Becasue I didn't want to be a rocker
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i know how you feel with the trans scene although slightly different for me , when i came out i was expecting a life of misery and lonlyness due to all my old friends and some family members drifting away which have now disapeared. but i accepted that as part of being transsexual , although ive met lots of online friends in the trans scene and have met up a few times ive actually found it to be really bitchy they all wanted to be they bell of the ball and wouldnt stand nxt to me or talk to me quite often which i thought was ridiculous im nothing special, but being with the trans comunity i felt even more of an outcast ( the it , the thing him her ) i havent got straight friends as such just a few old girlfriends that pop round once in a blue moon.
i joined sh by chance while looking for a trans friendly club in leic, mancs is too far to go out for a drink all the time but i stumbled accross sh, and i love it ive never been made more welcome by a group before and would like to say thankyou to everyone your a top bunch.
i have met clps before but were not my cup of tea , 3 somes ive had a few munches ive never done yet cant wait for the leic one, ill stop ramberling on dyslexia is creeping in so im forgeting the point of this other to say that everyone is fab i love it here what ever is going on i want a piece ...its all gravy baby lol
i joined sh by chance while looking for a trans friendly club in leic, mancs is too far to go out for a drink all the time but i stumbled accross sh, and i love it ive never been made more welcome by a group before and would like to say thankyou to everyone your a top bunch.
i have met clps before but were not my cup of tea , 3 somes ive had a few munches ive never done yet cant wait for the leic one, ill stop ramberling on dyslexia is creeping in so im forgeting the point of this other to say that everyone is fab i love it here what ever is going on i want a piece ...its all gravy baby lol
Sex God
Just found this thread, which I never really read properly before.
I joined SH over a year ago, having swung before with couples as a single male. It has taken me a while to feel part of things here, and I never imagined that the few friendships I have made here so far would mean much more to me than any swinging (which I've done little or none of with SH members since I've joined, being one of the less outgoing types here).
And Rachel, it will be good to meet you at the Leicester mini-munch.
Mike.
I joined SH over a year ago, having swung before with couples as a single male. It has taken me a while to feel part of things here, and I never imagined that the few friendships I have made here so far would mean much more to me than any swinging (which I've done little or none of with SH members since I've joined, being one of the less outgoing types here).
And Rachel, it will be good to meet you at the Leicester mini-munch.
Mike.
I first began meeting people with my wife back in 1983, and it was really out of curiosity after reading the usual adult magazines. We had one really bad experience which involved having to make a statement to the police (imagine how embarrassing that was in 1985) and my wife said she'd never do it again.
Since then I've been meeting people on my own, usually couples, and often for movie making.
Since then I've been meeting people on my own, usually couples, and often for movie making.
Sexpert
Good question, why do i swing? and why am i on s/h?....
well as far as swinging goes i dont... well i did once i had a m/f/m expiereance with the ex wife and even though we enjoyed it we never got round to doing it again...no its dogging that im into i have been dogging for the past 8 years and even though i enjoy it
dogging can be a lonely hobby'
especially for a singal male,
No one knows what i do family/friends nobody' only the cpls that i have had fun with and other doggers that i will often encounter on my travels.
so why am i on this site then? well first i started looking on the dogging posts then i got into the forum and found it very interesting especially the dogging forum reading other doggers stories of what they get up to in the various regions that they are from, and now im hooked' and now i hope to go on a few munches this year and get to meet and make new friends......then fuck them
:) sorry folks' only... half joking 
well as far as swinging goes i dont... well i did once i had a m/f/m expiereance with the ex wife and even though we enjoyed it we never got round to doing it again...no its dogging that im into i have been dogging for the past 8 years and even though i enjoy it
dogging can be a lonely hobby'
especially for a singal male,No one knows what i do family/friends nobody' only the cpls that i have had fun with and other doggers that i will often encounter on my travels.
so why am i on this site then? well first i started looking on the dogging posts then i got into the forum and found it very interesting especially the dogging forum reading other doggers stories of what they get up to in the various regions that they are from, and now im hooked' and now i hope to go on a few munches this year and get to meet and make new friends......then fuck them
:) sorry folks' only... half joking Quote by westerross
This link provides an interesting and in my view fairly accurate analysis.
Interestingly it suggests that men are usually the instigators of a couple entering the swinging world but then the woman usually wants to stay in it when the man doesn't.
snip !
Just like to say thanks for that link, for a pair of newbees a very informative and well written piece, would recommend it to anyone who's relatively new to the scene.
Thanks also for a very interesting thread.
Sex God
We met through swinging.
As it is such a big part of our relationship, we wouldn't consider not swinging now.
As Roger said, it has become our social life. We don't do the cinema or pubs anymore. Most of our friends are people that we have met through swinging.
It is sad to say but we find our friends that aren't swingers, just not fun anymore.
It is so liberating to be able to discuss any sexual fantasies with swinging friends.
So all you lovely swingers out there (((hugs)))
Gill & Del x
As it is such a big part of our relationship, we wouldn't consider not swinging now.
As Roger said, it has become our social life. We don't do the cinema or pubs anymore. Most of our friends are people that we have met through swinging.
It is sad to say but we find our friends that aren't swingers, just not fun anymore.
It is so liberating to be able to discuss any sexual fantasies with swinging friends.
So all you lovely swingers out there (((hugs)))
Gill & Del x
