.
From my experience it seems to be quite common.
As for your comment " But when im with my gf who is white. I get alot of dirty looks from poeple on the street ", I think you are seeing what you want to see.
Yes there may well be a very small ammount of people who do not like to see interacial relationships,but the vast majority have no problem with it at all. Crikey do we not now live in a huge multi cultural society?
We have met a black guy in the scene but not an Asian. That is not because of we do not like Asians, but there are very few around in this scene. We have been to clubs and we have never seen one Asian guy.
It is not about the colour but about the guys personality and humour that counts.
Some of their friends who are also Indian are with white girls.
From my experience it seems to be quite common.
As for your comment " But when im with my gf who is white. I get alot of dirty looks from poeple on the street ", I think you are seeing what you want to see.
Yes there may well be a very small ammount of people who do not like to see interacial relationships,but the vast majority have no problem with it at all. Crikey do we not now live in a huge multi cultural society?
We have met a black guy in the scene but not an Asian. That is not because of we do not like Asians, but there are very few around in this scene. We have been to clubs and we have never seen one Asian guy.
It is not about the colour but about the guys personality and humour that counts.
Hi Indian, Welcome to the forums.
You have raised an interesting point, and one when I just thought about makes sense.
This is only one aspect I am looking at here I know there are many.
I know of a lot of Asian men in the circles I socialise in as am involved in a sport that attracts a lot of Asian and West Indians English and Australians to name a few, and guess you might have guessed the sport.
This has made me think, Music and sports play a great role in uniting people and bringing people together in social circles, and bonding people within those circles.
Music combines all sexes both male and female, where as sport is mostly sex related, whereby men play or women play, so is more divided. The chances of both sexes coming together in large numbers is less lightly to happen.
As music is part of everones life it is more able to mix the cultures.
What I do find is that most cultures do stick together, that isn’t saying we do not get on. As I find when mixed there is never a problem, I have often felt it is a shame it seems that music and sports are the key factors that unite us but the cultures seem to be the thing that most seem to feel more secure in.
I find this to be across the board and nobody is any different.
Times are still changing I believe and hopefully all will be acceptable without exception.
Hope this makes some kind of sense.
You have raised an interesting point, and one when I just thought about makes sense.
This is only one aspect I am looking at here I know there are many.
I know of a lot of Asian men in the circles I socialise in as am involved in a sport that attracts a lot of Asian and West Indians English and Australians to name a few, and guess you might have guessed the sport.
This has made me think, Music and sports play a great role in uniting people and bringing people together in social circles, and bonding people within those circles.
Music combines all sexes both male and female, where as sport is mostly sex related, whereby men play or women play, so is more divided. The chances of both sexes coming together in large numbers is less lightly to happen.
As music is part of everones life it is more able to mix the cultures.
What I do find is that most cultures do stick together, that isn’t saying we do not get on. As I find when mixed there is never a problem, I have often felt it is a shame it seems that music and sports are the key factors that unite us but the cultures seem to be the thing that most seem to feel more secure in.
I find this to be across the board and nobody is any different.
Times are still changing I believe and hopefully all will be acceptable without exception.
Hope this makes some kind of sense.
Sexlightened
A bit of a variation on the theme, a couple of mates of mine in London have black girlfriends and they've often had hassle from black youths in the street, and not just dirty looks I'm afraid, ie insults and spitting behind them etc - thoroughly unpleasant and racist stuff.
Sex God
I've never met an Asian man I'm attracted to. If I do then I will! :rascal:
Sex God
Hi Indian, welcome to the forums.
Not sure I can help with the question you have asked though, because I have no preference as to the colour of a person or their ethnic background etc. I go for the person, the whole package rather than just the colour of the wrapping, if that makes sense
Not sure I can help with the question you have asked though, because I have no preference as to the colour of a person or their ethnic background etc. I go for the person, the whole package rather than just the colour of the wrapping, if that makes sense
maybe its about people thinking asians are more with customs and religious followings than white or black people?
so when they see an asian person with a white person they think its against the asian persons path?
i like men who are tall, asian men typically are short so dont attract me and the swinging ones ive met have been short and have mostaches or have hairy chests.
xx fem xx
so when they see an asian person with a white person they think its against the asian persons path?
i like men who are tall, asian men typically are short so dont attract me and the swinging ones ive met have been short and have mostaches or have hairy chests.
xx fem xx
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maybe its about people thinking asians are more with customs and religious followings than white or black people?
so when they see an asian person with a white person they think its against the asian persons path?
i like men who are tall, asian men typically are short so dont attract me and the swinging ones ive met have been short and have mostaches or have hairy chests.
xx fem xx
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