Ok Why is it why i stay in on a Saturday night to be with my husband, he sodding well falls asleep in the chair and i end up having to come on here for a bit of company?? Im not boring, im fun, im attractive and i dont bloody get it!!! Anyone else have this problem or is it just me??? Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
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Why does he always always fall asleep??
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Quote by Suze43
How old is he? Could be he's just lost interest in sex altogether :shock:
Or he may have other isuues such as emotional probs/impotence etc and uses sleep as a way of avoiding the issue. Have you tried talking to him?
Sex God
Your answer is:- hes male!
Could be worse, he could have fallen asleep on the job! :crazy:
Could be worse, he could have fallen asleep on the job! :crazy:
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Venus, Mars, Voddy, Friendly & Eagerslut9 - Say Nothing!!!!!!! :mrgreen:
I never fall asleep in company....ever :eeek:
Sex God
Suze,
I can see you're attractive (if that's you in the avatar), I don't doubt you're fun but how many Saturdays has this happened - you only joined on Wednesday?
I can see you're attractive (if that's you in the avatar), I don't doubt you're fun but how many Saturdays has this happened - you only joined on Wednesday?
Quote by Suze43
maybe he is getting some company elsewhere. sorry hun, just my opinion.
But i think you should talk to him about it. I broke up with my girl for similar kind of thing. people get really relaxed and don't apretiate there partners when the relationship has been going on for a long time. maybe try something kinky with him lol
Dammit he has the opposite problem to me. Reckon we (he and I that is) ought to swap places! :twisted:
Seriously tho'... I was once a 'sleeping' partner, because it all became too comfortable and easy, and I thought my partner had lost interest in sex.
It led to a downhill spiral, and by the time we tried to sort it out, it was too late.
So first Suze, as others have said, talk to him about it. If you still love each other, then you need to put some excitement into your relationship. Get out on the town together, get some sexy undies and get partying... (But not necessarily in that order )
My guess is he is not getting it elsewhere... Sounds like he just needs energising!
Of course if he has lost interest, and cannot be rejuvenated, then that's a bigger problem for you...
Good luck Suze :therethere:
Seriously tho'... I was once a 'sleeping' partner, because it all became too comfortable and easy, and I thought my partner had lost interest in sex.
It led to a downhill spiral, and by the time we tried to sort it out, it was too late.
So first Suze, as others have said, talk to him about it. If you still love each other, then you need to put some excitement into your relationship. Get out on the town together, get some sexy undies and get partying... (But not necessarily in that order
)My guess is he is not getting it elsewhere... Sounds like he just needs energising!
Of course if he has lost interest, and cannot be rejuvenated, then that's a bigger problem for you...
Good luck Suze :therethere:
Quote by shortouseI know we have problems and after being together for almost 22 yrs we do love each other but everytime i bring the problem up he ignores me. He has suggested we go to Utopia and i said "u could never do that, how could u shag someone else, a stranger, when u cant shag me". He didnt answer so i have had to resort to other measures suffice to say. Its now am, i cant sleep, and this is getting a bit too heavy for this time of night so ill leave it there xx
Dammit he has the opposite problem to me. Reckon we (he and I that is) ought to swap places! :twisted:
Seriously tho'... I was once a 'sleeping' partner, because it all became too comfortable and easy, and I thought my partner had lost interest in sex.
It led to a downhill spiral, and by the time we tried to sort it out, it was too late.
So first Suze, as others have said, talk to him about it. If you still love each other, then you need to put some excitement into your relationship. Get out on the town together, get some sexy undies and get partying... (But not necessarily in that order
My guess is he is not getting it elsewhere... Sounds like he just needs energising!
Of course if he has lost interest, and cannot be rejuvenated, then that's a bigger problem for you...
Good luck Suze :therethere:
Sex God
:sleeping:
eh.....what....
:sleeping:
yeah....yeah...in a minute.....
:sleeping:
oooh sorry....it's a man thing.....now FFS! type quietly...
:sleeping:
eh.....what....
:sleeping:
yeah....yeah...in a minute.....
:sleeping:
oooh sorry....it's a man thing.....now FFS! type quietly...
:sleeping:
suze
how he is awake ask him what the problem is
take some time out and listen to him and see what he suggests.
if he doesnt answer or talk back then ur doubts can be true
like someone said he must be shaggin someone at the back...
or simply he must be very tired from his work (it depends what he does)
but no excuse for not having sex esp with a sexy lady like u
so talk to him xxxxxxxxx
how he is awake ask him what the problem is
take some time out and listen to him and see what he suggests.
if he doesnt answer or talk back then ur doubts can be true
like someone said he must be shaggin someone at the back...
or simply he must be very tired from his work (it depends what he does)
but no excuse for not having sex esp with a sexy lady like u
so talk to him xxxxxxxxx
:D :D
Sex God
Quote by GenHertsCplI resent that comment
Your answer is:- hes male!
Could be worse, he could have fallen asleep on the job! :crazy:
i was out at last night ,came home at midnight ,sat in the house drinking n stuff till , went to bed , then up at with the little un ,,,,and im a male 
:wink: :wink: 
:)